A Nigerian relationship coach, Dr. Mayowa Dudushewa Ekundayo who is based in New Zealand has advised women not to look down on men who are still struggling financially else they will end up missing great life partners, IgbereTV reports.

Dr. Mayowa, who is a mother of two, married to Internationally acclaimed Preacher and Motivational speaker, Dr. Samuel Ekundayo, gave the advice on Thursday, August 5.

She stated that she met her husband when he was doing his Masters programme and struggling financially so had to work as a waiter in a restaurant.

Not minding his financial state then, she agreed to date him because she looked looked beyond his struggle and saw a hardworking man with vision and clear purpose.

She wrote on her Instagram handle;

"It was a day of joy when my husband bagged his PhD. I was very happy and fulfilled because we started the journey together!

When we met 6 years prior, he was doing his Masters programme but was struggling financially and had to support himself by working as a waiter in a restaurant.

I still said “Yes” to him when he asked me for a relationship because I saw beyond his present struggle.
I saw a man who had a vision, clear about his purpose, hard working and loved me. I was ready to “suffer” with him because I knew I would also “reign” with him. It was only a matter of time.

Many ladies today want a ready-made man. A man they would not need to “suffer” with but only “reign” with.

Please, don’t look down on a guy just because of his present financial state!
Don’t lose a great guy!
Don’t despise the days of humble beginnings.

I hope this helps someone?

#ThrowbackThursday
#LoveIsBeautiful
#HumbleBeginnings"

https://www.instagram.com/p/CSMTG0pFcqJ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Responding to the post, her husband thanked her for being with him from the begining.

"Thank you Jesus! Thanks Darling for being there since day one. My number one Fan" he wrote.

https://igberetvnews.com/1397229/wife-celebrates-husband-bagging-phd-worked-waiter-photos/

I hope he'll not start chasing after other girls now that sufferness has cleared from his eyes.

See how transformed and more polished he now looks in the second pics. Money and good weather is good

By the way, I've seen this pics before.

Yeiii.. FTC.

I dedicate it to the lovely couple.

Damnnn niggar
Nice

He was a waiter in New Zealand right? Try it in Nigeria and see if his waiter job can feed him talk less of sponsoring his education.

The photograph says it all.

If you are a guy and you're still struggling financially the best advice I can give you is focus on your hustle and ignore/avoid ladies.

If you cant ignore/avoid ladies because you are a weak simp, then go for ladies who are physically unattractive. Ladies that men look at once by mistake but never look at them twice tend to be more humble and patient when they date a broke guy.

Thank me later.

Nelson21:
The photograph says it all.

If you are a guy and you're still struggling financially the best advice I can give you is focus on your hustle and ignore/avoid ladies.

If you cant ignore/avoid ladies because you are a weak simp, then go for ladies who are physically unattractive. Ladies that men look at once by mistake but never look at them twice tend to be more humble and patient when they date a broke guy.

Thank me later.

U have said it all

Nelson21:
The photograph says it all.

If you are a guy and you're still struggling financially the best advice I can give you is focus on your hustle and ignore/avoid ladies.

If you cant ignore/avoid ladies because you are a weak simp, then go for ladies who are physically unattractive. Ladies that men look at once by mistake but never look at them twice tend to be more humble and patient when they date a broke guy.

Thank me later.

Na OG u be abeg. You've said it all

CharisEleos:
I hope he'll not start chasing after other girls now that sufferness has cleared from his eyes.

See how transformed and more polished he now looks in the second pics. Money and good weather is good

By the way, I've seen this pics before.

The wife should step up too

greatbrian:



The wife should step up too

Step up how? Una don start.

The notion that women are doing men favour when they decides to stick around them for any reasons still beats my imagination....

I like his determination

Congrats to them,love is beautiful when u find the right one

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CharisEleos:
I hope he'll not start chasing after other girls now that sufferness has cleared from his eyes.

See how transformed and more polished he now looks in the second pics. Money and good weather is good

By the way, I've seen this pics before.

