LilMissFavvy:
Sad. He should have handled it within the home, this is not the kind of issue you throw on social media. Is he going to divorce his wife or what?

Lol...this ender and typing nonesense in support your nonesense behaviour though.

Just pray something this heartbreaking doesn't come near you. It's always easier to think maturity when it's not happening to you.

Ishilove:

You're following them to say 'fear women's and advertising your services at the same time. So women are not among your potential clientele? Instead of you to face your business and leave gender matters alone, you dey use mouth spoil your market. You need to learn business ethics.

Ok ma

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TWLifestyle:
lol - you ppl are still learning . You will soon know Africa has changed . And pls stop deceiving yourselves - men are not the sole breadwinners in most homes , anymore . So it is family money .

Men might not be the sole breadwinners but the money women bring to the table is negligable even if the woman earns almost the same as the man.
The woman will prefer to follow trends and be buying expensive jewelry in the name of looking good.

Africa might have changed but the change is still negligable. Patriarchy still reigns supreme.
Worst sef is Afghanistan, shebi you no see the trend wey Talibans burn woman wey no sabi Cook food talkless of say she cheat.

obembet:


No one is perfect.

And pls don't blame the woman, let hear the other side of the story

here we go again ,u wan still defend such an action ,is it that the female gender is just a confuse gender ,?

Ballack1:
Wahala be like watin again?

Bicycle with no brakes �

Are you ok? How about I decide to bring up a child that I have not fathered willingly?

GRACEGLORY:
Too bad of that woman. She must have been living in torments. Well, at least now she’s free from self torment.

On the contrary,
It’s not DNA that determines who’s your child and who’s not. It’s fatherhood based on acknowledgment.

It seems Nigeria women are the worst in the world

Pls where can one get one done in Lagos you know, and what the cost may be?

TWLifestyle:
this sound like a great idea the problem is men have decided they are the only ones that have a right to adultery - so naturally wonen would lie to cover up adultery . This problem of using your money to raise kids that are not your own would be reduced if we could have more honest conversations

Men are not the ones preventing these women from committing adultery as in most cases the act is committed by a man and a woman. The issue at hand is why lie about the origin of a pregnancy ? Like the woman is satisfied, and sleeps well at night watching a man believe the child is biologically his and the child also believes the man is the father, watching the family live a lie all their lives and she's OK with it. A man cannot father a child outside and make another woman believe the the child belongs to her. He won't even bring the child home without her consent. Why can't these women extend this same decorum to men? Like you said we should have more honest conversations...

TWLifestyle:
lol . I said go and read up on it . Its not in western countries - I said Nigeria.

No law like that in Nigeria

daddytime:


It was all jokes bro.

Apologies if you too any offence, please.

I initially took it as a joke. No hard feelings

GRACEGLORY:
Too bad of that woman. She must have been living in torments. Well, at least now she’s free from self torment.

On the contrary,
It’s not DNA that determines who’s your child and who’s not. It’s fatherhood based on acknowledgment.

What the crap! Acknowledgment by choice and not acknowledgment by deception...

Sorry bro, these hoes ain't loyal

daddytime:
Thank God say all my shidren carry my signature forehead luckily for me. DNA na just extra to fulfil all righteousness.


This guy think say God dey craze to give we humans some special and outstanding physical features.

These special features aren't for decorative purposes but to serve as our autographs/trademarks.

God and nature bless you with this kind kpomo lip. Woman come tell you say him born pikin for you. As a sharp man, your first assignment na to begin investigate whether the pikin upper/lower lip carry your signature.

Some might think this funny or senseless, but it's a simple fact.

Snake must give birth to long thing.

u think na by signature them dey use judge am...ok now..dey there

TWLifestyle:
Lol , u people really need to man up . How many men have kids outside wedlock that the wife didn't know about . You people will now be crying blood when women do what you do with impunity . People who don't see anything wrong when men cheat should not cry foul when women cheat and the results show up .

Lol

Do the Man bring the kids home and impose on the wife to train without her knowledge?

If she got pregnant outside, she should hide the pregnancy, deliver and keep the BST away from the husband's finance and emotions..

