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Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by rollywise(m): 11:02pm On Aug 09, 2021
Candidlady:
[s]According to him, when the Bible says “submit yourself to your husband in everything,” women respond saying, “No, not today, that was before. Right now, nobody can do that. We are co-heirs, male and female, no difference.”[/s]


Please also tell your member to stop paying their last money as tithes

Reduce your school fees so members of your congregation could attend

Am sure if a feminist pays her tithes in millions you'd accept it



And yeah as a feminist I won't marry I'd adopt a pretty girl


ThemovementIsReal

A man called pastor can't stop it..



They find it disgusting to see men straffin men but most men are down with lesbians... Men won't see gay porns but are so comfy seeing girls tongue themselves... Hypocrites...

Y'all men are just scared that if we Al become feminist konji wil Kil you guys grin







.. Justification for loneliness. What brought tithe into this. People are aiming higher and you calling for reduction of school fees. Did the members complain to you? Look around you
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Hamiltonii: 11:03pm On Aug 09, 2021
Kobojunkie:
In developed countries, most married women exist as equal partners in there relationships. In fact, one could conclude that equality is essential key in a thriving economy as well. undecided

So when next you ask yourself why Nigeria is not moving forward, consider the fact that gender inequality is a major reason for it. undecided
Stop talking trash. They're never equal. Untill women kick against 'Women and Children' in times of emergency and war.
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Kobojunkie: 11:04pm On Aug 09, 2021
neyoohhh:

I'm going by your words, with disregard for marriage.

You didn't answer the question, there's nothing a man can do in Nigeria that a woman can't, education, power etc.

If men are equal to women, there shouldn't be any type of affirmative action.
So what else are you looking for?
As for Christianity, Jesus brought together two passages from Genesis, reinforcing the basic position on marriage found in Jewish scripture. Thus, he implicitly emphasized that it is God-made ("God has joined together"wink, "male and female," lifelong ("let no one separate"wink, and monogamous ("a man…his wife"wink.

You're not a Christian, just a bitter brainwashed leftist, an agent of destruction.

You have never paid attention to your constitution and your laws, have you? undecided
Women in Nigeria, are still considered property to be guarded by men, both constitutionally and culturally. Living oblivious to this does not make it go away... undecided

As for marriage, Jesus Christ made it clear that your marriages are of this world and not His Kingdom. All He did was uphold God's rule of marriage being between a man and woman and declaring that divorce for the wrong reasons a sin in His Kingdom. Other than that. Whatever you do in your marriages is of this world. undecided

I am not a Christian because I don't believe in imposing my views and irrational fears on others? I am a follower of Jesus Christ, the one who came to restore woman to their place, equal in His Kingdom to all others. undecided

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Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Kobojunkie: 11:04pm On Aug 09, 2021
Hamiltonii:

Stop talking trash. They're never equal. Untill women kick against 'Women and Children' in times of emergency and war.
Huh? undecided
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by reddingtonblack: 11:07pm On Aug 09, 2021
AmazonTopaz:


LMAO,how does this negate the movement,when women were marching for suffrage rights some women fought against it same way some blacks were still in support of slavery and supported their own masters against their own liberation it happens everywhere and in every movement and ideology it makes no sense actually and takes nothing away from the goals and achievements of feminism.


the instance you gave doesnt add up, its man vs feminist not feminist vs ideal woman. Equality shouldnt be selective thats the bone of contention.
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Nobody: 11:07pm On Aug 09, 2021
So much confusion with Religions. God is not Religious. JESUS was not a Christian. God is not a Christian.

Women are men with a pussy and men are women with a dicck.

You can't rule over a people because of your sexing organs.

Let the most intelligent person, male or female run the home. We are intelligence systems, bootloader for digital super intelligence so gender equality is organic not Religious.

Religions must die for humans to make progress.

