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| How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Babaflenjor: 1:15pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
How can a man cope a wife who has permanently sold her heart to unhappiness, the husband has done everything possible to make her happy but deliberately she won't let it work |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Nobody: 1:22pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Babaflenjor: There's nothing you can do. Convince her to see a therapist or consultant. A professional will help her identify the sole cause of her depression and help her get through with it. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Babaflenjor: 1:34pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Beloved3:pls do you know of any here in Lagos, preferably around Alimosho 1 Like |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by dingbang(m): 1:46pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Divorce 1 Like |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Nobody: 1:51pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
dingbang: Divorce a woman because she's depressed? 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by debbydams(f): 1:56pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
dingbang:are even okay? He should divorce his wife because shes not happy? It is well with you oo 3 Likes |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Nobody: 2:03pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
debbydams:  Let's hear him out before castigating him. He may have had a significant personal experience or a different outlook.  |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Cholls(m): 2:14pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
My brother she needs a support group |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by yanabasee1(m): 2:18pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
I don't want to sound like a pervert.. But I had this girl who would always be unhappy until there is sex involve... Her mood will automatically change and she will sweep, clean, wash and do everything and be singing all sorts of songs while doing this.. But ones the excitement is over, she gets back to her mood... And I'll have to activate it again... At some point, her happy mood moments reduced to seconds... I could finish sweating this moment and she will get up happy.. going to take her bath and coming back her mood will swing back to a sad one... We talked things out and she wasn't giving in to what exactly was the case... So I get her a vibrator.... It helped for a while... It was too much for me... as she'll always call me from work to return home... citing emergency situation.. yet when I rush home, it'd be sex and nothing more... Aje, I no fit do again.... She got married last year... saw her Facebook post and she wasn't smiling... I knew the dude was in for a long journey... 6 Likes |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Babaflenjor: 2:51pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
yanabasee1:Bro I really understand u, really whenever we have sex she will be normal for a while sometimes it 2 days sometimes 3,4 or even a week but after she returns back to unhappy mode, and it was as if her body has become allergic to sex cos any time I made any move towards her for sex it's always like world war 2, no how I touch any part of her body she won't respond. Most time we drag it for hours b4 she will give in, and after the sex everything about her becomes normal at least for few days But presently now the time of normalcy after sex has drastically reduced, after sex now she will become normal but after few hours she's back to unhappy mode. At a time I tot she is seen another man so I started watching her moves I hacked her phone all her SMS calls chat etc for more that a year and non show anything suspicious, I av tried everything possible except going to a therapist |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Babaflenjor: 2:52pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Cholls:I don't know of anyone but any suggestions is highly welcome |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Sugardick: 2:55pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
kick her out... or don't you know the meaning of permanent? you want to live with bad energy all your life? where you will also be sad too 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by yanabasee1(m): 2:57pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Babaflenjor: Then it's depression.... There is something that she isn't accomplishing in life... Sometimes, it's the relationship she finds herself... probably not the type of relationship she wished herself.... If that is the case .. you'll have to try to impress her since this is marriage..... Or... it could be kids... Are you guys talking about having kids anytime soon? 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Nobody: 3:00pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Babaflenjor: Bro semen contains antidepressant hormones which a woman absorbs through her vaginal walls and uterus. See link below for information. So I suppose a temporary solution to making her more happy often would be to daily load her and pump her with semen. But then, you would need to be eating well too as it might start telling on your body. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.newscientist.com/article/dn2457-semen-acts-as-an-anti-depressant/amp/ https://link.springer.com/referenceworkentry/10.1007%2F978-3-319-16999-6_2008-1 And as for the other problem of her not being moved to your sexual advances, you may need to learn the technique of relaxing a woman with massages. Every night, let her lay on her stomach and massage through her back to the legs. Then gradually advance the massages into a sensual pleasuring of her privates until she orgasms or is close to one. Then have a copulation with her and let in your fluid. Trust me she won't ever refuse your advances again because of the massages and sensual pleasure involved But bro, if this seems too tasking to be achieved on a daily or atleast thrice weekly basis, then you should seek the other route of seeing a therapist to treat her depression. |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Pumpumking: 3:01pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Babaflenjor: bro if the dik dont work well..juss use viagra sir!(no oofeinse)  |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Babaflenjor: 3:11pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Pumpumking:most of times she don't give in to sex |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Nobody: 3:13pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Have her seek therapy. |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Nobody: 3:18pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Babaflenjor: Is she circumcised? |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by AuroraB(f): 3:19pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Give her money and some more money  |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Pumpumking: 3:21pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by AuroraB(f): 3:21pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
yanabasee1:Imagine  The husband's gonna hearreet |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Nobody: 3:23pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
AuroraB: You carried the vex from the fountainofyouth impersonation thread down here. |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by yanabasee1(m): 3:23pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
AuroraB: lol.... my hands no deh dia oh |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Nobody: 3:24pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by AuroraB(f): 3:26pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by RightToReject(m): 3:28pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Happiness VS Peace - before I go on, you can only achieve the feat if you won't mind losing her in principle because the highest and most fulfilling point of living is reaching the height of not minding losing anyone/anything in principle. As a husband, and vice versa, you do not owe your wife happiness but peace. And you make peace possible by doing in principle whatever you know is just at any given time; rewarding her adherence to the bond of the union with altruistic kindness, care, and attention; while doing otherwise whenever she fails to adhere to the bond of the union and resisting pandering to her whims and caprices at any given time in general. Someone trying to make another happy is one of those impossible tasks that always drains and ruins one in the cause of trying them. The choice to be happy is solely hers and should be non-negotiable once you've provided the enabling peaceful environment for it. Peace can only be said to be priceless when obtained under mutual goodness, which means she owes you peace too. Once more, make peace non-negotiable and sound it out to her, while failure to abide by it will mean war. Before doing anything, however, try to know the root cause of her unhappiness; if you're the cause through your failure to make peace possible in the union, make amends and make the above a standard, while if her unhappiness stems from lack of contentment, give her war so that she will either allow peace reign or you pieces her and take her out of your way, but if it stems from illness, you should know better what to do. The only way you can achieve all of the above is if you haven't fallen in love with her but have always been loving her - a man who values his sanity and authority and wants the best for himself, his wife, and family in general, is only supposed to love his wife not falling in love with her. 5 Likes |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by zexy2030(m): 4:27pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Babaflenjor:See a therapist there is something she is not willing to tell you. But will open up when she finds someone comfortable. When someone has gone through hardship for too long, it affects the person's emotion making such people sadist. Grow her out of that mode, take her out to places she has visited when she was exciting and full of life. She is feeling she is in a wrong place. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by zexy2030(m): 4:30pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Babaflenjor:I can recommend a drug for her to take for 6months. She will be fine. Then she can take alcohol once in a while. |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by blinking001(m): 4:32pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Let her handle her goddamn self. Is she a ride that I'm suppose to handle her? Once i perceive any little stress coming from any woman i move. I love myself more. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Babaflenjor: 4:43pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Beloved3:I think that as well |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Nobody: 4:47pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Babaflenjor: You think bawo? Bro if she is circumcised you would know na. Haven't you explored her privates before and played around her clits? Circumcision means no clit. Makes women less interested in sex and unable to achieve orgasm. |
| Re: How Can U Handle A Permanent Unhappy Woman by Newboss(m): 12:29am On Aug 09, 2021 |
debbydams: Yes, he should. The woman should go and deal with herself. Nonsense and ingredient |
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