TWLifestyle:
Lol , u people really need to man up . How many men have kids outside wedlock that the wife didn't know about . You people will now be crying blood when women do what you do with impunity . People who don't see anything wrong when men cheat should not cry foul when women cheat and the results show up .

you talk like a. child- the pikin the man have outside, is the man’s financial responsibility not the woman’s responsibility BUT the child the woman brought from another man to her husband is her husband’s financial responsibility- IF you ever have played a responsible dad role in your child’s life - assuming you have one, you will realize the emotional drain, financial strain and physical pain it takes to raise a child

From conception where the mother torments you with weird behavior to spending on her -during antenatal and delivery comes - buy buy here and there - spendings on the child. cry cry at night no sleep - having to sacrifice your time from doing things that u love to do to assist raising the child - then the spending no be here ooo - ALL FOR ANOTHER MAN’s Chiid? kuku keel us nah

obembet:


No one is perfect.

And pls don't blame the woman, let hear the other side of the story

na that other side of the story kih your papa

TWLifestyle:
Lol , u people really need to man up . How many men have kids outside wedlock that the wife didn't know about . You people will now be crying blood when women do what you do with impunity . People who don't see anything wrong when men cheat should not cry foul when women cheat and the results show up .

Not justifying what some men do but please have some dignity! The men do not impose the kids outside wedlock on their wife and home. A woman knows what she did and most likely the father but foists the pregnancy on another man to raise as his own. That is devilish! I believe most men won't bother if women give birth somewhere and the kids remain there.

It is better a man knows he is incapable or yet to father any child instead imposing some bastards on him to raise as his own. Years of devotion, prioritising, providing and wasted joy for nothing just because a loose woman sneaked in a bastard.

You no thank your God say is just four years not 40years.

obembet:


No one is perfect.

And pls don't blame the woman, let hear the other side of the story

Please tell me what part of “the other side of the story” would justify lying to your partner and deceiving him for seven years?

GRACEGLORY:
Too bad of that woman. She must have been living in torments. Well, at least now she’s free from self torment.

On the contrary,
It’s not DNA that determines who’s your child and who’s not. It’s fatherhood based on acknowledgment.

The one you acknowledged and adopted is very different from the one that was snuck into your house.

Women fuvk around. This is what I see on a daily basis in office married women going after their bosses in the office why their husbands are thanking God for giving them a working class wife.

just imagine! you are really an intelligent man. this virginal people can be very dangerous.
like i use to tell young men, the bible does not urge the woman to love her husband cos woman are not wired to love a man, dey can only be interested in what you can provide. if it's sex, they can get it anytime, anyway, anywhere for free twice on friday.

the problem is men are born a simp and most times we don't realize until we get burnt.

Did the child's DNA match with the mothers'? If yes then, then she cheated. If no!! Then you know the rest.

Sanchez01:

Not justifying what some men do but please have some dignity! The men do not impose the kids outside wedlock on their wife and home. A woman knows what she did and most likely the father but foists the pregnancy on another man to raise as his own. That is devilish! I believe most men won't bother if women give birth somewhere and the kids remain there.

It is better a man knows he is incapable or yet to father any child instead imposing some bastards on him to raise as his own. Years of devotion, prioritising, providing and wasted joy for nothing just because a loose woman sneaked in a bastard.

l9l , funny how a man's pain is always more important than women's. Do you know how painful it is when a man father's kids outside? And most times women only get to know after he is dead and kids spring up from nowhere ? Lol . You people don't knpw anything - until we all learn to keep our genitals in our pants when we are married - you people will keep suffering paternity fraud . Illegitimate babies are a result of infidelity and whether from the man or woman it's painful - Its just unfortunate that women can't hide their own like men so they have to bring it Into the home - I'm sure if we could we would ! Sorry but it is what it is. Maybe the ideal situation would be for everybody to stay faithful to their vows - But we know the gender who can't do that .

okuta007:



you talk like a. child- the pikin the man have outside, is the man’s financial responsibility not the woman’s responsibility BUT the child the woman brought from another man to her husband is her husband’s financial responsibility- IF you ever have played a responsible dad role in your child’s life - assuming you have one, you will realize the emotional drain, financial strain and physical pain it takes to raise a child

From conception where the mother torments you with weird behavior to spending on her -during antenatal and delivery comes - buy buy here and there - spendings on the child. cry cry at night no sleep - having to sacrifice your time from doing things that u love to do to assist raising the child - then the spending no be here ooo - ALL FOR ANOTHER MAN’s Chiid? kuku keel us nah

eeyah , too bad . Do you know the pain women feel when you people are donating your pryck up and down ? Do you know the pain womrn feel when they find out their men have kids outside ? Of course because you people have bullied women into accepting your disgusting behaviour you think its only your gender that feels pain loooooooooooooool . I'm happy to welcome you guys to the frustration, pain and humiliation your roving prycks and bad behaviour have caused women for so long . na how e dey pain be this.

