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What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 6:42pm On Jan 12
What does the average Nigerian adult male want from the average Nigerian woman? The answer to this question is elusive to many other reasonable ladies that I have come across in life.

Today, you see the pretty and flashy women get most of the guys and you all like: "It is because they look pretty and flashy."

Tomorrow, the men come online and say: "We don't like ladies with artificial hair, nails, bla bla bla." Yet you don't see most of the average looking /modest women with them on the street.

Now, the new narrative is Nigerian women are high maintenance, lazy, demanding... Who introduced them to that lifestyle? Certainly not their female counterparts!

All these endless posts on how Nigerian women are demanding, oloshos, jobless and the rest, are beginning to expose how confused, irrelevant and frustrated some Nigerian men are fast becoming.

You complain about high maintenance women, yet you won't go for the hardworking, thrifty and modest Nigerian woman, because she doesn't have the bling, bling or superb look that you so much cherish.

Bros, abeg, is it Angel Michael who will foot the bills? Have you checked how much a good wig, lotion or makeup costs recently?

Abeg, cut your Agbada according to your lace or Aso-oke material. Soup when sweet, na money kill am.

If you can't spend on an expensive but good looking woman, those of us who are hardworking, modest and thrifty bokun for Nigeria. There is one to suit your modest personality and pocket. Just remember that some of us do not have the captivating and posh look you so much desire.

So, my Brotherman, what do you want?

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by ibkonekt(m): 6:45pm On Jan 12
virgins, loyal, submissive, young, fertile.

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by OGWILLS123: 6:47pm On Jan 12
Nigerian girls are useless angry

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Kriss216: 6:51pm On Jan 12
Since the inception of this Movement(SMAN), Nigeria Oloshos seems to be pained and in premium tears, why?

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 6:53pm On Jan 12
ibkonekt:
virgins, loyal, submissive, young, fertile.

Good luck, Bro!
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by StacyO(f): 6:54pm On Jan 12
They don't even know what they want.




But, I'll tell ya.

Modified::
They want ass and boobs but,no-----They don't want a Lady who has only ass and boobs to offer.

They want a working class lady but,no-----They don't want a woman who will make more money than them,neither do they need a full house wife.

They want a virgin but,no---- They want a full time slot on bed,one who would make their heads burst.

They don't want an illiterate but,no-----They feel insecure when a girl challenges them intellectually.

I got into something with a white guy one time then,considering the fact they're always sexually insatiable. A day into the relationship, he's already demanding for sex.
I kept coming up with different excuses(mind you an observation was taking place).
The guy threatened fire and water from hell. lol
Didn't give up at all (considering the fact I don't even like white guys undecided)

Actually, it wasn't killing him,it was making him fall in love.
He finally let it out when I least expected, he said and I quote
"With you,I realized that sex wasn't everything in a relationship"

A sex freak said that!!! Shit is real
He still didn't get it sha,maybe I'm that stingy when it comes to that aspect. "wink



What I'm trying to state from that write up.

Nigerian ladies,sex doesn't keep a man. No matter what style you position yourself in bed,he'll still leave you when he meets a girl who can control his insatiable urge for sex.

@op,they don't need sex.
They need someone who can control them from the other end,someone who they can trust.
Trust me,an average Nigerian man when he goes into a relationship with you,the next thing on his mind is how to fvck your figure 8 to figure 8 pro max.

It's left to you as the woman to decide whether you want commitment OR sex. "wink







Look into this thread on what they said they actually need.
I hope you don't get confused.

https://www.nairaland.com/6148380/sex-relationship-ladies-dont-deceived

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 6:54pm On Jan 12
OGWILLS123:
Nigerian girls are useless angry

That means we should flog our parents and the men that are confusing us, right?
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by RisenPhoenix1(m): 6:55pm On Jan 12
Patiks:
What does the average Nigerian adult male want from the average Nigerian woman? The answer to this question is elusive to many other reasonable ladies that I have come across in life.

