What does a Man want?

To answer this question you have to understand the man in question. At what level of his life is he at?

Is he looking for stability?
Does he have a gigantuous goal he wants to achieve and needs someone to spur him to greater heights?
Is he looking for a relief or escape from his challenges and you can provide succor to him?

You have to look at it from that perceptive, and the conversation you will have with him will give you insight on what he wants.

If he wants stability, he has made it or feels he has made it and want to consolidate his holding or stabilize his life.
What he's looking for is mostly a stay at home Woman, he will provide your needs and take care of you. At this point they look for a snack on the arm, a trophy wife.

If he wants to achieve greater heights, then he will always talk about his dream, his goal. He may need your objective perspective, to come in and evaluate his option or help him achieve it. At this point this is the long suffering girlfriend. You will spend time however it will be worth it in the end. Eg Simi

If he want to escape his challenges/stress for a while then he's looking for company to vent; sexual or a listening ear. At this point the relationship is friends with benefit, sugar daddy and Oloshos.

This will help you decipher if you want to stick with him or not.

Also, for Ladies dont forget that you may want want him but he may not want you.

EIP, LMIB.