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Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Starzo: 11:08pm On Aug 09, 2021
AmazonTopaz:


I am not a Christian but Amen anyway cool
E clear
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Nobody: 11:11pm On Aug 09, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You really don't know who Jesus Christ is, do you? undecided

Let me guess, even though Jesus Christ declared that marriages are of this world and not of His Kingdom, you would rather, and this against His own decree, believe that your marriages are "Christian" marriages, right? undecided

What is this one saying? Read your post again if it makes any sense to you.

The summary of my message is ; Marriage is an institution that God Himself established. And Scriptures made us to understand that in a marriage, the Man is the Head. Also, there is no where Jesus said the man shouldn't be the head in a marriage as you wrongly claimed. Lastly, the verse you quoted (Matt 23) has nothing to do with the discussion at hand because the summary of that passage is that Jesus was explaining to his apostles the hypocrisy of the Pharisees and in verse 8 He said "But be not ye called Rabbi: for one is your Master, even Christ; and all ye are brethren".

A Rabbi is a Jewish scholar or teacher, especially one who studies or teaches Jewish law. How this relates to a man being the head of his household is what I don't understand. Do wives call their husbands Rabbi? Or are husbands Rabbis to their wives?

The later part of verse 8 reads "for one is your master/teacher, Even Christ and all ye are brethren'". No one argues this fact. Jesus was the master/teacher of his disciples and the apostles were brethrens to each other.

If Matthew 23:8 is what you are trying to use to counter the fact that the man is the head of the woman, then you are an overfed Clown.�
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Kobojunkie: 11:14pm On Aug 09, 2021
TimeSpaceWizard:
So much confusion with Religions. God is not Religious. JESUS was not a Christian. God is not a Christian.

Women are men with a pussy and men are women with a dicck.

You can't rule over a people because of your sexing organs.


Let the most intelligent person, male or female run the home. We are intelligence systems, bootloader for digital super intelligence so gender equality is organic not Religious.

Religions must die for humans to make progress.
I agree with you there. grin
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by sweetrace(f): 11:15pm On Aug 09, 2021
While I have a great deal of respect for the bishop, I completely agree with Chimamanda Idichie, that EVERYONE should be a feminist, male and female.

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Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Henon: 11:17pm On Aug 09, 2021
Kobojunkie:


Anyone gullible enough to swallow the many lies out of this man's mouth is not just ignorant of God's Truth but gunning for the worst of punishments from God. undecided

According to the Bible, woman was cursed, condemned by God to be ruled over by man and perish in the end - cease to exist / return to dust when she dies!

However, through Jesus Christ all who believe in Him, including women, are saved from this condemning curse(all those who live under the curse perish much like Adam), and are made equal members of the Kingdom of God. undecided

Sadly, your Mogs have no knowledge of this and so continue to preach lies as sermons in the name of God. undecided
So being born-again exempt a woman from pains of childbirth and the from sweating to make a living?
Guy just quit smoking pawpaw leaves, your head is too light for it.
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Nobody: 11:18pm On Aug 09, 2021
TalkTalkTwins:
In essence, we should all be feminists not only as a commitment to women's liberation but also as a way of encouraging men to hold conversations with women on sexuality, appearance, roles, and success. Being a feminist entails championing for the rights of women and trying to make the world a better place for women.

Feminism does not entirely challenge the biological roles of each gender as it only intends to revolutionize sexism by creating equal chances and opportunities for women and men. Feminism views people as human beings and aims to tackle the social injustices that silence people's will and power to exceed social expectations. Therefore, becoming a feminist normalizes women's success and allows men to strive to achieve even more in life.

Participating in the contemporary feminism paves the way for a prosperous and all-inclusive future society. Empowering women is not equivalent to taking away opportunities from men. Teaching the community to accord equal respect to women creates a conducive environment for success. Therefore, encouraging people to become feminists tunes their minds away from cultural and social constructs that limit their understanding of gender on sexuality and roles and allows men and women to become who they want to be without restrictions.



