Klass99:
The answer to your question is in your own narrative - the kids.
Some married couples (emphasis on some) tolerate one another and endure shit for the sake of their kids.
Where is your uncle's wife now?

Justbehave:
Only weak sissy simps takes such rubbish

kenzysmith:
The day my wife go shout like radio for my ears day and night I go comot her two front teeth and throw her out. No be by force say husband and wife must stay one house I don't take nonsense

realestate99:
Man pass Man, some men are very principled, even their aura can be felt by someone in coma. Some men don't shift their ground o, women behave when they know their is repercussion for every iniquity.

1999, our Neighbour, a very reserved man chased his wife out without letting her pick a pin, the wife was fighting another lady when the man came back from work, the man looked at his wife for almost one minute then he entered the room. after the wife was exhausted with her royal rumble, she met the door closed

Almost every adult in the vicinity begged this man to let the wife enter but to no avail, the wife had to sleep outside with a female neighbour,
the following day, the man dressed the kids, dropped them at school and went to work, the summary is, the wife did not enter that room again after that night, all her family members came but this guy didn't yield, that was how the guy discarded his wife without letting her pick a pin. The guy died of recent without getting remarried, and he gave the children a sound education till tertiary level.

Crossroad1:
Let me use my uncle as an example here...

This is a very hardworking man who doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't watch football and doesn't womanize.
An extreme introvert who doesn't even keep friends but he got married to a very temperamental woman but it wasn't so initially.
Shade (not real name) was very loving when they first met, it was love at first sight..
Though she was the outgoing, party starter type, but she was a good cook, and like egbon said, she can allow him have sex with her anywhere and anytime.

Her promiscuous side wasn't in the open all these while.
How she manage to keep it a secret is still a mystery though egbon is someone who is always busy at work and the wife though a graduate choose to learn hairdressing to keep herself busy.

Shade is a very pretty woman. When I mean pretty, I mean extremely pretty.. If you are seeing her for the first time, you will believe she is an half caste.
But she get angry for no reason, small argument or admonishing, she can just get angry, get out of the house and egbon will looking for her..
Maybe it was because of the beauty or the good food, or the not denying of sex, I don't know (egbon always believe with time, he can tame her) but she had a great influence over egbon..

Even when the family was beginning to notice her bad attitude, egbon choose her over the family cos he really love her, he loved her pass love self...

Egbon wasn't well to do when they met, he was living in a face me I slap you house wherr they share toilet with everyone..

While they live together, it is sometimes 1-0-1 or 0-1-1 or 0-0-1 but she stood by him all through that time..
So they got married despite almost everyone was against it.

The real problem started when she started giving birth.
She threw caution to the wind and became abusive. She was very strict to family members, manipulative and self centered...
She came from a broken home anyways, she was raised by her mother but in all fairness, her mother was a good woman who doesn't love trouble and she often wonder where her daughter got her own skuchy from..
Omo, shade get serious craze o..

After 3 kids, egbon couldn't tolerate her again.. She keep late nights and she doesn't even come home most times.
Egbon endured her for 12years before he let her go leaving the kids behind..

She was free to do whatever she wanted.
Let me just fast forward to years later when egbon has sent his kids abroad, he didn't remarry but kept a girlfriend after years of begging him to do so..

While egbon suffered the torture and torment of his wife, he didn't bring the matter to the family, though they know what he was going through..

Many years later, aunty came back using her kids as excuse.

The flower tattoo she drew on her shoulder was already looking like an ugwu leave during harmattan.
Because she was beautiful, her thoughts everyday was maybe someone like dangote or otedola will just wife her..
She is the lazy type that wants to live the lifestyle of alakija.

This is not a fiction.. How come I know so much?

I started living with egbon when I was 14yrs old. My own eyes too see pepper and shege..

Why egbon endured it all was because of the kids.
Most times, egbon said he wished he can run away but the kids keep holding him down cos even on her kids, she no dey get mercy..
My own wife too na dangbana choko and immediately she gave birth to the second child, I catapult am go abroad. The only diff be say, my own wife can die for her kids..

So let's have it. Why do married men keep quiet and tolerate nonsense in their matrimony?

What prompt me to write this story?
He just called me now from the USA and we talked and laughed about so many things he went through. Even him self now dey claim hard guy and redpill.