Be glad my friend trained three (3) ages 17, 14 and 10yrs children that was born in his house after marriage.

The mother of the children confirmed they are not his children and moved out if the house with the children.

Can anything be as painful more than my friend's situation. He have decided to move.

jrobbins:


Lol

Do the Man bring the kids home and impose on the wife to train without her knowledge?

If she got pregnant outside, she should hide the pregnancy, deliver and keep the BST away from the husband's finance and emotions..

lol , unfortunately she can't- I'm sure if she could she would - most women habe no intention to cause you so much heartbreak - she probably just wanted to cheat exactly the way you people cheat - and she brought home a child instead of a disease like you people normally bring home. Is she supposed to abort the child ? Of course not .

TWLifestyle:
l9l , funny how a man's pain is always more important than women's. Do you know how painful it is when a man father's kids outside? And most times women only get to know after he is dead and kids spring up from nowhere ? Lol . You people don't knpw anything - until we all learn to keep our genitals in our pants when we are married - you people will keep suffering paternity fraud . Illegitimate babies are a result of infidelity and whether from the man or woman it's painful - Its just unfortunate that women can't hide their own like men so they have to bring it Into the home - I'm sure if we could we would ! Sorry but it is what it is. Maybe the ideal situation would be for everybody to stay faithful to their vows - But we know the gender who can't do that .

I do not support or approve of men cheating or fathering kids outside of their marriage. And as a matter of fact, all of the paternity fraud stories that made it to the news all have one thing in common—and that is the fact that the men were gentle. Men in this category are often prone to paternity fraud. But somehow, you, a female, found it ideal to equate or draw a comparison similar to what some irresponsible men do rather than condemn this. This is not a gender war but you somewhat turned it on its head.

If you are married, I pity the unfortunate individual you are married to. If you are not, here is one reason I advocate would-be partners should run social media checks on themselves as that is the only place where everyone is real and genuine these days. That said, you are morally bankrupt individual and it is noticeable from miles away.

addictiv:

Men are not the ones preventing these women from committing adultery as in most cases the act is committed by a man and a woman. The issue at hand is why lie about the origin of a pregnancy ? Like the woman is satisfied, and sleeps well at night watching a man believe the child is biologically his and the child also believes the man is the father, watching the family live a lie all their lives and she's OK with it. A man cannot father a child outside and make another woman believe the the child belongs to her. He won't even bring the child home without her consent. Why can't these women extend this same decorum to men? Like you said we should have more honest conversations...

do men tell their wives when they father children outside ? It's the same thing- it's just paining you people that your own involves spending money on the child. I'm sure if we could all be open and honest about these things it would be better for everybody involved but since you people have decided that you are the only ones that are " naturally polygamous" - this is what you get. Dont be mad - we are all playing the game using your rules .

TWLifestyle:
eeyah , too bad . Do you know the pain women feel when you people are donating your pryck up and down ? Do you know the pain womrn feel when they find out their men have kids outside ? Of course because you people have bullied women into accepting your disgusting behaviour you think its only your gender that feels pain loooooooooooooool . I'm happy to welcome you guys to the frustration, pain and humiliation your roving prycks and bad behaviour have caused women for so long . na how e dey pain be this.

men cheat - women gets hurt emotionally
women cheat - men gets hurt emotionally

1-1 no winner between men and women

on paternity fraud - women win men lose
on illegitimate child - men lose women lose

on paternity fraud and illegitimate child

1-0 advantage women

in all scenarios - men lose
women win on a successful paternity fraud

so what’s your argument ?

tidalstorm:
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Men might not be the sole breadwinners but the money women bring to the table is negligable even if the woman earns almost the same as the man.
The woman will prefer to follow trends and be buying expensive jewelry in the name of looking good.

Africa might have changed but the change is still negligable. Patriarchy still reigns supreme.
Worst sef is Afghanistan, shebi you no see the trend wey Talibans burn woman wey no sabi Cook food talkless of say she cheat.

this is a lie - womwn spend a large chunk of their money on the household and the children . My mother contributed nearly all she earned into the home - I don't know about yours . Are you trying to say men do not spend money in socialising ? The amount of money men spend socialising with their friends is more than what women spend to look good . Lol , I'm sure you love the Taliban - cos they are showing women , abi? Looooool move to Afghanistan nah .