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My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by udede(m): 10:37pm On Sep 08, 2021
I met this South African lady on a dating sight. She is middle aged and simply wanted a husband. I told her planely that I will marry her if she helps me relocate to South Africa. I also made it clear that i have a Nigerian wife at home. I want to be genuine and treat her well and marry here as a second wife.
She is still interested but I need real advice especially from Nigerian in the South.
She lives in Johannesburg
Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by Offpointng: 11:33pm On Sep 08, 2021
udede:
I met this South African lady on a dating sight. She is middle aged and simply wanted a husband. I told her planely that I will marry her if she helps me relocate to South Africa. I also made it clear that i have a Nigerian wife at home. I want to be genuine and treat her well and marry here as a second wife.
She is still interested but I need real advice especially from Nigerian in the South.
She lives in Johannesburg

Well the truth is when it comes to marriage and it's proposal you will just have to look up for some cable transport in the village then you have to link up some generational verses and finally just decide nothing short of any marginal exercise is abducted

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Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by Cloud700: 11:35pm On Sep 08, 2021
udede:
I met this South African lady on a dating sight. She is middle aged and simply wanted a husband. I told her planely that I will marry her if she helps me relocate to South Africa. I also made it clear that i have a Nigerian wife at home. I want to be genuine and treat her well and marry here as a second wife.
She is still interested but I need real advice especially from Nigerian in the South.
She lives in Johannesburg


Bro forget it, she will only use you and dump you later. I lived in SA before and I know how he Dey go for that side. She will later tell you to abandon your wife Nigeria if you later make it over there and if you don’t agree with her she will take you to court and take over your properties or money. My uncle over there still regretting till today. He own a house but right now his renting cos same thing happens to him. If you want to travel to SA get your visa and not depending on any SA woman they are users. My one cent

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Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by int0x80(m): 1:19am On Sep 09, 2021
Cloud700:



Bro forget it, she will only use you and dump you later. I lived in SA before and I know how he Dey go for that side. She will later tell you to abandon your wife Nigeria if you later make it over there and if you don’t agree with her she will take you to court and take over your properties or money. My uncle over there still regretting till today. He own a house but right now his renting cos same thing happens to him. If you want to travel to SA get your visa and not depending on any SA woman they are users. My one cent
They are both going to use each other grin grin

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Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by lymelyte(m): 4:46am On Sep 09, 2021
int0x80:
They are both going to use each other grin grin
exactly.. They both have ulterior motive grin
Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by Klass99(f): 6:51am On Sep 09, 2021
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Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by udede(m): 6:52am On Sep 09, 2021
Cloud700:



Bro forget it, she will only use you and dump you later. I lived in SA before and I know how he Dey go for that side. She will later tell you to abandon your wife Nigeria if you later make it over there and if you don’t agree with her she will take you to court and take over your properties or money. My uncle over there still regretting till today. He own a house but right now his renting cos same thing happens to him. If you want to travel to SA get your visa and not depending on any SA woman they are users. My one cent
thanks bro
Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by udede(m): 6:57am On Sep 09, 2021
Offpointng:


Well the truth is when it comes to marriage and it's proposal you will just have to look up for some cable transport in the village then you have to link up some generational verses and finally just decide nothing short of any marginal exercise is abducted
See wetin buhari don cause,
Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by ahnie: 7:48am On Sep 09, 2021
Offpointng:


Well the truth is when it comes to marriage and it's proposal you will just have to look up for some cable transport in the village then you have to link up some generational verses and finally just decide nothing short of any marginal exercise is abducted
Honestly, problem dey this country, your name really fits you. grin
Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by Nobody: 8:13am On Sep 09, 2021
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Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by bukatyne(f): 8:15am On Sep 09, 2021
udede:
I met this South African lady on a dating sight. She is middle aged and simply wanted a husband. I told her planely that I will marry her if she helps me relocate to South Africa. I also made it clear that i have a Nigerian wife at home. I want to be genuine and treat her well and marry here as a second wife.
She is still interested but I need real advice especially from Nigerian in the South.
She lives in Johannesburg

Is your Nigerian wife aware of this for a start? undecided

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Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by Shokoloko(f): 11:42am On Sep 09, 2021
udede:
I met this South African lady on a dating sight. She is middle aged and simply wanted a husband. I told her planely that I will marry her if she helps me relocate to South Africa. I also made it clear that i have a Nigerian wife at home. I want to be genuine and treat her well and marry here as a second wife.
She is still interested but I need real advice especially from Nigerian in the South.
She lives in Johannesburg
Two months ago, a doctor in SA was in the news where his SA citizenship was revoked when it was "discovered" that he had been previously married.
I put "discovered" in quote as I believe that it was the SA wife that set the discovery investigation in place

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Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by JovialJune(f): 3:21pm On Sep 09, 2021
udede:
I met this South African lady on a dating sight. She is middle aged and simply wanted a husband. I told her planely that I will marry her if she helps me relocate to South Africa. I also made it clear that i have a Nigerian wife at home. I want to be genuine and treat her well and marry here as a second wife.
She is still interested but I need real advice especially from Nigerian in the South.
She lives in Johannesburg


Your Nigerian wife at home, did she accept this?

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Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by 1F30M4(f): 4:42pm On Sep 09, 2021
Offpointng:


Well the truth is when it comes to marriage and it's proposal you will just have to look up for some cable transport in the village then you have to link up some generational verses and finally just decide nothing short of any marginal exercise is abducted

Wahaleaux, why are you laidis grin
Re: My South African Marriage Proposal, Advice Please by 1F30M4(f): 4:46pm On Sep 09, 2021
Abort mission OP.. If you want to travel to South Africa so bad, please do so legitly.. E get why

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