Let me just put it here that insulting me would be a waste of your time. A complete waste so don’t even bother.
Now, I’ve got a man I have been with for a while, he recently cheated and I’m just not feeling him anymore as I’m so big on trust in a relationship.
Now he’s begging me to stay with him. He is rich, very comfortable and gifts me things. He got a car for me and the car is on its way from the abroad and he wants to set up a business for me as well as other things like properties etc
The problem is, he is a narcissist. He is very manipulative and controlling and life with him is point blank problematic and it will really affect my mental health. Should I stay with him and get those things, then leave when I am fully independent or should I leave now and protect my mental health.

Mmm

If you stay back because of the goodies and as you've said, he's gonna feel entitles to you and sooner or later he might starting beating you to a pulp if you complain about anything.

Good life is sweet and it can choke you unexpectedly.

Also, if you feel the goodies and the abuse you might face later on ain't worth your metal health, then you should just take your L now. I doubt if you gonna take your L.

But either ways, don't come back to create a thread and disturb us again.

Say dis prayer.its very important.

May girls treat my sons the way,i'm about to treat dis man.ijn.

I won’t insult you ooo why will I?

Truth be told, there are so many simps in Nigeria and they simply need to learn their lessons. I am trying my best to teach most of my gees how to step into the alpha lifestyle and be Redpill however most people won’t learn.

Indeed, experience is the best teacher. Maybe after an experience in your hands, he’ll know better than to be a simp. SO PLEASE EAT HIS MONEY...

However, on another note by the time you leave him, If he comes for your head to take a piece of revenge, I no dy o ...

Seated

BarrSly:


I won’t insult you ooo why will I?

Truth be told, there are so many simps in Nigeria and they simply need to learn their lessons. I am trying my best to teach most of my gees how to step into the alpha lifestyle and be Redpill however most people won’t learn.

Indeed, experience is the best teacher. Maybe after an experience in your hands, he’ll know better than to be a simp. SO PLEASE EAT HIS MONEY...

However, on another note by the time you leave him, If he comes for your head to take a piece of revenge, I no dy o ...

We gather dey oo lol

MejiLoyon:
Seated

Don’t just sit abeg, give your opinion

donbachi:
Say dis prayer.its very important.

May girls treat my sons the way,i'm about to treat dis man.ijn.

If my sons Bleep up, it’s on them. Period

Adetoluwa2:


Don’t just sit abeg, give your opinion

Does my sitting disturb you? Leave me to read comments please.

Your situation is simply what give birth to seductive, manipulative and art of indirection that has been perfected by skilled ladies.

Ladies who find themselves caught in between brutish men are forced to scheme, plot and wear a mask usually living a lie meticulously.

Regardless of whether he cheats or not, you are in a quagmire. So forget about his cheating for now.

Your goal is to get what you can while the going is good. Shoulder his annoying tendencies and plot your exit. You would simply need to skip town and toss your SIM card when you are done because he feels he owns you and would want a pound of flesh if you break up with him.

Be an extraordinary woman because she scoops to conquer.

Psych yourself to Keep your mental health

Godada:



Your situation is simply what give birth to seductive, manipulative and art of indirection that has been perfected skilled ladies.

Regardless of whether he cheats or not, you are in a quagmire. So forget about his cheating for now.

Your goal is to get what you can while the going is good. Shoulder his annoying tendencies and plot your exit. You would simply need to skip town and toss your SIM card.

Be an extraordinary woman because she scoops to conquer.

Psych yourself to Keep your mental health

T for thanks.

Osho free choke you there

Bouz:
Osho free choke you there

Wetin dis one dey talk

Adetoluwa2:


Wetin dis one dey talk

May thunder disfigure the man behind this account, you guys create fake account to post nonsense about ladies.

Babe collect those things and immediately resell them with some flimsy excuse, this is to have full claim to those gifts,if you now leave without grabbing those gifts to make yourself independent wetin you come gain?just be smart.You can overlook all the gifts sha if you really don't need them.Lastly don't marry such man,you'll regret.Plan your exit wisely.