Reality doesn't adhere to your social construct narratives, Egalitarianistic-Equalism ideology has failed

Look at the gynocentric laws in Western Societies , marital laws, alimony, child support and child custody, all biased against men, where is your equality and social justice, where is the fairness, men pay majority of alimony, men pay majority of child support, why do women get 60% less time and sentencing for the same crime commited by men, why is there welfare system to incentivise single motherhood households leading to fatherlessness are creating degenerates children



Look at scandanavian Nordic Societies where gender equality is the highest with social re-engineering to encourage these, yet they have the worst gender differences after removing their Patriachal strongholds in their culture, these is called gender equality paradox
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Dindondin(m): 11:18pm On Aug 09, 2021
Candidlady:
[s]According to him, when the Bible says “submit yourself to your husband in everything,” women respond saying, “No, not today, that was before. Right now, nobody can do that. We are co-heirs, male and female, no difference.”[/s]


Please also tell your member to stop paying their last money as tithes

Reduce your school fees so members of your congregation could attend

Am sure if a feminist pays her tithes in millions you'd accept it



And yeah as a feminist I won't marry I'd adopt a pretty girl


ThemovementIsReal

A man called pastor can't stop it..



They find it disgusting to see men straffin men but most men are down with lesbians... Men won't see gay porns but are so comfy seeing girls tongue themselves... Hypocrites...

Y'all men are just scared that if we Al become feminist konji wil Kil you guys grin

Konji ll kill you girls too. We need each other to survive. If you say to your tent oh Israel, we say to your tent to dear feminist.
Pastor Oyedepo may be controversial but logic & truth makes you & other feminist wannabe especially in Nigeria see that you are on the wrong path. You can't compete with a man. If you try it knowledge for knowledge, strength for strength ll fail you.
Obey the nature if women as a weaker vessel & you ll live in peace
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Hamiltonii: 11:18pm On Aug 09, 2021
Give247:
I don't think they should be leadership in marriage. The bible said man and woman shall come together and become one. He didn't say one should lead the other. There's no leadership in marriage as far as I'm concerned.
Don't be silly! Leadership instills direction and coordination. Take headship from marriage and it becomes mirage.
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by BUGOFF(m): 11:19pm On Aug 09, 2021
Ababbio:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/you-wont-have-good-home-if-you-join-feminism-oyedepo-tells-women/%3famp
The absolute truth.
Man is Alpha, whether 'simp' or 'redpil'.
All attempts to denigrate a man for whatever inadequacy is mere folly, at the end.
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Nobody: 11:21pm On Aug 09, 2021
sweetrace:
While I have a great deal of respect for the bishop, I completely agree with Chimamanda Idichie, that EVERYONE should be a feminist, male and female.

Na, statistics don't lie, it has destroyed family units and broken many homes,see the data of western societies marital, birth and divorce rates, all have worsened post Feminist revolution


Feminism is a female supremacist movement disguised as an Egalitarianistic-Equalism ideology seeking humanity and social justice
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Ovis1302(m): 11:21pm On Aug 09, 2021
The Holy Bible is an effective manual for our existence here on earth.
The Holy Bible admonished husbands to love their wives and wives in return to submit to their husbands.
It is natural/easy for a man to submit all he has to a woman despite the fact he doesn't love the woman from the depth of his heart.
Likewise, it is natural/easy for a woman to love a man and hardly submit all to him.
So if a man LOVE and also submit to his wife and the wife in return SUBMIT and love his husband too, the union will be a blessed one.
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Nobody: 11:22pm On Aug 09, 2021
Boss13:
Nigerian women are not feminists. They are misandrists. Please note the difference


No they are the same
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by neyoohhh: 11:22pm On Aug 09, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You have never paid attention to your constitution and your laws, have you? undecided
Women in Nigeria, are still considered property to be guarded by men, both constitutionally and culturally. Living oblivious to this does not make it go away... undecided

I am not a Christian because I don't believe in imposing my views and irrational fears on others? I am a follower of Jesus Christ, the one who came to restore woman to their place, equal in His Kingdom to all others. undecided

Reference the constitution.

Women in Nigeria can live without any limitations in any sphere of life.. You can choose not to marry or divorce, get educated, follow any career path, aspire to electoral office, become a pastor, make a will, travel, trade, acquire wealth. Etc

So again, what exactly do you want?

