DoggoneDogg:


Not for me. Mine is addiction, not habit.

What are you addicted to. So someone who has overcome can help you with tips and guidelines to do the same.

litigator:


Nah! I am a male

Okay.
Dey go

ibechris:
I agree with u on number 5,because I am a product of that part.

I grew 300k i saved during my University and NYSC days to 47million in 9years.

And because friends don't always believe in me,I discarded all of them and I am left with one and my wife who, at least understands me better.
Life continues.

what were you into then sir?

Good writteup

All dis things mentioned is affecting me from 1-6 is my major problem

GeneralPula:
7.. Procrastination

God bless you for this addition. My biggest undoing looking at myself.

This is wisdom, and thanks for sharing

litigator:


Observe the pattern and the exact time your craving is at its peak. Once you observe the pattern you will be able to flee. You can't fight it. You just have to flee.

nice thread bro....pls how do one discover his passion in life?

G

oluseyiforjesus:
I disagree with you OP
Personal growth is broad for u to HV mentioned dos few points up there
Your own personal growth could be different from mine.
I come in peace o

Let us know what you think is Missing.

DoggoneDogg:


Okay.
Dey go

rukz:
nice thread bro....pls how do one discover his passion in life?

What do you like to do for free? Find it, improve on it and learn to monetize it. Someone said earlier on the front page that he has a passion for travelling or so.

So that person has found his passion and he is now trying to monetize it by either working for an employer in that sector or create a job for himself by being self-employed.

If he is serious enough and has grace in his side, he will have his own company and become an employer of labour too.

That is how it works.

Bekermann:


God bless you for this addition. My biggest undoing looking at myself.

The way fastest way to beat procrastination is by just showing up every day, and improving by at least 1% other days.

In a month, you will see a 30% improvement. Then compound your improvement %. You will be shocked at how fast you will achieve 70-300% improvement in a month.

The key is to get a to-do list. List all you wish to do that month, show up, do 1% on the first day and improve by 1% or more every other day. It's that simple.

It's called the gym effect.

U said most of it if not All. Nice and meaningful thread.

GeneralPula:
7.. Procrastination

This is a major.

GeneralPula:
7.. Procrastination

is the key to delayed sucess.

Thank you �

Only no. 5 is my major challenge

3. Fear:
You are afraid of judgment or failure in your new
This is me,still working and trying to outgrow it.so help me God.

Eastcoastboy:


What are you addicted to. So someone who has overcome can help you with tips and guidelines to do the same.

Masturbation ruining my life

litigator:
Psychology says that six major things can hold from human beings from personal growth. Which is your poison?

1. Relationship:
Your current relationship circle does not understand or support your growth.

2. Trauma:
You are unable to grow because your past trauma is blocking you. And are, therefore, stuck in a merry go round.

3. Fear:
You are afraid of judgment or failure in your new direction.

4. Patterns:
These are your daily habits, the way you act around people, especially your friends. Your daily patterns and your habits are what sums up your life. What you do every day becomes your yearly habit and if the pattern is not broken, one won't make much progress in life. We become what the choices we make and what we do every day.

5. Resources and Resourcefulness:
You have a lack of necessary resources to make a change. While lack of resources could be a challenge, lack of resourcefulness is way worse. Give a resourceful man 500k, and he will build a business worth 5 million in 5 years. Give an unresourceful man 5million, and he will be lucky to have a business worth 500k in 5 years.

6. Beliefs:
" As a man thinketh in his heart, so he is"

You can't grow more than your belief system, and you cannot become what you do not believe in.

Pre-existing beliefs are preventing you from taking action. It's better than making a decision and failing, than regretting the decision you never took. But ensure you do diligent research and count the cost.

Shalom.

nice one OP, my major challenge is that i easily get overwhelmed and find it difficult to stay focus on set goals. i wish to have a mentor or an instrument that will help me focus, monitor, measure and evaluate my level of progress on desired goals. i'd also love to be part of a team where vulnerabilities can be freely discussed and help one another find their life paths. any advice, suggestions or recommendation will be greatly appreciated.

touchLife:

nice one OP, my major challenge is that i easily get overwhelmed and find it difficult to stay focus on set goals. i wish to have a mentor or an instrument that will help me focus, monitor, measure and evaluate my level of progress on desired goals. i'd also love to be part of a team where vulnerabilities can be freely discussed and help one another find their life paths. any advice, suggestions or recommendation will be greatly appreciated.

I think I should set up a close group like the ask the litigator group.

Pay close attention. It will be announced soon.

Really

litigator:


I think I should set up a close group like the ask the litigator group.

Pay close attention. It will be announced soon.

That will come in handy, I shall keep a close tab. thanks a lot.

litigator:


Observe the pattern and the exact time your craving is at its peak. Once you observe the pattern you will be able to flee. You can't fight it. You just have to flee.

I have same problem. How do you mean run, not fight?.

alizma:

Add money. When there is money in your account, it boost your self esteem and this will influence your decision positively

Money comes from inside you.

Everybody was born naked without money. Obi, Emoney, you, me.

Money shouldn't be in the list.

Really

Numbers 2 & 3 are my nightmares

litigator:
Psychology says that six major things can hold from human beings from personal growth. Which is your poison?

1. Relationship:
Your current relationship circle does not understand or support your growth.

2. Trauma:
You are unable to grow because your past trauma is blocking you. And are, therefore, stuck in a merry go round.

3. Fear:
You are afraid of judgment or failure in your new direction.

4. Patterns:
These are your daily habits, the way you act around people, especially your friends. Your daily patterns and your habits are what sums up your life. What you do every day becomes your yearly habit and if the pattern is not broken, one won't make much progress in life. We become what the choices we make and what we do every day.

5. Resources and Resourcefulness:
You have a lack of necessary resources to make a change. While lack of resources could be a challenge, lack of resourcefulness is way worse. Give a resourceful man 500k, and he will build a business worth 5 million in 5 years. Give an unresourceful man 5million, and he will be lucky to have a business worth 500k in 5 years.

6. Beliefs:
" As a man thinketh in his heart, so he is"

You can't grow more than your belief system, and you cannot become what you do not believe in.

Pre-existing beliefs are preventing you from taking action. It's better than making a decision and failing, than regretting the decision you never took. But ensure you do diligent research and count the cost.

Shalom.

Sequel to the above
Why are you broke?
is it lack of Knowledge
is it lack of Guidance
is it lack of Resources

Addictions and Habits nko ?

okeyumez:
True but God blesses whoever He pleases irrespective of family and educational background, ethnicity, religion or location.
The race is not to the Swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill, but Time and chance happeneth to them all. Ecc 9.11

To me personal growth is different from blessings, the story of ants in the Bible is very valid for successful personal growth.