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Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by Lightorder: 12:15am On Aug 14, 2021 |
Dannyset:and use cane if and when necessary |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by Nobody: 12:19am On Aug 14, 2021 |
elonmuskbaby:This stereotype applies mostly to black Americans, contradictory |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by Lightorder: 12:20am On Aug 14, 2021 |
coolcharm:don’t mind them. They think I will leave my children to grow as gays |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by Nobody: 12:53am On Aug 14, 2021 |
coolcharm: You need to stop using technology since you think humans raised in the west are no good. Some people no even get shame. Just open mouth waaaa and talk rubbish. |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by Yeyenairaland(m): 2:23am On Aug 14, 2021 |
coolcharm: You're really broken You can't see any sense in the above post? I pity the innocent kids you'd be inflicting this brokenness upon If hitting and yelling is very good, Tell us how u are more productive, useful and morally upright against the kids raised otherwise |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by DonroxyII: 2:37am On Aug 14, 2021 |
goodmorning40:When you ain't nurturing an animal .... Flogging your child is like flogging yourself ... whatever odds you see in your child are either from you or your wife if not s/he learnt it somewhere under your watch .... I love the recommendations and they all fit quite well into my philosophies.... Flogging is the last result and one good hot slap is quite brain resetting enough !! |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by Nauttyprof(m): 3:18am On Aug 14, 2021 |
WoundedLamb: You chose a side of the narrative too. No method of discipline have produced a perfect child. A child not hit like 'an animal' as you have said also have produced children who lack morals, stubborn and don't value the place of parental guidance. I speak from experience and this woman almost lost it since she trained her children abroad. Not just her but other testimonies too. |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by Came4amod: 3:32am On Aug 14, 2021 |
coolcharm: Spare the rod .. is a figure of speech.. English hard |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by Came4amod: 3:33am On Aug 14, 2021 |
Nauttyprof: Do whatever works for u .. but beating someone can never be classified as love it’s just a way to justify the harsh treatment u received .. it rings a bell in ur head every now and then .. |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by saxoholic1(m): 4:00am On Aug 14, 2021 |
If you train your children the way UNICEF said.. I swear 1.. You will cry at old age 2. Waywardness is not very far from your children... Please be wise.... Western culture had never helped us.... |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by Greatzeus(m): 4:50am On Aug 14, 2021 |
Africans especially Nigerian parents should stop their child abuse in the name of training kids in the right way. With all the inhuman flogging and punishment,what has we achieved? How many inventions have the "properly trained" children made? The whites don't beat their kids,as it's an offence,yet they are progressing in a geometrical rate scientifically and technologically. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by bepositive11: 5:32am On Aug 14, 2021 |
earthsync: If it's not OK for man to beat a woman, how is it OK for parents to beat children? Children are very vulnerable -- physically, mentally, and psychologically. They cannot fend for themselves. It's very wicked of anyone to beat such vulnerable, innocent beings. They deserve empathy. Even when stubborn, it's better to discipline them without emotional or physical abuse 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by bepositive11: 5:32am On Aug 14, 2021 |
iamoyindamola: Children are very vulnerable -- physically, mentally, and psychologically. They cannot fend for themselves. It's very wicked of anyone to beat such vulnerable, innocent beings. They deserve empathy. Even when stubborn, it's better to discipline them without emotional or physical abuse |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by bepositive11: 5:34am On Aug 14, 2021 |
Jeromejnr: Children are very vulnerable -- physically, mentally, and psychologically. They cannot fend for themselves. It's very wicked of anyone to beat such vulnerable, innocent beings. They deserve empathy. Even when stubborn, it's better to discipline them without emotional or physical abuse Westerners are too free and too busy working. They don't set good examples for how to raise children 1 Like |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by bepositive11: 5:35am On Aug 14, 2021 |
adioolayi: Children are very vulnerable -- physically, mentally, and psychologically. They cannot fend for themselves. It's very wicked of anyone to beat such vulnerable, innocent beings. They deserve empathy. Even when stubborn, it's better to discipline them without emotional or physical abuse I find it very ridiculous how people say that it's wrong for a man to beat a woman but ok for an adult to beat a child |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by bepositive11: 5:36am On Aug 14, 2021 |
coolcharm: I find it very ridiculous how people say that it's wrong for a man to beat a woman but ok for an adult to beat a child Children are very vulnerable -- physically, mentally, and psychologically. They cannot fend for themselves. It's very wicked of anyone to beat such vulnerable, innocent beings. They deserve empathy. Even when stubborn, it's better to discipline them without emotional or physical abuse Westerners are too free and busy with work to discipline their kids. They're not good examples neither are they proof that koboko works How would you feel if someone whipped you with koboko right now? 1 Like |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by bepositive11: 5:37am On Aug 14, 2021 |