Let me guess, freedom under marriage encapsulated within a gynocentric system that allows you to confiscate a man's property, children, claim alimony and child support?

You can't be a follower of Jesus if you don't follow his words.. you are a phony.

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Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Kobojunkie: 11:23pm On Aug 09, 2021
Henon:

So being born-again exempt a woman from pains of childbirth and the from sweating to make a living?
Guy just quit smoking pawpaw leaves, your head is too light for it.
I can't speak to the first since I have never tested it myself grin, but those who are followers of Jesus Christ, are no longer to work for food that spoils but instead for food that sustains to eternity meaning no longer will they sweat for their next meal or need - John 6 vs 25 - 37
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Kobojunkie: 11:24pm On Aug 09, 2021
neyoohhh:


Reference the constitution.

Women in Nigeria can live without any limitations in any sphere of life.. You can choose not to marry or divorce, get educated, follow any career path, aspire to electoral office, become a pastor, make a will, travel, trade, acquire wealth. Etc

So again, what exactly do you want?

Let me guess, freedom under marriage encapsulated within a gynocentric system that allows you to confiscate a man's property, children, claim alimony and child support?

You can't be a follower of Jesus if you don't follow his words.. you are a phony.
What Words of Jesus Christ do I not follow? undecided
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by emmyileri(m): 11:25pm On Aug 09, 2021
Candidlady:
[s]According to him, when the Bible says “submit yourself to your husband in everything,” women respond saying, “No, not today, that was before. Right now, nobody can do that. We are co-heirs, male and female, no difference.”[/s]


Please also tell your member to stop paying their last money as tithes

Reduce your school fees so members of your congregation could attend

Am sure if a feminist pays her tithes in millions you'd accept it



And yeah as a feminist I won't marry I'd adopt a pretty girl


ThemovementIsReal

A man called pastor can't stop it..



They find it disgusting to see men straffin men but most men are down with lesbians... Men won't see gay porns but are so comfy seeing girls tongue themselves... Hypocrites...

Y'all men are just scared that if we Al become feminist konji wil Kil you guys grin

Exactly na ur type him dey talk about
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by neyoohhh: 11:25pm On Aug 09, 2021
Kobojunkie:
What Words of Jesus Christ do I not follow? undecided

The one I quoted about marriage..

See below

Jesus brought together two passages from Genesis, reinforcing the basic position on marriage found in Jewish scripture. Thus, he implicitly emphasized that it is God-made ("God has joined together"wink, "male and female," lifelong ("let no one separate"wink, and monogamous ("a man…his wife"wink.
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Nobody: 11:25pm On Aug 09, 2021
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The man is the head of the household as Christ is the head of the church, what are you saying, they must submit to a man's authority or remain frustrated
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Kobojunkie: 11:26pm On Aug 09, 2021
neyoohhh:

The one I quoted about marriage..

See below

Jesus brought together two passages from Genesis, reinforcing the basic position on marriage found in Jewish scripture. Thus, he implicitly emphasized that it is God-made ("God has joined together"wink, "male and female," lifelong ("let no one separate"wink, and monogamous ("a man…his wife"wink.
So how did you arrive at the conclusion that I don't follow His Words again? undecided

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Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by blinking001(m): 11:27pm On Aug 09, 2021
TalkTalkTwins:
In essence, we should all be feminists not only as a commitment to women's liberation but also as a way of encouraging men to hold conversations with women on sexuality, appearance, roles, and success. Being a feminist entails championing for the rights of women and trying to make the world a better place for women.

Feminism does not entirely challenge the biological roles of each gender as it only intends to revolutionize sexism by creating equal chances and opportunities for women and men. Feminism views people as human beings and aims to tackle the social injustices that silence people's will and power to exceed social expectations. Therefore, becoming a feminist normalizes women's success and allows men to strive to achieve even more in life.

