So something has been disturbing me. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend since September 2019. I intend to marry her.

The problem is that, I don’t desire her sexually. Any intimate touch from her feels like the touch from a blood sister. Very uncomfortable.

She is a strict Christian with a policy of no premarital sex.

So we have never had sex except for occasional kissing and romance which I sometimes initiate.

However, since January this year, I have lost sexual attraction towards her and I avoid even simple touches.

In fact, last Sunday we were walking down the street and when she placed her arms around my shoulder, I stylishly evaded it. I don’t feel like this towards every other woman.

I’m currently not seeing any other lady, but I have had sexual flings with two different ladies, including an ex.

Question Is: Is Sexual Attraction/desire Necessary For Marriage?
Is it normal not to feel sexually attracted to your partner? Can this be a basis for break-up, as I fear it might persist in marriage and make me cheat on her?

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