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Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by igbowoman: 3:31am On Sep 27, 2021 |
tenry: Why was he checking her phone This is why men should never check their wife's phone.Busy body husband. That he saw sex chats doesn't mean anything happened. It is a woman's world, please tell him to be a good husband and never to check her phone again. Infact he needs to go apologize to her for invading her privacy (I just gave the response we hear when the cheating spouse is the man.Now let me read responses) 28 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Akinbahm(m): 3:32am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Mood11: Do you intentionally omitted Oga Ogun/Balogun aka Ex boyfriend factor I do tell some guys you see the new guy is not the problem but the old guys she has had beautiful moments with, those guys have her mumu button. 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by valentineuwakwe(m): 3:34am On Sep 27, 2021 |
"All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend". This caption caught my attention, was the wife family members aware of the whole game plan and confused the husband too? This he needs to find out, and if true..end the marriage. Also, if you still love your wife n for the sake of the little baby....don't escalate or spread the message to any other family members except he takes the case further. Tell him to stop talking about it if he wants to forgive the wife n continue with the marriage. That's one thing with woman...take heart! 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by iLegendd(m): 3:36am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Since I couldn't sleep tonight, let me just reply. 6 things that make married women cheat. 1. The ex is so great in bed, but he wasn't financially buoyant to marry her, so she dumped him because of family pressure and married a man who is ready (you). In a case like this, she'll likely cheat. (Okafor's law). 2. The husband isn't giving her the sex game she's used to when she was a public property. (She'll likely cheat). 3. The husband was the first to cheat and thought the wife didn't catch him. (She'll pay back when the opportunity arises). 4. Financial issues in a toxic marriage and she's tired of suffering. If she meets a rich man who's willing to pay, she may spread legs as long as the rich man is not a kiss and tell. Nobody likes to suffer. 5. ChatDîctor: If she meets a naughty talker who's her spec and he makes her laugh and happy while you, the husband, (who isn't her spec, but she married you because of your money or family pressure) is boring and all you think about is making money and going to work, she'll cheat with the man that makes her happy even if he's a gate man, a bike man, driver, cleaner, or ugly. 6. The man she cheated with used voodoo. (Trust me, voodoo works — but not as powerful as God). Some women cheated not because they wanted to, they were charmed. She has cheated and she must be dumped. Sadly, we are talking about marriage here. It hurts and this is why we teach men not to fall in love. Like her, but keep love in your pocket. Only love after 10 to 20 years in a happy marriage and she has had all the kids you want. Loving a woman leads to depression when things crash. This is why we advise men to only like, not love. Any man who doesn't have access to his woman's phone or chats is a weak man. Most men think not checking is strength and trust. No, it's fear, weakness, and stupid trust. Note: if you must have access to your woman's phone, make sure she has access to yours too. Don't marry a woman who talks about uncle a lot or addicted to social media. Your in-law or whatever should just be bold and open up, then do a DNA test. He should amicably dissolve the marriage even if the child is his. Cheat once, cheat forever is the rule of cheating. Cheats are just like Fulani herdsmen or bandits. If you like, force a bandit or a jihadist to repent — you're wasting your time. Cheats cry a lot when you catch them and you'll feel tempted to forgive because of how remorseful they'll appear, but don't be deceived, it's part of the manipulative script. As long as the man she cheated with is better than you in bed, but you have more money, she'll still do it again 6 months or less later and this time around, you'll never catch her — it's just a matter of time. So, tell him to confidently open up and tell her what he found. She'll deny and after showing her evidence, she's going to faint and starts shedding crocodile tears. We know how they work. Tell him to keep an ambulance or a doctor ready before he opens up. Note: Men are not allowed to forgive a cheating woman. It's a taboo and a disrespect to the man. Only a woman is to forgive a cheating man. Any woman who tells you to forgive a cheating woman is a chronic whóre who masks her own whoreism with religion. 56 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by igbowoman: 3:37am On Sep 27, 2021 |
tenry: Why can't he forgive her? Yes He should forgive and forget 12 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Akinbahm(m): 3:42am On Sep 27, 2021 |
AquaPetals: So, because he termed the victim as his brother in law means the victim married his sis and you don’t think maybe he married the said victim sister... 11 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Akinbahm(m): 3:48am On Sep 27, 2021 |