Participating in the contemporary feminism paves the way for a prosperous and all-inclusive future society. Empowering women is not equivalent to taking away opportunities from men. Teaching the community to accord equal respect to women creates a conducive environment for success. Therefore, encouraging people to become feminists tunes their minds away from cultural and social constructs that limit their understanding of gender on sexuality and roles and allows men and women to become who they want to be without restrictions.
Keep on deceiving yourself

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Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by elganzar(m): 11:27pm On Aug 09, 2021
Kobojunkie:


Anyone gullible enough to swallow the many lies out of this man's mouth is not just ignorant of God's Truth but gunning for the worst of punishments from God. undecided

According to the Bible, woman was cursed, condemned by God to be ruled over by man and perish in the end - cease to exist / return to dust when she dies!

However, through Jesus Christ all who believe in Him, including women, are saved from this condemning curse(all those who live under the curse perish much like Adam), and are made equal members of the Kingdom of God. undecided

Sadly, your Mogs have no knowledge of this and so continue to preach lies as sermons in the name of God. undecided


I guess when He said He'll "...make man a Help meet" that was a curse too...

You'll want to say something like - help meet doesn't mean they're not equal blah blah, but it does__ and the man was not created for the woman...the woman was created for man

I don't want to exchange words with you, no offence but you dont possess enough knowledge to try to tackle someone like Oyedepo with The word...

Lol__ the line you said "Christ has saved all who believe including women .."

Does that mean women who are in Christ will not go through the pain of labour ( cos the curse was placed with the one you referenced)

Then the bible said _ Jesus came to redeem us from the curse of THE LAW!!

Do YOU even know which law that is?? undecided

We have the 10 commandments
There's Mosiac law
Kingdom principles (sowing and reaping etc), and about 7 others __ do you know which law(s) we were redeem of?? (Answer this and I accept Oyedepo is ignorant)

It is really rude and arrogant of you to refer to people (I'm a part of) you know nothing about as gullible and ignorant...
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Nobody: 11:28pm On Aug 09, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Now this is someone with a brain in His skull! undecided


Na that's Progressivism ideology with Egalitarianistic-Equalism narrative of utopia which is misleading and has failed in every western societies destroying family values and demonizing Masculinity
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Kobojunkie: 11:29pm On Aug 09, 2021
JESHAL:

Na that's Progressivism ideology with Egalitarianistic-Equalism narrative of utopia which is misleading and has failed in every western societies destroying family values and demonizing Masculinity
No, he has a brain in his skull, as he is definitely not one of you insecure lots who feel giving a woman equal rights is a threat to your existence and egos. undecided

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Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by neyoohhh: 11:30pm On Aug 09, 2021
Kobojunkie:
What two passages did Jesus Christ bring together? undecided

Read it, it's there.


I'm done.. most of y'all African feminist's are dumb anyway.

Just jumping on the the dominant narrative and expecting it to fly.

Once again it won't work.. loneliness and regrets is what lies ahead. Adios.
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Henon: 11:30pm On Aug 09, 2021
TimeSpaceWizard:
So much confusion with Religions. God is not Religious. JESUS was not a Christian. God is not a Christian.

Women are men with a pussy and men are women with a dicck.

You can't rule over a people because of your sexing organs.

Let the most intelligent person, male or female run the home. We are intelligence systems, bootloader for digital super intelligence so gender equality is organic not Religious.

Religions must die for humans to make progress.

Wetin una the smoke sef? Who dey give una phones to begin type rubbish? Have your ever heard the name Jesus Christ? Do you know where the word christian comes from and the meaning? Jesus Christ is beginning and the foundation of christian faith.
'Jesus is not a christian', no he's babalawo.
Omo, go and eat, you are very hungry.
Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Nobody: 11:31pm On Aug 09, 2021
Kobojunkie:
In developed countries, most married women exist as equal partners in there relationships. In fact, one could conclude that equality is essential key in a thriving economy as well. undecided

So when next you ask yourself why Nigeria is not moving forward, consider the fact that gender inequality is a major reason for it. undecided


Na, UAE and Qatar are Patriachal and are Islamic yet prosperous, our problem is not inequality as it's evolutionary Biological realities, men and women are fundamentally different

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