You're talking nonsense

I hope you're married?

New Zealand, right?

I have been seeing this everywhere today...now i understand better.

Most Nigerians (students especially) who do stuffs like this in 1st and 2nd World countries do so to gather money to settle their extremely high tuition fees and rent, while they move towards their life goal. Of course, not everyone ends up moving to the next level, but there is a conducive atmosphere in each of these countries to standout and reach your goal.

Nelson21:
The photograph says it all.

If you are a guy and you're still struggling financially the best advice I can give you is focus on your hustle and ignore/avoid ladies.

If you cant ignore/avoid ladies because you are a weak simp, then go for ladies who are physically unattractive. Ladies that men look at once by mistake but never look at them twice tend to be more humble and patient when they date a broke guy.

Thank me later.

shiiit

Hard works pay
Father let our labour be rewarded and it will not be in vain

Passion... Excellent...

Dis two again
Congrats

Newsmic:
A Nigerian relationship coach, Dr. Mayowa Dudushewa Ekundayo who is based in New Zealand has advised women not to look down on men who are still struggling financially else they will end up missing great life partners, IgbereTV reports.

Dr. Mayowa, who is a mother of two, married to Internationally acclaimed Preacher and Motivational speaker, Dr. Samuel Ekundayo, gave the advice on Thursday, August 5.

She stated that she met her husband when he was doing his Masters programme and struggling financially so had to work as a waiter in a restaurant.

Not minding his financial state then, she agreed to date him because she looked looked beyond his struggle and saw a hardworking man with vision and clear purpose.

She wrote on her Instagram handle;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CSMTG0pFcqJ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Responding to the post, her husband thanked her for being with him from the begining.



https://igberetvnews.com/1397229/wife-celebrates-husband-bagging-phd-worked-waiter-photos/

It's because she's not so beautiful externally. Yes she is beautiful internally since she has a good heart but the more beautiful externally a lady is, the more competitive she becomes. And even they (the ladies) know this, that's why the finer she is, the more she forms for you and also the more options she has. Do you know how many guys ask a lady out a day, let alone a beautiful and stunning one? Except as a guy, you are also very handsome or you have money to meet up, it's hard to keep a beautiful lady for a year or two not to talk of 6 fucking years, in d name of having a future. Who future help? Any plans u have that's still in the future, anything can alter it. Nothing is quarantee in life, Nigerian ladies know this hence d reason they go for ready made guys.

You don't expect a lady that's so beautiful and attractive to stay with you in hunger in d name of having a future when there are so many rich dudes with GLK and lexus 350 asking her out a single day. Beautiful women are competitive, am yet to see a really beautiful lady who stayed and suffered with her man for future harvest, when they can made do with well to do guys presently hitting on them for a date? In Nigeria here? most will be carried away by rich and handsome toasting from other guys. Which woman wants to suffer? Story for the gods!

I thought it is Whitemoney again when I first saw he worked as a waiter. I wan say na only him dey this world ni

Nelson21:
The photograph says it all.

If you are a guy and you're still struggling financially the best advice I can give you is focus on your hustle and ignore/avoid ladies.

If you cant ignore/avoid ladies because you are a weak simp, then go for ladies who are physically unattractive. Ladies that men look at once by mistake but never look at them twice tend to be more humble and patient when they date a broke guy.

Thank me later.

Eyah, so a broke guy can only attract and feel at ease with a physically unattractive lady to increase the chances of her being humble and patient with him.

Not here in nigeria o

That's good

Aurelius1:
He was a waiter in New Zealand right? Try it in Nigeria and see if his waiter job can feed him talk less of sponsoring his education.

you dey mind her

CharisEleos:
I hope he'll not start chasing after other girls now that sufferness has cleared from his eyes.

See how transformed and more polished he now looks in the second pics. Money and good weather is good

By the way, I've seen this pics before.

Clearly, you did not read their posts.
"Married mother of 2"... Married to the man she met as a waiter.