Today, you see the pretty and flashy women get most of the guys and you all like: "It is because they look pretty and flashy."

Tomorrow, the men come online and say: "We don't like ladies with artificial hair, nails, bla bla bla." Yet you don't see most of the average looking /modest women with them on the street.

Now, the new narrative is Nigerian women are high maintenance, lazy, demanding... Who introduced them to that lifestyle? Certainly not their female counterparts!

All these endless posts on how Nigerian women are demanding, oloshos, jobless and the rest, are beginning to expose how confused, irrelevant and frustrated some Nigerian men are fast becoming.

You complain about high maintenance women, yet you won't go for the hardworking, thrifty and modest Nigerian woman, because she doesn't have the bling, bling or superb look that you so much cherish.

Bros, abeg, is it Angel Michael who will foot the bills? Have you checked how much a good wig, lotion or makeup costs recently?

Abeg, cut your Agbada according to your lace or Aso-oke material. Soup when sweet, na money kill am.

If you can't spend on an expensive but good looking woman, those of us who are hardworking, modest and thrifty bokun for Nigeria. There is one to suit your modest personality and pocket. Just remember that some of us do not have the captivating and posh look you so much desire.

So, my Brotherman, what do you want?

You are wrong my sister, we do go for the hardworking, thrifty and modest Nigerian woman, but only when we want to get married. Bling bling women are only for a quick lay and to parade in front of the brothers as trophy conquests. But these days, trophy conquests are looking stale and homogenous (they all use the same bleach, face paint, fake parts and false hair) so no man wants to pay through the nose to parade a bling bling girl when every other guys' girlfriends look almost exactly the same.

Just my take.

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by InfernoNig(m): 6:55pm On Jan 12
Truth be told. We men want Peace. Peace in the morning, peace in the afternoon and peace at night.

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Zebulun15(m): 6:55pm On Jan 12
OGWILLS123:
Nigerian girls are useless angry

If u say so i agree with u
But remeber ur mother is useless too .

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Kriss216: 6:57pm On Jan 12
Zebulun15:

If u say so i agree with u But remeber ur mother is useless too .
His mom is a woman not a girl!

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 6:57pm On Jan 12
StacyO:
They don't even know what they want.




But, I'll tell ya.

Please, let us know. These green lights, red lights, yellow lights will just make us to enter express before we know it.
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Kriss216: 6:59pm On Jan 12
StacyO:
They don't even know what they want.




But, I'll tell ya.
Aside smelly kpekus and numerous STDs, what can 99.9% of you girls offer in a relationship?

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by tidalstorm(m): 7:05pm On Jan 12
InfernoNig:
Truth be told. We men want Peace. Peace in the morning, peace in the afternoon and peace at night.

mehn shun, girls wey their name na peace dey bill oh. grin

Na so i get one for area.
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 7:06pm On Jan 12
RisenPhoenix1:


You are wrong my sister, we do go for the hardworking, thrifty and modest Nigerian woman, but only when we want to get married. Bling bling women are only for a quick lay and to parade in front of the brothers as trophy conquests. But these days, trophy conquests are looking stale and homogenous (they all use the same bleach, face paint, fake parts and false hair) so no man wants to pay through the nose to parade a bling bling girl when every other guys' girlfriends look almost exactly the same.

Just my take.

Hmmmn!

Well, you guys should also learn to gallantly man up to the demands of the 'trophy conquest' while it lasts.

Just leave the rest out of your adventure or fortune.

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by amazing101x: 7:06pm On Jan 12
Trust , for men trust equals love. If any lady can make a man gain his trust , he will love her forever . but you can't fake it. most ladies are naturally not trust worthy. they will even say "don't you trust me". you earn trust. Most guys will go for a trust worthy lady for a virgin he can't trust. We are always watching, you visit a guy, you put your phone on airplane mode, we know. you pick a call and start reducing the volumn of your speaker, we know. you put three password on your phone with finger print on your whatsap , we know.

