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Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Toks2008(m): 9:57am On Aug 01, 2021
Myer:


Lol @ the wet dreams angle.
The truth is there's no mention of masturbation in the bible. Whether it's a sin or not becomes a subject of human discretion and a personal leading of the holy spirit.

God help us all.

Guy I am holy spirit filled, heaven bound believer in christ Jesus... I study the words and I'm not writing from human philosophy...

MASTBATION IS HEALTHY, NEVER A SIN But the problem with it like any other act is that you could get addicted.

It is the addiction that makes it crazy just like people get addicted to alcohol which the intake is not a sin but the excessive intake which leads to drunkenness.

Just like gluttony is a sin as in eating too much so you kinda wonder how eating too much can be tagged a sin but it is the addiction.

So mstbation is not a sin and was never tagged a sin but the devil has used it as a tool to make many believers feel guilty and give up their salvation.

It will amaze you that many believers are in hell today because they gave up their salvation due to the fact that they find themselves mastbating again and again.

If you are a believer reading this please let it be on me if you refuse to give up your salvation cos you mstrbate and you die and GOD denies you heaven.

Sexual urge is healthy and as I wrote, except you are an inanimate object, you must have that urge so please avoid fornication by not watching pornography to induce mstarbatn cos watching sex scenes will make you lust after the ladies in the movie which is fornication but if you can ease your sexual urge in any other way asides fornication please do.

It is not a sin to think about sex while your mstrbate.

Sexual urge is healthy but try your best not to get addicted to self service cos that is where it starts to affect you and it is at this point that many people now tagg it sin but it is not the act in itself.
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Perfectbeing(m): 9:58am On Aug 01, 2021
hopefulLandlord:
The word "Christians" means Christlike which means we should be like Christ and do the things he did then avoid things he didn't. since there's no record of him ever having sex or marrying in the Bible then it makes sense as a Christian not to marry or have sex
You're funny. So does that mean all Christians should make sure they're crucified on the cross at 35 years old since they are Christ like? Also explain how Christians should eat, use the toilet etc like Christ..
And also, is it also wrong for a Christ to go to school and study medicine, engineering, law etc since Christ never did that? Is it also wrong for him to drive a car since Christ never rode one??
Should a Christian wear Jewish garments like Christ? Should each Christian have 12 disciples cos they want to be "like" Christ?
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Chochovini: 9:58am On Aug 01, 2021
Guru1111:
grin
Well,at this juncture,I think daddy G.O is so right on this one.......
The same thing also applies to a man of God who deliberately sacks his fellow men of God over trivialities....Such man of God should also be enlightened on the gravity of destruction that's before him...
. In fact, Trailer loads of blessings for you. Your head dey there. No mind that business man claiming MOG.
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Myer(m): 10:05am On Aug 01, 2021
Toks2008:


Guy I am holy spirit filled, heaven bound believer in christ Jesus... I study the words and I'm not writing from human philosophy...

MASTBATION IS HEALTHY, NEVER A SIN But the problem with it like any other act is that you could get addicted.

It is the addiction that makes it crazy just like people get addicted to alcohol which the intake is not a sin but the excessive intake which leads to drunkenness.

Just like gluttony is a sin as in eating too much so you kinda wonder how eating too much can be tagged a sin but it is the addiction.

So mstbation is not a sin and was never tagged a sin but the devil has used it as a tool to make many believers feel guilty and give up their salvation.

It will amaze you that many believers are in hell today because they gave up their salvation due to the fact that they find themselves mastbating again and again.

If you are a believer reading this please let it be on me if you refuse to give up your salvation cos you mstrbate and you die and GOD denies you heaven.

Sexual urge is healthy and as I wrote, except you are an inanimate object, you must have that urge so please avoid fornication by not watching pornography to induce mstarbatn cos watching sex scenes will make you lust after the ladies in the movie which is fornication but if you can ease your sexual urge in any other way asides fornication please do.

It is not a sin to think about sex while your mstrbate.

Sexual urge is healthy but try your best not to get addicted to self service cos that is where it starts to affect you and it is at this point that many people now tagg it sin but it is not the act in itself.