goodmorning40: I find it very ridiculous how people say that it's wrong for a man to beat a woman but ok for an adult to beat a child Children are very vulnerable -- physically, mentally, and psychologically. They cannot fend for themselves. It's very wicked of anyone to beat such vulnerable, innocent beings. They deserve empathy. Even when stubborn, it's better to discipline them without emotional or physical abuse How would you feel if someone flogged you right now and you weren't able to defend yourself? 1 Like |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by elonmuskbaby: 5:42am On Aug 14, 2021 |
LordVoldermort:and even oyibo children Na oyinbo Children go carry gun kill him parents for nothing or carry gun to school and go on a killing spree |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by zedegit: 5:47am On Aug 14, 2021 |
goodmorning40: Flogging is seen as violence. Too much of it can make a child rebellious. |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by Nobody: 5:47am On Aug 14, 2021 |
WoundedLamb:exactly bro....reading through the post there's a place they said WHEN YOU KNOW SOMETHING DOESNT WORK ITS A PRETTY GOOD REASON TO LOOK FOR DIFFERENT APPROACH that's something you can't find in a black man. a black man stick to some Bible instructions that isn't helping and I asked how many times did Joseph hit Jesus with a stick when he told his father am not going with you am in my fathers house already. Why didn't Jesus go home first.....do his chores then go back to the church.....why didn't he respect his parents and upon doing this....did his parents hit him with a stick or rod according to his proverb bla bla bla Try after church and tell your mum and dad oh am not going home....am in my fathers house 1 Share
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Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by bong4(m): 6:29am On Aug 14, 2021 |
WoundedLamb: In addition, I keep asking myself why we are even the way we are with all the beatings of the 80s and 90s. |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by bong4(m): 6:36am On Aug 14, 2021 |
Jeromejnr: That same USA has a system developed by the "unflogged" children which is attracting several people all over the world. Which inventions all over the world were developed by children that were flogged. |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by EdiskyHarry: 6:37am On Aug 14, 2021 |
No sense in this Post. because you have seen all this advanced countries doing this, you think it will work over here, In America I watched a video of an 11 years old child smoking in front of her mum. I wonder what my mum would have done to me if I smoked at that age. Thanks to my mum and dad for all the good deciplnes. |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by Jeromejnr(m): 6:50am On Aug 14, 2021 |
bong4: Do you know what invention means?. Or the difference between inventions and modifications? Who are the people leading tech companies in Silicon Valley today, is it not Indians and people of other races. The America you guys are killing yourselves for was built on strong moral principles..with British disciplines. Not now that the woke is destroying the country. The people who invented where people brought up in good Christian homes. When home discipline with the belt was acceptable. People who later received Nobel prizes. 1 Like
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Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by Nobody: 6:51am On Aug 14, 2021 |
CelestineNelson:Will u beat your chest and say children of pastors are better in human behavior than children of atheist? Why do Africans think everything is spiritual? Where has the spirituality got you as a race? With your spirituality you are still the worst continent on earth. Even the white people that brought the "god" to you know when to apply wisdom. But you guys think everything is spiritual. Look at Africa today? Abi your "god" is not working for you? With all you do spiritually, why is he not making your continent great? When ll u start Using ur brains and recognise when to use Brian and when to pray? Spirituality is not replacement for common sense. Everything Africans don't understand they term it spiritual instead of making efforts to understand because they have very weak brain that can't think far. These are simple practical ways to achieve result but naaaaa...u prefer to hand it to "god" to discipline ur children...a mandate he gave you ... Haba!!! |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by IRIENBOY(m): 7:04am On Aug 14, 2021 |
Yes |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by samx4real(m): 7:21am On Aug 14, 2021 |
This is why they end up raising up binary and LGBT people. Let them continue... Make my wife born make d pikin misbehave whether he no go collect the African way. God punish that satan of no floging. |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by adioolayi(m): 8:04am On Aug 14, 2021 |
bepositive11: Chief, we all know what we talk about in correcting a child in African's way devoid of abuse. I still maintain you can't train a child in this part of the world without some little spanking. If it's possible, well.. good luck |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by bukatyne(f): 8:26am On Aug 14, 2021 |
WoundedLamb: You have gone an extreme to prove a point. Not all parents hit their kids like animals; some beat their kids with love and explain why they have done so. I am not saying the Nigerian way of child upbringing is totally right: Nigerian parents punish their kids.... They don't set clear expectations, train them on what to do, engage them to understand their personality or reward good behavior enough and they can pick that from this article and do better. Don't mean they have to discard flogging in love when necessary. We can read people's good points to add to ours instead of throwing ours away like zombies. |
Re: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by harmony75: 8:45am On Aug 14, 2021 |
They're some kids and some situations you have to spank. Cain. punish to discipline your kids! Don't pamper them when they're naughty but when they're have performed well praise them but as a parent you can't give what you don't have that's another problem! |
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