TWLifestyle:
You men are actually foolish hypocrites to be honest - the rubbish womwn our up with when they are married to you makes this nonsense you just posted pale I to comparison! Do you people know the torture women go through when married to you ? Mscheew . Imagine writing when egbon wants to " chastise" her is she his child for him to be chastising? You people will NEVER agree for a woman to be chastising you bit you think it's your right to chastise another adult like yourselves. I don't blame you though , it's the women that accept you people s rubbish I blame .

saaron:
Some of you will think I'm talking rubbish but it's OK. Sometimes truth is stranger than fiction.
If you're a lady and you wear loads of jewelry, makeup and hairwicks, you're wearing on yourself the Jezebel spirit. The Jezebel spirit is a controlling narcissistic spirit from the PIT of HELL. This evil spirit domicile in women's beauty products is responsible for broken marriages and families across the world.
Pls if you want to be free from being possessed by an evil narcissistic spirit, stay natural. Put no makeup, fake eyelashes and rings. Stay away from all jewelries, earrings, makeup and wicks. They're all demonic materials made in the kingdom of darkness, specially made for ONE PURPOSE - TO kill and destroy.

Those who have ears to hear, let them hear.

Crossroad1:
Let me use my uncle as an example here...

This is a very hardworking man who doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't watch football and doesn't womanize.
An extreme introvert who doesn't even keep friends but he got married to a very temperamental woman but it wasn't so initially.
Shade (not real name) was very loving when they first met, it was love at first sight..
Though she was the outgoing, party starter type, but she was a good cook, and like egbon said, she can allow him have sex with her anywhere and anytime.

Her promiscuous side wasn't in the open all these while.
How she manage to keep it a secret is still a mystery though egbon is someone who is always busy at work and the wife though a graduate choose to learn hairdressing to keep herself busy.

Shade is a very pretty woman. When I mean pretty, I mean extremely pretty.. If you are seeing her for the first time, you will believe she is an half caste.
But she get angry for no reason, small argument or admonishing, she can just get angry, get out of the house and egbon will looking for her..
Maybe it was because of the beauty or the good food, or the not denying of sex, I don't know (egbon always believe with time, he can tame her) but she had a great influence over egbon..

Even when the family was beginning to notice her bad attitude, egbon choose her over the family cos he really love her, he loved her pass love self...

Egbon wasn't well to do when they met, he was living in a face me I slap you house wherr they share toilet with everyone..

While they live together, it is sometimes 1-0-1 or 0-1-1 or 0-0-1 but she stood by him all through that time..
So they got married despite almost everyone was against it.

The real problem started when she started giving birth.
She threw caution to the wind and became abusive. She was very strict to family members, manipulative and self centered...
She came from a broken home anyways, she was raised by her mother but in all fairness, her mother was a good woman who doesn't love trouble and she often wonder where her daughter got her own skuchy from..
Omo, shade get serious craze o..

After 3 kids, egbon couldn't tolerate her again.. She keep late nights and she doesn't even come home most times.
Egbon endured her for 12years before he let her go leaving the kids behind..

She was free to do whatever she wanted.
Let me just fast forward to years later when egbon has sent his kids abroad, he didn't remarry but kept a girlfriend after years of begging him to do so..

While egbon suffered the torture and torment of his wife, he didn't bring the matter to the family, though they know what he was going through..

Many years later, aunty came back using her kids as excuse.

The flower tattoo she drew on her shoulder was already looking like an ugwu leave during harmattan.
Because she was beautiful, her thoughts everyday was maybe someone like dangote or otedola will just wife her..
She is the lazy type that wants to live the lifestyle of alakija.

This is not a fiction.. How come I know so much?

I started living with egbon when I was 14yrs old. My own eyes too see pepper and shege..

Why egbon endured it all was because of the kids.
Most times, egbon said he wished he can run away but the kids keep holding him down cos even on her kids, she no dey get mercy..
My own wife too na dangbana choko and immediately she gave birth to the second child, I catapult am go abroad. The only diff be say, my own wife can die for her kids..

So let's have it. Why do married men keep quiet and tolerate nonsense in their matrimony?

What prompt me to write this story?
He just called me now from the USA and we talked and laughed about so many things he went through. Even him self now dey claim hard guy and redpill.

Iyaebe:
How old is your Egbon I've been looking for a divorcee to marry lol.Bad attitude has nothing to do with beauty so you dont have to associate the bad character with her beauty.

EndRape2:
Women tolerate more shit than this , so what are you talking about

Crossroad1:
Let me use my uncle as an example here...

This is a very hardworking man who doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't watch football and doesn't womanize.
An extreme introvert who doesn't even keep friends but he got married to a very temperamental woman but it wasn't so initially.
Shade (not real name) was very loving when they first met, it was love at first sight..
Though she was the outgoing, party starter type, but she was a good cook, and like egbon said, she can allow him have sex with her anywhere and anytime.