So how then can you masturbate without thinking or lusting after a woman?
Masturbation in itself requires a sexual image and that means you have committed fornication


So by inference it's impossible to masturbate without committing fornication of lusting after a woman.
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by samonak(m): 10:07am On Aug 01, 2021
hopefulLandlord:
Fake pastor, its a sin for a Christian to have sex at all, Jesus who we Christians emulate never had sex even though it was allowed at the time, he stayed pure and holy. He didn't even marry

Be a true Christian today by saying no to sex and marriage, its better to go to heaven with a frustrated and unused vagyna and dick than go to hell with a well used one, heaven is the goal my Christians, be Christlike

No wonder you still be "hopeful landlord" na that "face me I face you" u go remain till u get sense. Bombaklaaat

Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by trumpcoat(m): 10:13am On Aug 01, 2021
TOPCRUISE:
A sex starved single nko embarassed
Go and marry now
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Dikaveli(m): 10:14am On Aug 01, 2021
litigator:



You don't judge an apple tree by one apple. But then again, a bad apple fruit yet bears good fruit, if the seeds are good.

So you see? It was just sex. And you participated in the sex having received the anointing.


Perhaps, she was just confirming your born-again status, and you failed woefully.

You should be ashamed of yourself, cos you are not without sin either. grin grin


I never told her am born again and i was just there in the service just like being at the cinema because ur bae wants you to not like you are enjoying it

So bro i reject the worldly anointing you are guessing
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Chochovini: 10:17am On Aug 01, 2021
Dozie32:


I wonder who did this to you!
. Hahahahahaha lols. U re funny.

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Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Dikaveli(m): 10:21am On Aug 01, 2021
Rebuke:



First service is on going, with over 1 thousand people in attendance, same will happen in the second and third service.

Not just in Otta but all around the country and outside the country.

Nobody knows yhu exist, so yhur opinion does not matter....just swallow it nigga.

For yhur infor, I am getting ready for my own service. It starts by 8AM. Shame on yhu and yhur master satan grin
tongue tongue tongue tongue

Till today no recognized billionaire as your member so nobody is of my status to know i exist
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Chochovini: 10:21am On Aug 01, 2021
hopefulLandlord:
I'm serious bro. be Christlike, say no to sex and marriage
. Seriously?
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by samonak(m): 10:26am On Aug 01, 2021
MummyD2020:


Most times. child birth anf stress slow it down . By the time u drop like three, u will just be eyeing him when he comes close. So calm down

Abeg Aunty tell her, she still young and the thing still de shack her, by the time her hubby drill yeye comot from the kpekus, she go know the difference between Daniel in Lion's den and Lion in Daniel's Den.

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Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by kissdabride: 10:31am On Aug 01, 2021
hopefulLandlord:
Fake pastor, its a sin for a Christian to have sex at all, Jesus who we Christians emulate never had sex even though it was allowed at the time, he stayed pure and holy. He didn't even marry

Be a true Christian today by saying no to sex and marriage, its better to go to heaven with a frustrated and unused vagyna and dick than go to hell with a well used one, heaven is the goal my Christians, be Christlike
From your point of view I can see you are a baby
First miracle of Jesus is at a wedding turning water to wine if you can't keep yourself it is advised to marry but if you can keep yourself you can stay off marriage but its a sin to marry and not be able to fulfil the marriage
Be wise!
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by pappilo(m): 10:31am On Aug 01, 2021
studentofTruth:


I completely agree with baba on this one

That's why, as someone who doesn't want to cheat when he eventually marries, the 2 primary things I check out for is sexual attractiveness and respect.

Am I the person she fantasize to have sex with? Does seeing me on boxer or thinking about me make her wet?

Does she have total respect for me?


Apart from these 2, I believe other things can be learned or unlearned.


Without those 2, there would be no marriage. I'm not ready to beg for sex or have someone to weaponize it against me. I don't want to be one of those doing chidimma here and there.

Just because you are sure of your compatibility before marriage doesnt mean things will remain the same. I am a living example. My girlfriend and I had a fantastic sex life for 9 years that we dated. Once we got married, things kind of slowed down. When she had our first kid, that was the end.

No more sex. Led to me doing stupid things, life happened and boom! Very very messy divorce.

