tunjijones:
I was earning 72k month salary early last year. I now earn almost 800k monthly. My life has changed tremendously just within one year.

Congratulations! Don't forget to invest

arthurwillia:
Im a very dark complexioned guy, I let it define me in 100 till 300level, I will not walk in crowded places, I won’t stay in crowded place. Lol self esteem wan finish me but then 400l till I finishe, I started making conscious efforts to overgrow it, which I did eventually. I’m glad I overgrew it went for service, struggled with crowds at first but then still integrated, talked to an online therapist. It’s not easy Mehn

pls can you connect me to the online therapist?

Omo, since i stopped taking loan from LAPO, I have been my self more than B4. I can think freeeeeeely.

begoniaa:
Falling in love with an awesomely amazing man.

Una go still break up

So there are no changes in the life of our ladies here.........hmmm

I’ve become lazy. Ever since cutting costs put my work team on the bench for many months running, I find it difficult to rise from bed and take baths nowadays because there is no deadline of any sort to meet.

I just discovered my Christian life of praying is very low

DoggoneDogg:
My erection is no longer what it once was. Time to get married I guess...

time don reach be dat

Tremendous change, lately.....?
BoooHaaaRiiiii

Just yesterday I was thinking about certain things in my life and how I need systemic change and I come to the following conclusions that:
1. No more of bringing random Abuja girls home again.
2. Putting and end to my plenty friend, cus lately I've been smelling envy and jealousy.
3. Concentrating on myself because even with my small salary I can achieve alot before the end of the year.

GeneralKoko:
I really want to know because I have a lot to share .

Just last year here, I didn't have an esteem . I didn't believe in myself.i didn't love myself one bit. But now I'm confident. I'm not yet at the permanent site but I'm getting there.
A lot has changed really . I've learnt to love myself, I've learnt to keep things to myself and I also realized I need myself more than friends.

I'm no longer depressed and I'm now so focused on chasing my dreams .
Ohhhh I also realized "School is not a scam" but hoping on your certificate as a source of livelihood after school is stupid.

I've learnt a lot.
Share yours.

cool, God will surely fulfill his promises of blessings in our life
Just don't forget that more important than all this is your Soul after life.
St. Matthew 16:26 For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?

I have stop seeking attention from people who don't care weather I exist or not,i hv learn to love my self Nd i have also learn to draw nearer to GOD.
I have learnt alot , share yours

Finally got myself to quit soda. Been 5 months now. I don't even know the current price of Coca Cola.

Became more organized than I used to be. I started waking up early, and started making time for recreational activities like taking walks, movies, video games, trying new stuff.

My own tremendous change is a negative one though.
I lost my mom on Friday, August 6 and since then I can't even explain the state of my mind. E still dey do me like dream

I ran out of all my FuCkz

spartan117:
Learnt how to code during the lockdown last year and got 2 well paying software development jobs this year. I work less than 7 hours a day, sometimes I just defer my work to the night and sleep all day long or go out. Working both jobs didn't turn out to be as stressful as I envisaged, though there are some really stressful days or weeks especially when I have to deliver a difficult task and the deadline is fast approaching.

On the relationship aspect I'm learning to smile more and genuinely care about the well being of those around me. I've also learnt to be friendlier and chit chat more often with the opposite sex, this has always been a challenge for me as I'm a very introverted (not shy though) person I've always seen talking to others and sharing your life with others as a waste of time. But I'm beginning to see the benefits, I guess there is a balance somewhere.

It's been God all the way...

what programming language did you learn ?

Negative.
I talk too much due to long term depression and years of loneliness.
It’s sad though.

Since i got a new bike for balance and take my wife suddenly become Penny less i wonder why and how but i couldn't figure out where the changes occurred life na whoa


I just discovered hierarchically, that the most loyal to a man is
A. My dog: rot
2. Man
3. Woman
No. 3 will betray you 3 times before no.1 and 2 times before no.2[/quote]

I have been an addict for so many years, just woke up one day and I say this has to stop, I destroyed anything Highness in my room, start AA meeting, It has not been easy for me,cus every day I want to get high, but I hope I stay sober till I die

GeneralKoko:
I really want to know because I have a lot to share .

Just last year here, I didn't have an esteem . I didn't believe in myself.i didn't love myself one bit. But now I'm confident. I'm not yet at the permanent site but I'm getting there.
A lot has changed really . I've learnt to love myself, I've learnt to keep things to myself and I also realized I need myself more than friends.

I'm no longer depressed and I'm now so focused on chasing my dreams .
Ohhhh I also realized "School is not a scam" but hoping on your certificate as a source of livelihood after school is stupid.

I've learnt a lot.
Share yours.

As you make the transition, remove this "permanent site" mindset. Always strive to attain a higher and better state....keep moving bro!

BigMoneyeye:
Grown taller than I was a year ago and more beards... Also I now have more sleepless nights and endless worries.

It's hard to balance morals and trying to escape poverty. Perhaps crime is necessary

I want to be part of that crime
Pick my call na

begoniaa:
Falling in love with an awesomely amazing man.

U were fast with ur decision and now it didn't favour me..... Gosh �

Having Jesus Christ in my life and being led and being guided by the Holy Spirit �️ of the Living God.
Nothing compares to this at all.

Japhet04:
pls can you connect me to the online therapist?

+234 814 459 7995 Talk to this guy, tell him you need a therapist, that you saw mental awareness on Twitter so you’ll like him to talk to you.

FaruqMadridCr7:
WOW thank you.im just 19 FEAR wan kill me bruh, wondering if I'll ever be happy.check my bio bro to see what I'm talking about

Damn pele

Ay92:
My own tremendous change is a negative one though.
I lost my mom on Friday, August 6 and since then I can't even explain the state of my mind. E still dey do me like dream

kpele
Be strong..

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I now play PS5 better than thes secondary and university students..... Guess am now growing younger. Reverse ageing in particular


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Sonnobax15:

These days, I've drastically reduced the way I call people on the phone and how I pick calls also...I no dey call again and I hardly pick peoples calls too....
Only today,I've had over 12 missed calls....

Come on, what's the essence of wasting my airtime calling to check up on people who won't be there for me when I need them?

I just wor dey on my own for now Abeg.. Apart from business related calls and hang outs, please count me out

Seems we share same changes lately....

Just lately, it's been very hard for me to pick up a strange number.... even when the person keeps calling over and over....

I don't understand that changes but I'm gonna monitor while it last....

Writing

Have learnt to trust God more
Not to please anybody with my life but respect them and go my way
Love myself and take good rest
Also have learnt public speaking

Vinnie2000:
OP
Not a Personal change tho.
But
I have noticed from social media dat Naija girls are becoming Aggressive, rude and cold-hearted..
As a Guy intending to marry, the Thing dey Surprise me, nor be Small..

Go offline, there are something you can tell someone online that you can tell the person face to face.