Psychology says that six major things can hold from human beings from personal growth. Which is your poison?

1. Relationship:
Your current relationship circle does not understand or support your growth.

2. Trauma:
You are unable to grow because your past trauma is blocking you. And are, therefore, stuck in a merry go round.

3. Fear:
You are afraid of judgment or failure in your new direction.

4. Patterns:
These are your daily habits, the way you act around people, especially your friends. Your daily patterns and your habits are what sums up your life. What you do every day becomes your yearly habit and if the pattern is not broken, one won't make much progress in life. We become what the choices we make and what we do every day.

5. Resources and Resourcefulness:
You have a lack of necessary resources to make a change. While lack of resources could be a challenge, lack of resourcefulness is way worse. Give a resourceful man 500k, and he will build a business worth 5 million in 5 years. Give an unresourceful man 5million, and he will be lucky to have a business worth 500k in 5 years.

6. Beliefs:
" As a man thinketh in his heart, so he is"

You can't grow more than your belief system, and you cannot become what you do not believe in.

Pre-existing beliefs are preventing you from taking action. It's better than making a decision and failing, than regretting the decision you never took. But ensure you do diligent research and count the cost.

Shalom.

Nice article... Thanks for sharing

Awwww. The truth. Meanwhile, I must admit that 1,3 and 4 affect me. Now I have to break them, by Grace of God

My only stumbling block right now is fear....Like what'd people say if I should fail even tho there's no one who plans on failing...But in life, success and failure are two certain things that no man should over look...

Las las cha,I dey pray to God say as I wor venture into the new business wey I get for my mind so,make he help me bury my fear...

True but God blesses whoever He pleases irrespective of family and educational background, ethnicity, religion or location.
The race is not to the Swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill, but Time and chance happeneth to them all. Ecc 9.11

I disagree with you OP
Personal growth is broad for u to HV mentioned dos few points up there
Your own personal growth could be different from mine.
I come in peace o

U didn’t add money

good one here.

That NO. 6 is the REALEST THING ooooh..
I'm HAPPY today's YOUTH don dey CONQUER AM....

Very correct. No 4 needs to be look into. It is what is worrying PMB now that is affecting the entire nation.

1,3 and 4 are the worst

Things holding you from Personal growth IMO

1. Fap Fap Fap..... You'll channel all your energy towards this.

2. Kpa kpa kpa..... The moment you cumm.... You'll come back to your senses.

3. Chai Chai Chai.... Regretting past mistakes instead of moving on and learn from them.

4. Yes Yes Yes..... Thinking you're the best instead of you to focus and become better than you were yesterday....

Money... You forgot to add that op.

Add oloshos for me

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Jo soapy

Abeg add Obi Cubana or Kanayo O Kanayo Money � and better sponsors

Tokskob2008:
Money... You forgot to add that op.

Money is part of resources na.

litigator:
Psychology says that six major things can hold from human beings from personal growth. Which is your poison?

1. Relationship:
Your current relationship circle does not understand or support your growth.

2. Trauma:
You are unable to grow because your past trauma is blocking you. And are, therefore, stuck in a merry go round.

3. Fear:
You are afraid of judgment or failure in your new direction.

4. Patterns:
These are your daily habits, the way you act around people, especially your friends. Your daily patterns and your habits are what sums up your life. What you do every day becomes your yearly habit and if the pattern is not broken, one won't make much progress in life. We become what the choices we make and what we do every day.

5. Resources and Resourcefulness:
You have a lack of necessary resources to make a change. While lack of resources could be a challenge, lack of resourcefulness is way worse. Give a resourceful man 500k, and he will build a business worth 5 million in 5 years. Give an unresourceful man 5million, and he will be lucky to have a business worth 500k in 5 years.

6. Beliefs:
" As a man thinketh in his heart, so he is"

You can't grow more than your belief system, and you cannot become what you do not believe in.

Pre-existing beliefs are preventing you from taking action. It's better than making a decision and failing, than regretting the decision you never took. But ensure you do diligent research and count the cost.

Shalom.

Add money. When there is money in your account, it boost your self esteem and this will influence your decision positively

DoggoneDogg:
Add oloshos for me

That's part of the pattern also known or called daily habits or choices

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Add money. When there is money in your account, it boost your self esteem and this will influence your decision positively[/quote

Money is part of resources. The funniest thing is that lack of ideas is worse than lack of money. Don't you think so?

oluseyiforjesus:
I disagree with you OP
Personal growth is broad for u to HV mentioned dos few points up there
Your own personal growth could be different from mine.
I come in peace o

So list others you felt I ommitted, let's see if they fit into any of these

Good points � tbf

Nice write up….#6 is key.
I didn’t realize the essence of belief in oneself until last week. I sailed through a prestigious certification with a 2week preparation plan, even after a friend/mentor told me it wasn’t possible.
In his words “it doesn’t matter how smart you are, 2weeks isn’t sufficient “. At first this almost got to me, but I told myself he doesn’t know me like I know me.

To cut the long story short, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise “ You are your worse enemy” if people look down on you, don’t look down on yourself.