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Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by Greglak: 4:56pm On Jul 18, 2021
Crunchyg2:

Sit her down and in a calm manner tell her that there is something that you have always wanted to tell her but haven't found the right time. It's about you school and explain to her how you didn't finish and end it with the professional courses that you are doing. If she really love you, she won't leave you because of that but if she decided to leave you then know that you guys were never meant to be in the first place

Thank you sir.
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by valentineuwakwe(m): 5:08pm On Jul 18, 2021
Dont kill her love and trust later, better brace u and tell her the truth about your self now that is still early. ..let her know you for whom you are now and tomorrow she will start crying that you lied to her.

I know it will be disheartening but let her know. If she trully love you, she will let go and even assist you to acquire that certificate in your professional courses you are doing NOW .
Good luck.

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Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by Crunchyg2: 5:26pm On Jul 18, 2021
Greglak:


Thank you sir.
Welcome bro
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by Obakashdee(m): 6:19pm On Jul 18, 2021
You lied to her bro, not cool
You must have lied about when you graduated and where you served and so on but you didn’t tell us here
So go and tell her the truth

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Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by MidasO1(m): 9:56pm On Jul 18, 2021
Starboytwo:
Wetin you do pass you carry expo, join cult, steal, harass lecturer, rape wey you nor fit tell person, abegi go front jare.

Or you kill VC?
why do you need such information?
Cant u advise and pass move front?
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by KlasysTech(m): 11:58pm On Jul 18, 2021
So school certificate now one of the requirement for marriage.

Why are Nigerians do like if you are not a graduate, you can't make heaven.

Sometimes I just feel like someone will not make heaven if you are not graduate as a Nigerian.

Stop fooling yourself, who cares if someone is a graduate or not nowadays, when a lots school certificate are running a successful business and company.

The difference between Nigerian University graduate & school cert is not much, the former have a thick papper written degree on it, while the latter doesn't.

With this era of technology, where everyone has access to global educational resources.

Most of those Yahoo that scam white did not finish secondary school, but since they can read & write, then the most educated one who not be the one that attend versity with certificate, but the one that knows how to use the internet & it's reach resources very well.
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by Elmaaq: 5:42am On Jul 19, 2021
Greglak:
I did some very bad things back in the university and i was expelled.

I met this lady few years ago, we started dating and now we engaged (introduction). The thing is, i didn't have the courage to tell her that i didn't complete my university degree untill now that she's starting to have some suspicions.

I have been running some professional courses without her consent bfr i tell her about my expulsion but i might not finish those programs before we get married. Also I'm kinda scared of telling her as her reaction may negatively influence the marriage decision or mayb worse.

I honestly don't know how to go about it. I'm confused
guy say it next time you meet, she stays fine else life moves on
What's most important is the ability to provide mi thinks
You can only go back to school via online or otherwise
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by phemmyfour: 5:53am On Jul 19, 2021
Greglak:
I did some very bad things back in the university and i was expelled.

I met this lady few years ago, we started dating and now we engaged (introduction). The thing is, i didn't have the courage to tell her that i didn't complete my university degree untill now that she's starting to have some suspicions.

I have been running some professional courses without her consent bfr i tell her about my expulsion but i might not finish those programs before we get married. Also I'm kinda scared of telling her as her reaction may negatively influence the marriage decision or mayb worse.

I honestly don't know how to go about it. I'm confused
Just tell her the Whole TRUTH. Don't build your relationship on LIES. The more you delay, the more you are losing what is left of your INTEGRITY
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by benqo01(m): 6:04am On Jul 19, 2021
Just sit her down and tell her the truth,before you process with whatever thing you wan to do shikina
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by haslaw(m): 6:04am On Jul 19, 2021
They will be feeling like some kind of Goliath just because they are cult members.

Mumu-OP, see where your mumu-cultist life has landed you. What exactly do you guys gain from your evil cult activities.

You should consider yourself very lucky as your rival cultists didn't kill you.
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by Freelane33(m): 9:48am On Jul 19, 2021
Simp... buying love not neccesary with money but with every possible ....,,,change your way and become a man that every women die to be with with little or no education . Revalue , reprogram, yourself . Be in charge . Stop acting like a Pvssy
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by GboyegaD(m): 2:43pm On Aug 02, 2021
Greglak:


I did not lie.. I was just not straight. I told her i went to school but i didn't tell her anything about finishing or not.

Take it up from here and tell her. You owe each other openness and if you have repented from whatever led to your expulsion, you should be happy with her decision. Loving someone implies you want them happy, therefore, allow her make whatever choice she feels will make her happy.
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by GboyegaD(m): 2:46pm On Aug 02, 2021
KlasysTech:
So school certificate now one of the requirement for marriage.

Why are Nigerians do like if you are not a graduate, you can't make heaven.

Sometimes I just feel like someone will not make heaven if you are not graduate as a Nigerian.

Stop fooling yourself, who cares if someone is a graduate or not nowadays, when a lots school certificate are running a successful business and company.

The difference between Nigerian University graduate & school cert is not much, the former have a thick papper written degree on it, while the latter doesn't.

With this era of technology, where everyone has access to global educational resources.

Most of those Yahoo that scam white did not finish secondary school, but since they can read & write, then the most educated one who not be the one that attend versity with certificate, but the one that knows how to use the internet & it's reach resources very well.

Everyone has their standard and life isn't all about money. Let people make their choices and you can also make yours.
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by goldstar25(f): 3:17pm On Aug 02, 2021
Never go into a marriage with lies because it never ends well. Tell her the truth and yes she will be hurt but if she truly loves you certificate or no certificate she will stay with you
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by adewaleadeyemi8(m): 7:01pm On Aug 02, 2021
Any relationship that's built on lies and secret won't last. The answers you seek will unfold to you
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by Qatar2022: 8:11pm On Aug 02, 2021
Greglak:
I did some very bad things back in the university and i was expelled.

I met this lady few years ago, we started dating and now we engaged (introduction). The thing is, i didn't have the courage to tell her that i didn't complete my university degree untill now that she's starting to have some suspicions.

I have been running some professional courses without her consent bfr i tell her about my expulsion but i might not finish those programs before we get married. Also I'm kinda scared of telling her as her reaction may negatively influence the marriage decision or mayb worse.

I honestly don't know how to go about it. I'm confused
Kindly open up to her for your own good
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by Lamanii22(f): 10:41pm On Aug 02, 2021
iPrevail:
You are making it sound like she's going to sponsor the wedding or take care of the family undecided

Omor, stop making a mountain out of a molehill. It's your life! You made a mistake, you are trying to fix it... And most importantly, you are doing it for you!

How is it important to her if you completed university degree or not? Pffft!

He might have told her before that he finished from so so university and stuff... But I don't think it's something that can call a wedding off... It's a minor issue... It's not even something to be worried about... My DH didn't finish his uni but I told my mom he did... Although he is currently running a program....
Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancée This. Please Help by iPrevail(m): 4:19am On Aug 03, 2021
Lamanii22:


He might have told her before that he finished from so so university and stuff... But I don't think it's something that can call a wedding off... It's a minor issue... It's not even something to be worried about... My DH didn't finish his uni but I told my mom he did... Although he is currently running a program....

It's 100% not something I would worry about. But it's okay if he decides it's okay to fret over something that minor.

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