Bouz:
May thunder disfigure the man behind this account, you guys create fake account to post nonsense about ladies.

Abeg rest

Rozcol:
Babe collect those things and immediately resell them with some flimsy excuse, this is to have full claim to those gifts,if you now leave without grabbing those gifts to make yourself independent wetin you come gain?just be smart.You can overlook all the gifts sha if you really don't need them.Lastly don't marry such man,you'll regret.Plan your exit wisely.

Thank you

Adetoluwa2:


Thank you

You are welcome, life is check and balance, never trade your love and emotions for free,the goal is never to be at the loosing end.

Godada:

Your situation is simply what give birth to seductive, manipulative and art of indirection that has been perfected by skilled ladies.

Ladies who find themselves caught in between brutish men are forced to scheme, plot and wear a mask usually living a lie meticulously.

Regardless of whether he cheats or not, you are in a quagmire. So forget about his cheating for now.

Your goal is to get what you can while the going is good. Shoulder his annoying tendencies and plot your exit. You would simply need to skip town and toss your SIM card when you are done because he feels he owns you and would want a pound of flesh if you break up with him.

Be an extraordinary woman because she scoops to conquer.

Psych yourself to Keep your mental health

the whole simple truth

Ok

First of all, he do make love with ya right?

BarrSly:


I won’t insult you ooo why will I?

Truth be told, there are so many simps in Nigeria and they simply need to learn their lessons. I am trying my best to teach most of my gees how to step into the alpha lifestyle and be Redpill however most people won’t learn.

Indeed, experience is the best teacher. Maybe after an experience in your hands, he’ll know better than to be a simp. SO PLEASE EAT HIS MONEY...

However, on another note by the time you leave him, If he comes for your head to take a piece of revenge, I no dy o ...

Am supporting your advice with two bags of garri

The niggur cheated and that for me is the deal breaker.
Never feel as a man your money makes you entitled to cheating, that's lame.
For you girl, I would endorse you on this one.
Be self centered or egocentric as you like if only you never cheated on him.
Niggur f**ked up big time.

What does it feel like to have $1million in your akant and cuddling with your pretty, busty wife in this cold weather, watching bbn on a sofa or in bed.

With the kids tucked in bed and sleeping away and you with your wife relishing every moment of warmth and hearts beating together.. Father Lord!!

I want to have this life or I die.. Wait!

I guess I can only imagine.

This life no just balance wala

Abeg eat the SIMP money

you've concluded in your mind already. No matter the advice we give you. We all know what you'll do

Adetoluwa2:
Let me just put it here that insulting me would be a waste of your time. A complete waste so don’t even bother.
Now, I’ve got a man I have been with for a while, he recently cheated and I’m just not feeling him anymore as I’m so big on trust in a relationship.
Now he’s begging me to stay with him. He is rich, very comfortable and gifts me things. He got a car for me and the car is on its way from the abroad and he wants to set up a business for me as well as other things like properties etc
The problem is, he is a narcissist. He is very manipulative and controlling and life with him is point blank problematic and it will really affect my mental health. Should I stay with him and get those things, then leave when I am fully independent or should I leave now and protect my mental health.

hum mm tell us the truth,all I see here is lies..

Lmao get the car first sis

believe dis prayer.its very important.May boys treatmentment my children the thing,i'm about to treatmentment dis man.ijn.

Important lesson: Anything you are doing for your " girlfriend " do it in your name.

Buy the car in your name, open the business in your name and buy the property in your name.

Make her understand you are doing it as a family because you looking at both of you getting married as one.

In a nutshell, it will be the families' car, business, properties, etc. The day she decides to leave she ain't taking anything along with her.

Legbegbe21:
you've concluded in your mind already. No matter the advice we give you. We all know what you'll do

If I concluded already, I wouldn’t be here love

techWriter1:
believe dis prayer.its very important.May boys treatmentment my children the thing,i'm about to treatmentment dis man.ijn.

My brother, if my children step out on their relationships and cheat, whatever happens afterwards is on them. I’d raise them better than to do that though