My girl friend wants to travel abroad, she loves me I believe and i love her, she made me make promises to her, but deep down, I doubt if i can wait,

What do u advise?

she probably wouldn't wait for you either.
give her 1 year she'll forget your number.

Wish her safe journey.

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@ Anthonia: I just love your cynical replies! Hmmmmmm

She wont be able to stay truthfull to you.just still be with her but do ur things guy.

Its happened to me before with a girl i was seeing immediately after secondary school.We loved each other but once her family relocated to US,we lost contact within months, so guy do your thing

play away match,

Bobo, pls if u both are not yet married together before she leaves, just diplomatically and stylishly bid ger good-bye. Any cld happen when she arrives here because there is heavy cold in U.K and she could fall prey due to the weather condition. Also, if she can not take care of herself financially , she cld decent so stupily, Bobo their are lots of guys that might want to taste fresh African meat than those rotten ones that are tired.

I'm contributing this because i'm based in U.K.

Just smile if she's going, may be if u pray, she cld reserve her Aso-rock for u till u guys meet again.

Olu-hak

Hey sunej,

I think you should talk to her about your fears, so that both of you can come to a conclusion.

It would be unfair if she is keeping herself for you over there and you are playing 'away match'.

If you feel you can't wait just tell her, so that she'll know where she stands.


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@Lare
Talk to her That'll be breaking her heart, the way she demonstrates love for me these days, any little thing may shatter her and I wouldn't want that. I believe with time she'll be away, the thing go die natural death abi?

is she a british citizen?
what is her immigration status?
I want to warn you that some people might be secretly advising her to "keep her eyes open" to marry to citizenship. It happens.
But you know, she might stay faithful to you. just talk to her about your fears.

If she loves you so much, why is she leaving you?
Please, just dissolve the relationship amicably.
You have no romantic future together, but you can still be e-pals.

Hmmm, I love this, the Oga kpatakpata of nairaland contributed to my thread. No be just that, him reply bam but bros, sit down talk the issue no go easy, the girl get emotion well well, she can cry die for my hand there o!

my dear,we humans are unreliable, let alone a girl,abeg erase am 4ya mind.yu dey read ya bible at all?!

@Naijaborn, u really funny, wetin carry bible enter here

SEUN, na D KOKO u giva am sooo,,

by the way the guy go tell us if she is goin there 4 ,,,, school abi she wan come work abi wetin sef she dey come for,, but neverthelsee my man start to look for another girl and continue from where u wan stop now, and b4 u jump into love again make sure say this one sef no go waka leave u again in future

After too many tori, the babe never travel, Am happy with her and am faithful.

You need to talk to her about her fears. Seriously, she'll respect you for it. She will never be happy if you just dump her with no warning especially if she was gonna wait for you. This is exactly what happened to me, I lost respect for my guy cos he didn't even warn me he was gonna end the relationship, it was as if I was supposed to know that 'that's how it works'.

its a tough call if you ask me and i think you have to think well before you decide.