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 7:09pm On Jan 12
Kriss216:

Aside smelly kpekus and numerous STDs, what can 99.9% of you girls offer in a relationship?

The same STDS you gave them na. What else will you be expecting from such relationships? grin ; shocked shocked

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by StacyO(f): 7:09pm On Jan 12
Kriss216:

Aside smelly kpekus and numerous STDs, what can 99.9% of you girls offer in a relationship?

Kikikikikiki

I don't know who is offering you what you don't even deserve.
Sex is something done by two married adults.

Literally, they both enjoy the moment. I don't know who is offering who their private part.

Vaginal smell isn't recorded in many ladies.

Vagina is called fish in some countries, why? Cause naturally the vagina in some cases give out a fishy smell.


99.9% is all what your imaginary upper case produced.

Learn not to stereotype.

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 7:10pm On Jan 12
[quote author=amazing101x post=97992225]Trust , for men trust equals love. If any lady can make a man gain his trust , he will love her forever . but you can't fake it. most ladies are naturally not trust worthy. they will even say "don't you trust me". you earn trust. Most guys will go for a trust worthy lady for a virgin he can't trust. We are always watching, you visit a guy, you put your phone on airplane mode, we know. you pick a call and start reducing the volumn of your speaker, we know. you put three password on your phone with finger print on your whatsap , we know. [/quote

shocked shocked shocked]
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Kriss216: 7:12pm On Jan 12
StacyO:


Kikikikikiki

I don't know who is offering you what you don't even deserve.
Sex is something done by two married adults.

Literally, they both enjoy the moment. I don't know who is offering who their private part.

Vaginal smell isn't recorded in many ladies.

Vagina is called fish in some countries, why? Cause naturally the vagina in some cases give out a fishy smell.


99.9% is all what your imaginary upper case produced.

Learn not to stereotype.
Not all vagina smells. you need to get yourself treated.
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by StacyO(f): 7:17pm On Jan 12
Kriss216:

Not all vagina smells. you need to get yourself treated.

What are you typing,what am I typing??

undecided
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 7:17pm On Jan 12
Kriss216:

Not all vagina smells. you need to get yourself treated.

StacyO:


Kikikikikiki

I don't know who is offering you what you don't even deserve.
Sex is something done by two married adults.

Literally, they both enjoy the moment. I don't know who is offering who their private part.

Vaginal smell isn't recorded in many ladies.

Vagina is called fish in some countries, why? Cause naturally the vagina in some cases give out a fishy smell.


99.9% is all what your imaginary upper case produced.

Learn not to stereotype.
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by onlyhope: 7:29pm On Jan 12
StacyO:


Kikikikikiki

I don't know who is offering you what you don't even deserve.
Sex is something done by two married adults.

Literally, they both enjoy the moment. I don't know who is offering who their private part.

Vaginal smell isn't recorded in many ladies.

Vagina is called fish in some countries, why? Cause naturally the vagina in some cases give out a fishy smell.


99.9% is all what your imaginary upper case produced.

Learn not to stereotype.
This is one of the most hilarious comments I've read on NL. So it is called 'fish' in some places because it smells like rotten fish. This is hilarious....
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Erotix: 7:32pm On Jan 12
Money, Affluence, power, and good looks
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by RisenPhoenix1(m): 7:33pm On Jan 12
Patiks:


Hmmmn!

Well, you guys should also learn to gallantly man up to the demands of the 'trophy conquest' while it lasts.

Just leave the rest out of your adventure or fortune.

Like I said in the second part of my comment, trophy conquests don't seem so trophy like any more; and the jealousy factor that they excite in your fellow man has largely disappeared. Underneath all that paint, fake lashes, fake nails etc, the most local farmer's daughter has as much to offer than any flashy woman. Also, what a woman conceives to be pretty is not the same as what a man conceives to be pretty. Women think fake and flashy is pretty. Men think simple and honest to be pretty. Men only flock around the fake and flashily because the perception is that she's the cheaper lay.

