Advice really needed from experienced people/married couples on this....Is God an author of confusion?

When a man is in love with a lady he is dating and want to take it to the next level(marriage). Initially, he did some spiritual checking by submitting the lady's name to a trusted man of God(that has also help people in the past) for prayers and fasting, after some days he was told to go ahead with marriage plans with the lady, that the lady is good.

However, in order for him to be convinced again, he also submitted the lady's name to another man of God which his friend adviced him to cos the other man of God was the one that endorse the friend's wife that he married. But this time around, the friend's man of God rejected the lady's name. Now he is confused, but he really love the lady and really sure they are compatible.

Advice needed please....make una help push am for front page.

na that confusion weyn you dey find.. na him you go see

lexotan:
Advice really needed from experienced people/married couples on this....Is God an author of confusion?

When a man is in love with a lady he is dating and want to take it to the next level(marriage). Initially, he did some spiritual checking by submitting the lady's name to a trusted man of God(that has also help people in the past) for prayers and fasting, after some days he was told to go ahead with marriage plans with the lady, that the lady is good.

However, in order for him to be convinced again, he also submitted the lady's name to another man of God which his friend adviced him to cos the other man of God was the one that endorse the friend's wife that he married. But this time around, the friend's man of God rejected the lady's name. Now he is confused, but he really love the lady and really sure they are compatible.

Advice needed please....make una help push am for front page.

First and foremost it is wrong submitting ladies and guys names to men of God up and down.
The guy should learn to receive the leadings of God by himself, it should not be until time of marriage before any of both parties need to have a good walk with God.
Moreover marriage must also be looked at from the lenses of physical attraction, mental health and capacity, emotional health and financial responsibility.
If you noticed any form of dysfunctionality that will be dentrimental to you don't move on, more than praying shine your eyes. Bible says watch and pray not seeking for prophetic leading for marriage.

This thread dey confuse me.
I read this thread three times but I no still understand.
We go help u push am to the back page.

Ynix:

First and foremost it is wrong submitting ladies and guys names to men of God up and down.
The guy should learn to receive the leadings of God by himself, it should not be until time of marriage before any of both parties need to have a good walk with God.
Moreover marriage must also be looked at from the lenses of physical attraction, mental health and capacity, emotional health and financial responsibility.
If you noticed any form of dysfunctionality that will be dentrimental to you don't move on, more than praying shine your eyes. Bible says watch and pray not seeking for prophetic leading for marriage.

God bless you

Ynix:

First and foremost it is wrong submitting ladies and guys names to men of God up and down.
The guy should learn to receive the leadings of God by himself, it should not be until time of marriage before any of both parties need to have a good walk with God.
Moreover marriage must also be looked at from the lenses of physical attraction, mental health and capacity, emotional health and financial responsibility.
If you noticed any form of dysfunctionality that will be dentrimental to you don't move on, more than praying shine your eyes. Bible says watch and pray not seeking for prophetic leading for marriage.

This is it OP. I wish i could 'like' this multiplf times.

Doja2000:
This thread dey confuse me.
I read this thread three times but I no still understand.
We go help u push am to the back page.

Summarize.... submitting the lady's name to two different man of God, one said YES, the other said NO.

I don't believe in Nigerian Men of God...I would rather speak with a Buddhist Monk.


My sense of judgement is far better than theirs. They were created for people who have difficulty using their brains.

yomi007k:
I don't believe in Nigerian Men of God...I would rather speak with a Buddhist Monk.


My sense of judgement is far better than theirs. They were created for people who have difficulty using their brains.

lexotan:

God bless you

amen and you too, thanks

lexotan:

Summarize.... submitting the lady's name to two different man of God, one said YES, the other said NO.

A man of God can't decide whether he should marry her or not. He knows his woman more than those men of God.

why must you hand over her name to a man of God

lexotan:

Summarize.... submitting the lady's name to two different man of God, one said YES, the other said NO.

Oh..... Na now I understand
He should marry her joor.
Those men of God stuffs are just bullsh!t.

Op Are they not in relationship abi they just newly known each other??


Cus they must be cohabiting and observing one's character and ya mentioned that they're compatible!!


Naija pastor's na hustler's they need's money To survive(just bribe am and see turn-around)



E be things..

Let me teach some of us what we don't know.
1. God doesn't give a man a wife. The Bible said "he that findeth a good wife, findeth a good thing". A man should find his wife.
2. From the above, you have to be spiritual (in Christ) for you to know the kind of woman you are marrying. Some of them have link with negative spirits ( including men), some of them have been used by Yahoo boys... and so on.
This is why you need to have an actual relationship with your Creator (you don't need any pastor for this)
3. Correct me if I am wrong, the only man whom God gave a wife was Adam. Now when the wife whom God gave to Adam caused him to sin and brought about his downfall, the same Adam judged God by telling God " it is the woman that you gave to me that caused me sin, she gave me the fruit"
4. But God has given us instructions on how and where to find a good wife.
If you read the book of Genesis, God instructions to the " sons of God (those who of righteous spirit)" not to marry the"daughters of man(those from the"other side")". But when the"sons of God" saw that the daughters of men were fair (beautiful), they lusted after them and started to marry them and the gave birth "giants (by interpretation meaning wicked men, who did evil)". Now this was during the time of the Noah ( the patriarch, like Abraham), but Noah as a son of God didn't disobey the instruction given and didn't marry from the daughters of men.( That's why he was the only righteous man in his time). Let me digress, "Righteousness of God to us is our ability to keep to his instructions".