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Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Toks2008(m): 10:34am On Aug 01, 2021
Myer:


So how then can you masturbate without thinking or lusting after a woman?
Masturbation in itself requires a sexual image and that means you have committed fornication


So by inference it's impossible to masturbate without committing fornication of lusting after a woman.


How does thinking about sex or imagining sex translate to sin. This is very different from LOOKING which is a sin. We are expected to guard our hearts from immoral thoughts but sex in itself is ot immoral but it is when we act on the urge not by mstrbating which is not fornication but when we allow the thoughts drive us to fornicate, that is when we give in to it.

And further studies of the scriptures further breaks down even the looking aspect in relation to whether the lady is married or single meaning if you look at a MARRIED woman lustfully then you are coveting her which is why ADULTERY is used instead of fornication but that is a topic for another day.

sexual thought is not a sin. Imagination of sex is not a sin BUT FORNICATION IS. The song of songs also known as the book of Solomon is mostly about sexual thoughts.

Song Of Songs 7:2-3
Your navel is a rounded goblet that never lacks blended wine. Your waist is a mound of wheat encircled by lilies. Your breasts are like two fawns, like twin fawns of a gazelle. shocked

just like saying it is a sin to have wet dreams.

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Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by typersi: 10:46am On Aug 01, 2021
TOPCRUISE:
A sex starved single nko embarassed
self destruction
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Skmoda(m): 10:47am On Aug 01, 2021
Kriss216:
Ride on Bishop!




A sexually starved woman is naturally a sadist.
98.56543% of nairaland girls are sex starved hence you see them rant 24/7
.

The bolded has it.....arise court!!! shocked
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Skmoda(m): 10:52am On Aug 01, 2021
MadamVanessa:
So true.


I wonder what people rush into marriage when they're not ready to be there to satisfy their partner anytime and any moment

To some men and women, marriage is all about answering Mr and Mrs and also making two to five babies. After making babies, sex chapter is closed in the marriage and they start living like siblings in house. Nonsense!

God should never give me a dull husband, that's not sexually active, because as I am this active, i maybe forced to do something silly if he's dull.

You must be comedienne.....come on!!!, he can actually travel to USA for a quick 6 months business trip...are you not gonna keep up?
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by tubolancer(m): 11:00am On Aug 01, 2021
Dikaveli:
Its high time we focused on our life's and forget all this business men that cares only about themselves.

From day one i never see winners, Christ embassy as christ like churches i only see them as modernized clubs

A matured lady who by hard luck isn't married by now invited me to their program and i attended only to discover she didn't attend the service with any underwear, after the program she suggest we stop at her place for lunch only for me to bang her the moment she opened her door in her living room. Someone that was serious inviting me to her special program.

Hypocrites
You are the foolish one. She used you to satisfy her sexual fantasy. Get wisdom.
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by tubolancer(m): 11:02am On Aug 01, 2021
GOFRONT:
Infact, I JUST finished having sex
Be mature now.
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Yonsxp: 11:09am On Aug 01, 2021
Kriss216:
Ride on Bishop!




A sexually starved woman is naturally a sadist.
98.56543% of nairaland girls are sex starved hence you see them rant 24/7.

Non sensical!
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Zetty177x: 11:10am On Aug 01, 2021
Monogamy:
tongue

Meaning Bishop Oyedepo still dey dancea for other room wella..

grin

Why not? Him tell u say waist de pain am? Well, that's why I still love Catholic priests. They don't twist waist

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Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by MrMacinterchi1: 11:15am On Aug 01, 2021
hopefulLandlord:
Fake pastor, its a sin for a Christian to have sex at all, Jesus who we Christians emulate never had sex even though it was allowed at the time, he stayed pure and holy. He didn't even marry

Be a true Christian today by saying no to sex and marriage, its better to go to heaven with a frustrated and unused vagyna and dick than go to hell with a well used one, heaven is the goal my Christians, be Christlike
cheesycheesy grin gringrin
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by kentebemoney: 11:26am On Aug 01, 2021
MadamVanessa:
So true.


I wonder what people rush into marriage when they're not ready to be there to satisfy their partner anytime and any moment

To some men and women, marriage is all about answering Mr and Mrs and also making two to five babies. After making babies, sex chapter is closed in the marriage and they start living like siblings in house. Nonsense!

