Burneracct:
I am a twenty eight year old man. I still live with my parents although I have a job that pays me just under a hundred thousand naira. I haven't had a relationship in a long while and I'm in the process of getting into a relationship but I feel like the fact that I stay with my parents would negatively affect my chances. I'm considering renting an apartment but then these things are quite expensive in lagos. My parents ahve been supportive thus far. Do you think it's a good idea to move out? What affordable housing options are available assuming I'm to move out?

ecolime:
You can be engaged while still staying in your parents house.

Abi na fornication dey hungry you? Talk true

mariahAngel:
While you’re living with them, I hope you’re helping out with the expenses though

Shikini money wey you just start to dey make, you wan begin use am carry woman. Body don dey shack you abi? Better calm down!
After now you go begin give yeye excuse say money no dey your hand when your parents ask.

Stay for a little while longer, at least till you’re able to stand on your own.
It’ll also afford you to save up.

Burneracct:


The woman. And yes I want to get married that's the intent behind my dating.

Unbothered14:

O choro ibu umu nwa....assorted types...

Sex weh go still tire am...

Burneracct:


The woman. And yes I want to get married that's the intent behind my dating.

mariahAngel:


O hugburu onwe ya?

What would you suggest to him?

Unbothered14:

If he is capable to foot his bills, he is free to move...Not everyone is dreaming to own a property or a bigger picture...Some people just want to be comfortable alone...Pay rent, marry have kids and train them, provide food and sleep till old age or transition.

Not everyone is working to become wealthy..

Again, at 28 the urge to have a babe, to love and care is growing exponentially...It is natural no mata how celibate one will want to indulge, the urge will keep coming around.

@21 my last born left to rent his flat...Although everytime na senior bro send me small cash..

I encouraged him sha...It's a journey of responsibilities...But you must have a cool income to enjoy the ride...And a good self control to control attention from opposite gender....If not ihe a ga na taa eeh..

Their is something attractive with a guy or babe having his or her own comfortable apartment with cool income...

mariahAngel:


Well, I think op is yet to fully find his feet.

Unbothered14:

You lose your feet, so you can find it...It's a theory in life...

To be born as a man is a pressure from day1....At 28 responsibility is accumulating...

1.to take care of himself...Needs and wants..

2..To have a SO.

3. To settle down..for procreation.

4. To assist siblings from his side and that of his SO..

5..To be there for the aging parents on both sides.
6. To Acquire more properties.

7. Plus side chics..

List kariri...

It all depends on mindset..if it is telling him pack and go, he should follow the lead.

mariahAngel:


Number 7 o nwere ishi?


I agree with the part sha.

Munzy14:

Lol...

Number7 wu nu unforseen circumstance...Tinye kwara ebe o si bia..Ya wuru nu Igbo anyi, nwoke kpatara ego na e leta nwunye ya anya ofuma...And Nwaanyi na emeta ya obi uto, O nweghi ihe gbasara ya na side chic.

Mana ya wuru e be I no, o di m ka o wuzi normal...Enwere otutu enyi e be ahu...Ma nwoke ma nwaanyi...Even ndi nke no na di, anya ha na no kwa na umu chewing gum boys.

From experience...

mariahAngel:



Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha


Owu eshiokwu o! Mba ahu awudi ya!

Munzy14:

Hehehehe....It's a way of life for them according to her...One of my biz associates, nwoke e be ha o na enyere family ya ka, based on her biz was established on his land...Biara na ayo ya ka ha taa waa o...The lady bu kwa nwunye mmadu o..with kids..She deh tell us the thing the laugh sef.


I asked her why her, ya si m o wu normal..

Di man nwekwara mind sha...Because that lady na serious big lady, but very friendly and generous..Ya wuzi ihe di man ji ezuzu, Ojikwa umu itoolu.

Single ladies no ya wuru nwunye mmadu.

mariahAngel:


Chai!

Nwata Igbo owula kwerela ha di ehn...onye ahu gahiere uzo o!

Munzy14:

Good things can as well come from Nazareth na...


Hapu despite that, they still have good and loyal guys.

O di m ka o wu normal nwa abgohobia i no na ulo nna ya turu ime muo ya ebe ahu...

mariahAngel:

In their case? Hardly.

They’re rare.



It’s not unusual at all.
As in, they see nothing wrong in it. As long as she knows the man who’s responsible for it.

Well, one good thing about their ladies is that once they like you, they’re loyal. They’re not much after money.
Even if you’re still living with your parents, they don’t mind getting pregnant for you and living with you in your parents house.
It’s no surprise to see an educated girl, liking and getting pregnant for an uneducated guy who seemingly has “no prospect”.
They’re not afraid to take risks and weather the storm with a guy they like.
One thing that is also common with them is that they live life each day as it comes. Like, no future plans.