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 8:42pm On Jan 12
RisenPhoenix1:


Like I said in the second part of my comment, trophy conquests don't seem so trophy like any more; and the jealousy factor that they excite in your fellow man has largely disappeared. Underneath all that paint, fake lashes, fake nails etc, the most local farmer's daughter has as much to offer than any flashy woman. Also, what a woman conceives to be pretty is not the same as what a man conceives to be pretty. Women think fake and flashy is pretty. Men think simple and honest to be pretty. Men only flock around the fake and flashily because the perception is that she's the cheaper lay.

Wow! I really don't know what to say now.

I am learning, I guess.
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks: 8:47pm On Jan 12
@RisenPhoenix1

Your dp is quite motivational.
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by 99thEnemy(m): 8:52pm On Jan 12
Kriss216:

Not all vagina smells. you need to get yourself treated.
grin grin grin
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by allandutch: 9:49pm On Jan 12
Patiks:
What does the average Nigerian adult male want from the average Nigerian woman? The answer to this question is elusive to many other reasonable ladies that I have come across in life.

Today, you see the pretty and flashy women get most of the guys and you all like: "It is because they look pretty and flashy."

Tomorrow, the men come online and say: "We don't like ladies with artificial hair, nails, bla bla bla." Yet you don't see most of the average looking /modest women with them on the street.

Now, the new narrative is Nigerian women are high maintenance, lazy, demanding... Who introduced them to that lifestyle? Certainly not their female counterparts!

All these endless posts on how Nigerian women are demanding, oloshos, jobless and the rest, are beginning to expose how confused, irrelevant and frustrated some Nigerian men are fast becoming.

You complain about high maintenance women, yet you won't go for the hardworking, thrifty and modest Nigerian woman, because she doesn't have the bling, bling or superb look that you so much cherish.

Bros, abeg, is it Angel Michael who will foot the bills? Have you checked how much a good wig, lotion or makeup costs recently?

Abeg, cut your Agbada according to your lace or Aso-oke material. Soup when sweet, na money kill am.

If you can't spend on an expensive but good looking woman, those of us who are hardworking, modest and thrifty bokun for Nigeria. There is one to suit your modest personality and pocket. Just remember that some of us do not have the captivating and posh look you so much desire.

So, my Brotherman, what do you want?

Loyalty. Trust. Love. Respect.?

Your post here is just too sentimental. You're blaming men for everything because they desire flashy women? You are missing the point.

There's nothing wrong with desiring flashy women. But as a matter of fact, in this country, you will pay for desiring any woman at all, flashy or not. The none-flashy women that you are suggesting as a better alternative, these days, they will make you pay for just asking them out.

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by RisenPhoenix1(m): 10:15pm On Jan 12
Patiks:
@RisenPhoenix1

Your dp is quite motivational.

Thank you, glad you liked it. But much as I would love to take the credit, the thought was actually that of the black nationalist; Marcus Garvey (though the picture on my dp wrongly attributed the quote to Cicero, another orator and nationalist I strongly admire.).

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by udumelue61854: 11:43pm On Jan 12
:virgins, loyal, submissive, young, fertile.Good luck, Bro!
Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by phazotron(m): 12:11am On Jan 13
amazing101x:
Trust , for men trust equals love. If any lady can make a man gain his trust , he will love her forever . but you can't fake it. most ladies are naturally not trust worthy. they will even say "don't you trust me". you earn trust. Most guys will go for a trust worthy lady for a virgin he can't trust. We are always watching, you visit a guy, you put your phone on airplane mode, we know. you pick a call and start reducing the volumn of your speaker, we know. you put three password on your phone with finger print on your whatsap , we know.


You sabi.

Character can never be hidden.

You no need to become monitoring spirit to catch girl Wey dey cheat.

Just observe her behaviour, how she talks and who she rolls with.

Sooner or later she go expose herself.

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