God should never give me a dull husband, that's not sexually active, because as I am this active, i maybe forced to do something silly if he's dull.
Sup ms!!!
Na u dey ur profile pic?
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by mikaael(m): 11:29am On Aug 01, 2021
Dikaveli:
Its high time we focused on our life's and forget all this business men that cares only about themselves.

From day one i never see winners, Christ embassy as christ like churches i only see them as modernized clubs

A matured lady who by hard luck isn't married by now invited me to their program and i attended only to discover she didn't attend the service with any underwear, after the program she suggest we stop at her place for lunch only for me to bang her the moment she opened her door in her living room. Someone that was serious inviting me to her special program.

Hypocrites


Look at what u wrote
So you are judging the actions of a whole church by the actions of one sinful person who isn't saved...if what you are saying is true oo
Did Jesus not have Judas
Well....except you are not a bible believing christian
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by MrMacinterchi1: 11:31am On Aug 01, 2021
hopefulLandlord:

No human race won't. God can raise new humans if he wants
as you were raised. is it not ? grin
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by SoliBayNG: 11:46am On Aug 01, 2021
Dikaveli:
Its high time we focused on our life's and forget all this business men that cares only about themselves.

From day one i never see winners, Christ embassy as christ like churches i only see them as modernized clubs

A matured lady who by hard luck isn't married by now invited me to their program and i attended only to discover she didn't attend the service with any underwear, after the program she suggest we stop at her place for lunch only for me to bang her the moment she opened her door in her living room. Someone that was serious inviting me to her special program.

Hypocrites

Classic example of a sinner judging another sinner.

And so, cos you did that the whole church is now one of the devil eh? Every idle word will be remembered, don't forget that.
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Barristter07: 11:51am On Aug 01, 2021
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by MrMacinterchi1: 11:52am On Aug 01, 2021
Komu1048:



He had long time left that stage, u can't be with the holy spirit 247 n be thinking about sex. It's shallow
With this your comment,
You're the shallow one , with limited understanding.
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Barristter07: 11:54am On Aug 01, 2021
Dikaveli:
Its high time we focused on our life's and forget all this business men that cares only about themselves.

From day one i never see winners, Christ embassy as christ like churches i only see them as modernized clubs

A matured lady who by hard luck isn't married by now invited me to their program and i attended only to discover she didn't attend the service with any underwear, after the program she suggest we stop at her place for lunch only for me to bang her the moment she opened her door in her living room. Someone that was serious inviting me to her special program.

Hypocrites

I agree with you that this is hypocritical. Nevertheless , the message the man shared this time around is actually correct. I will say as much as we learn to bash people, we should also learn to give commendation when they deserve it.

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Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by oskobi: 11:54am On Aug 01, 2021
You must be an idiot for that word fake pastor to proceed from ur rotten mouth, am not sure you are married so u won't understand what is meant for the mean foolish imbicle
hopefulLandlord:
Fake pastor, its a sin for a Christian to have sex at all, Jesus who we Christians emulate never had sex even though it was allowed at the time, he stayed pure and holy. He didn't even marry

Be a true Christian today by saying no to sex and marriage, its better to go to heaven with a frustrated and unused vagyna and dick than go to hell with a well used one, heaven is the goal my Christians, be Christlike
Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by IJEYdiamond(f): 11:57am On Aug 01, 2021
NaBanga:
I'm not a fan of this man, but he is right. I no longer stress myself over this issue. If your spouse is not having sex with you, don't even stress yourself. Just focus on your children, get a lover and leave once your children are adults.

Its happening and also happened to someone i know....!!

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Re: A Sex-Starved Marriage Is Heading For Destruction - Bishop Oyedepo by Barristter07: 11:59am On Aug 01, 2021
AntiChristian:
This is true sha!

Let the married ladies heed to this.

No be only when he makes you happy you give it to your hubby!

We dey hear many wrong things these days inside marriage.

Hardly would a married man not be happy with good food and copulation!

I really agree some ladies make things difficult. But let's not forget that some men do the same , Most men just focus only on their own satisfaction while their wives are left sexually starved and unsatisfied. According to the Bible, both partners should seek each other's satisfaction.

This might make a lady withdraw since she knows all he care about his getting satisfied and that's the end. Not about her

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