Her promiscuous side wasn't in the open all these while.
How she manage to keep it a secret is still a mystery though egbon is someone who is always busy at work and the wife though a graduate choose to learn hairdressing to keep herself busy.

Shade is a very pretty woman. When I mean pretty, I mean extremely pretty.. If you are seeing her for the first time, you will believe she is an half caste.
But she get angry for no reason, small argument or admonishing, she can just get angry, get out of the house and egbon will looking for her..
Maybe it was because of the beauty or the good food, or the not denying of sex, I don't know (egbon always believe with time, he can tame her) but she had a great influence over egbon..

Even when the family was beginning to notice her bad attitude, egbon choose her over the family cos he really love her, he loved her pass love self...

Egbon wasn't well to do when they met, he was living in a face me I slap you house wherr they share toilet with everyone..

While they live together, it is sometimes 1-0-1 or 0-1-1 or 0-0-1 but she stood by him all through that time..
So they got married despite almost everyone was against it.

The real problem started when she started giving birth.
She threw caution to the wind and became abusive. She was very strict to family members, manipulative and self centered...
She came from a broken home anyways, she was raised by her mother but in all fairness, her mother was a good woman who doesn't love trouble and she often wonder where her daughter got her own skuchy from..
Omo, shade get serious craze o..

After 3 kids, egbon couldn't tolerate her again.. She keep late nights and she doesn't even come home most times.
Egbon endured her for 12years before he let her go leaving the kids behind..

She was free to do whatever she wanted.
Let me just fast forward to years later when egbon has sent his kids abroad, he didn't remarry but kept a girlfriend after years of begging him to do so..

While egbon suffered the torture and torment of his wife, he didn't bring the matter to the family, though they know what he was going through..

Many years later, aunty came back using her kids as excuse.

The flower tattoo she drew on her shoulder was already looking like an ugwu leave during harmattan.
Because she was beautiful, her thoughts everyday was maybe someone like dangote or otedola will just wife her..
She is the lazy type that wants to live the lifestyle of alakija.

This is not a fiction.. How come I know so much?

I started living with egbon when I was 14yrs old. My own eyes too see pepper and shege..

Why egbon endured it all was because of the kids.
Most times, egbon said he wished he can run away but the kids keep holding him down cos even on her kids, she no dey get mercy..
My own wife too na dangbana choko and immediately she gave birth to the second child, I catapult am go abroad. The only diff be say, my own wife can die for her kids..

So let's have it. Why do married men keep quiet and tolerate nonsense in their matrimony?

What prompt me to write this story?
He just called me now from the USA and we talked and laughed about so many things he went through. Even him self now dey claim hard guy and redpill.

FLYFIRE:

Did you see the post on the plight of children in divorces? If yes then, number 1. read it again, number 2. Dey grow come first
But seriously, MAY GOD HIMSELF GIVE US PEACE IN OUR HOMES ...THIS ONE NO BE BY MIGHT OR PERSONAL WISDOM

sisisioge:
Finish the story nau....he took her back?

Well, here is the thing, some people are naturally unkind to people they perceive themselves to be superior to. Superiority is not in materials alone, intellects, exposure, beauty, seex, class, etc have superiority advantages too. Also, you are actually superior to another human in a relationship when they seem to want you more than you want them. Its heady....that's why it's better to find a reasonable human when dealing with matters of the heart or marriage.


You should Listen to Michael Bolton' s " When a Man Loves a Woman" song again to have a feel of what I meant. It swings both ways sha. May God help us....freedom is life o.

BRATISLAVA:


And what spirit do men wear and carry, or are men saints?

Why did Isaac get married by offering gifts of gold, earrings and bracelets?

Crossroad1:
dey sell beer

saaron:
In those days earrings and bracelets were symbols of wealth, not necessarily beauty. It was more or less a form of money used for trade and festivities.
That's not the case today. The obsession to look beautiful has allowed Satan to pervert jewelries, earrings, makeup etc with Jezebel spirit for demonic possession. Almost all of the beauty products for women today are made by agents of Satan. Satan does not play fair.
Take it from me, women who stay natural and don't wear makeup, earrings, hairwicks etc are more submissive to their husbands than women who adone themselves with beauty products. NOTE: Talking from experience.

kriss27:
AAre they from the same tribe and state?