Munzy14:


Chai I gbuola ha...So the rare is like 1/1000..lol

Definitely their is good side of them...But isn't that how it should be when it comes to Relationship...love and loyal.

Yea I av come to see their ladies as risk takers more than umu nwaanyi nke anyi..In fact they are after their own cash not even the bf or hubby own( That my associate wu example) sometimes i joke with her on hustle spirit...She does any business moving and makes good fortune out of it....very opposite of ours..Infact ndi nke anyi di highly entitled mostly ndi nke toro n'ulo ebe a....As long as she has opened leg for the bf, His money is their money...Though there are exceptions, where she simply want to be loved and treated as a queen..But this types are very rare na side anyi a..... Umu yahoo eme bi shiala ha.

Plus malay guys...Infact it is like a prayer point for some families now...Ka ofu onye mba ofesi bia luru nwa ha nwaanyi...Hapu ya ebe a, na ezilatara ha ego..smh

Yes I agree they love the fun life...O di m ka ha na di jealous...ofu megidere anyi ruo during nysc, even mgbe o ma na nwere babe around o..I just bone am...before i mara ihe n'eme ma wuo Onye Iro ya...Ike gwuru...Even turn others against me...trust me na, I had to ghost them....Till i left...nke gbawa ziri the gang obi...

mariahAngel:

O wuhu ashi naaa.
It might seem unusual to you though, but it’s common with them.



It is.




Most times, all they want in return is just loyalty.


Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Umunwaanyi Igbo wucha Obiageri aku!
They’re not to blame though, it’s mostly in how they were raised.
Most Igbo daughters are raised like princesses.




Hehehehehehehehehehehehehe

I ga wu udi umu nwoke ndi ahu that are usually surrounded by females.

Munzy14:

Yea it seemed unusual, but I agree with you...As you grew up there...you know more.

Abii...Igbo princess...biara iri aku.
True sha...but things av changed o...Uwa ugbu a, nwoke chogakwa nwaanyi bu kwa okpata aku...Ya wete bread, nwunye ya eweta akara...Maka ihe uto...and good life.

A family, actually a professor..O gwara m si ya gwara Ada ya si, Uwa ugbu a, nwaanyi must bring something to table...For a good life in the family...Time of Obiageri aku and Odoziaku have gone...Umu nwoke muzi anya now ka azu...

Not just being educated alone, it's about having something doing.

No no...Ihe m wu, wu a lone eagle...That thing happened because of the environment and normal nysc PPA setting.

My friends are mostly female sha, but not that closer...E nwere boundary...especially if I am in a relationship...The babe ga enwe Queen sit amongst all my friends.. Before ihe mmadu a wuru nke onye ozo..lol

mariahAngel:


Yes. Times have changed.





Ok.

She might have a problem with it if she’s the jealous type.

Munzy14:

Yea...


Mba o...If I am in a relationship and my SO isn't cool with some stuffs, I will work on it...I ma obi di nwaanyi mma, ya mere her man giveaway...

So obi na di ya mma oge n'ile gi mara na aha enyi ya nwoke ma o wu di ga wuzi palliative..

Burneracct:
I am a twenty eight year old man. I still live with my parents although I have a job that pays me just under a hundred thousand naira. I haven't had a relationship in a long while and I'm in the process of getting into a relationship but I feel like the fact that I stay with my parents would negatively affect my chances. I'm considering renting an apartment but then these things are quite expensive in lagos. My parents ahve been supportive thus far. Do you think it's a good idea to move out? What affordable housing options are available assuming I'm to move out?

mariahAngel:


Palliative.

NoToPile:
I don't really get what the issue is with young men rushing to move out, shuu.

Gain some financial stability naa

Burneracct:
I must say I'm surprised at the comments I have received. I was thinking its silly to have stayed this long. The reason I stayed so far was because I've been saving up to relocate to a foreign country. Most of my friends have their apartments though. I just wanted to see if I was wrong for thinking differently.

mariahAngel:


As in!

It’s not like there’s pressure or anything to be ashamed of, since everyone knows the situation of the country.

Burneracct:
I am a twenty eight year old man. I still live with my parents although I have a job that pays me just under a hundred thousand naira. I haven't had a relationship in a long while and I'm in the process of getting into a relationship but I feel like the fact that I stay with my parents would negatively affect my chances. I'm considering renting an apartment but then these things are quite expensive in lagos. My parents ahve been supportive thus far. Do you think it's a good idea to move out? What affordable housing options are available assuming I'm to move out?

mariahAngel:


Number 7 o nwere ishi?


I agree with the last part sha.

Unbothered14:

Raymond0008:
What if you marry, will you and your wife stay in your parents house! My guy try to they settle things yourself early make e no choke when you start paying bills, like electricity, light even food atimes. I left home at 15yrs old and almost the same age with you.