Crossroad1:
dey sell beer

BRATISLAVA:


And the men who carry the spirits of fornication, chronic cheating, deep lust, adultery and sex spirits don't have anything to fear because they don't use make up and wigs? Don't men use jewelry, perfumes and wigs, too?

Try and be balanced on this matter, please. Women have been subjected to listening to this message you're giving for centuries. More women are in the church than in the bar, unlike men.

Why don't you touch on the spirits affecting men? Or are men do pure and heaven ready? Broad is the way to hell for men.

Your castigation of wigs, make up, etc is because men need submissive wives. Sounds selfish and baseless. But these same men, why can't they love their wives?

There's nothing wrong with jewelry, except when it is used like the golden calf, as an idol.

Penboy:


Does it matter?!

Spectaclesawe25:


Read on Narcistic personalty disorder.
Her coming back is the beginning of another journey for her. She has come to eat from the man.
It happened to a man i knew as well, both of them were seperated for more than 15-20 years, she left the kids with the man and followed a younger chap in the USA messing herself up, she came back to nigeria about 5years ago, the man has risen to be a don in the university, two of the kids are already medical doctors, the man refused to allow her back in but you know Nigerian pastors and their counsell, he reluctantly accepted her back. To cut the long story short, the man they use him pension to they manage different ailment oo, she go even travel go abroad for treatment, by 22nd of the month, a whole senior man wey no get pickin e dey feed or send go school again don dey ask 'when dem go pay salary'?. The man did this till 2years ago when himself cm die. I always feel life was unfair to him ni sha.

Iyaebe:
How old is your Egbon I've been looking for a divorcee to marry lol.Bad attitude has nothing to do with beauty so you dont have to associate the bad character with her beauty.

ideatoprince18:
When u get married as a matured man, there are certain things u put into consideration before letting your wife go.

It's not a matter of being a red Piller or a simp!!!. Egbon may have looked at his kids(and also his financial state) and dosent want them separated from their mother at that particular time.

You know most extremely pretty ladies are dunce and manipulative. She may have been looking for a perfect chance to go but she doesn't wasn't to move out by her own self ... She wants to cause serious wahala so that your Egbon would maybe beat her up and she would use domestic abuse as reason for her leaving your Egbon!!!.

I must commend your Egbon for his maturity!!!.... He played his cards well and left her high and dry

Gaddafih001:

Look at what she reduced herself to.
Truth be told,most women just wanted to answer Mrs,kill you and continue their whoring.
Even as young as I am,my own wife was hoping I will die when I fell ill.
I was down for 8 months and she never for one day said sorry,give me food nor water.
Even on the sick bed, I am still feeding my family.
It was my mum,sister and cousin that were feeding me.
I started running the day she said she’s expecting me to die but seems like it’s taking time.
I am just 36, I keep wondering what those in their 60’s pass through.

ideatoprince18:
When u get married as a matured man, there are certain things u put into consideration before letting your wife go.

It's not a matter of being a red Piller or a simp!!!. Egbon may have looked at his kids(and also his financial state) and dosent want them separated from their mother at that particular time.

You know most extremely pretty ladies are dunce and manipulative. She may have been looking for a perfect chance to go but she doesn't wasn't to move out by her own self ... She wants to cause serious wahala so that your Egbon would maybe beat her up and she would use domestic abuse as reason for her leaving your Egbon!!!.

I must commend your Egbon for his maturity!!!.... He played his cards well and left her high and dry

CHoccolaTE:
I want to hear the wife side of the story first

AbujaCitiBlog:

Married men take such rubbish because of other stupid and foolish men out there. If any issue concerning husband and wife come out in the open, you will see most men siding with the woman against their own gender.
It is almost as if most men hate each other and are jealous of each other.

Now let me shock you. The case of Chidinma the murderer is a very clear one. See the way male hegoats were fawning over her, granting her interviews up and down with reckless abandon, even she was driven to court without handcuffs in a private car not even a black Maria! Most men are foolish when it comes to woman matter. Your uncle knew that most of the males in your family will take the side of the toxic wife.

Another example is Tonto Dike, did you notice with her level of toxicity spanning several relationships, most men on social media are fighting for her!

Most Men hate themselves and their gender!

When it comes to marriage, the formula of our forefather remains the best. Young men of nowadays are completely clueless about woman. They just wan Bleep! Useless generation!

blahc007:

90% of Beautiful ladies have entitlement mentality, hence the bad attitude.
They believe all men should kneel before them because they are pretty...
If u talk anyhow...they will threaten to walk out of the relationship....I have seen these flenty flenty times....no be today nyash dey for back