valentineuwakwe: So fast, you forget the popular maxim that says a cheating wife who failed to kill her self will definitely kill her husband. Religion self no give room for adultery. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by InvertedHammer: 3:48am On Sep 27, 2021 |
tenry:/ Do you fellas need advice for everything? Even if your wife kills you, your spirit will come to seek advice on NL on what to tell God on judgment day. Jesus Christ! / 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by vickydevoka(m): 3:50am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Beebah2000:En easy for mouth. Poor man no de divorce o. Same with poor woman. Na rich independent people de divorce 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Joe4real1988(m): 3:52am On Sep 27, 2021 |
AquaPetals:A brother to OP's wife 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by vickydevoka(m): 3:54am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Akinbahm:I no de fear bestie. Na pastor n uncle is de fear pass 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by vickydevoka(m): 3:55am On Sep 27, 2021 |
iLegendd:No excuse on judgement day. Some Ladies are born prostitute. U can change The nymph in them 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Joe4real1988(m): 3:56am On Sep 27, 2021 |
igbowoman:Thats why she is going back to her father's house.........nonsense 6 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Midas01: 4:02am On Sep 27, 2021 |
I don't understand.. so cheating is bad only when it's women doing it. Lol. In her defense she's only servicing men who are "polygamous in nature" since you all claim men are polygamous in nature and have right to cheat with impunity doesn't that mean women have to be sexually available for them to fulfill their innate polygamous desires ? Shey if na man cheat you hypocrites would say he paid her bride price and has the right to... Why are y'all crying now that women are getting better at cheating than men. Go and watch "warroom" and remember to pray and fast while also hitting the gym to lose that pot belly of yours and maybe she can change. 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Nobody: 4:02am On Sep 27, 2021 |
AquaPetals:Brother inlaw could be the OP's wife brother Which i assume he is 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by playpaz: 4:11am On Sep 27, 2021 |
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Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by igbowoman: 4:11am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Joe4real1988: If he can pay rent and feed without her income 7 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Agugbadin: 4:12am On Sep 27, 2021 |
GOFRONT:So many Nigerian women are unfaithful, they are deceptive, they lie and are perpetual cheats. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Joeyfizzo: 4:16am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Wow! This is crazy. She no try |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Nobody: 4:16am On Sep 27, 2021 |
igbowoman:From ur comments, you will cheat on ur husband without remorse God help us 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by chris51(f): 4:19am On Sep 27, 2021 |
I hate infidelity in marriages with passion. How can a married woman send her private part pictures to a man? NO, NO. 1st thing is for your brother to privately do the DNA of their child. 2nd thing is to call the meeting of both families and lay down the evidence and end the marriage. No sentiments at all. He needs his peace of mind. His life is in danger. Marriage is based on trust. If the child belongs to your brother, fine, he can accept the child, if not, he should send the wife and the child out of his life. 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by chris51(f): 4:19am On Sep 27, 2021 |
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Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Kajaard: 4:26am On Sep 27, 2021 |
igbowoman: Are you normal? I take it you are married and also a cheat that's why you can boldly write like this. Shameless things 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Virgohills(m): 4:28am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Stolen water is sweet 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by wany(f): 4:28am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Nicklaus619:No dear he should continue,God does not like divorce let him pray and seek the face of God.it will end in testimony 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by wany(f): 4:31am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:Hypocrite but a woman can handle with no qualms right.he should manage her forgive and build his home,no where is better. Put her in prayers he will one day smile. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Joe4real1988(m): 4:31am On Sep 27, 2021 |
igbowoman:Sure, he will. Any man that forgives a cheating wife is doomed to die before his time. Not everything u compare yourself with a man. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 4:32am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Some women ehn! See wetin dis one dey talk below. Why not just end the marriage?? I’m married but I sleep around with strangers in the hope I’ll get pregnant DEAR DEIDRE: EVER since I met my husband six years ago, I knew he was a family man and couldn’t wait to have children. But after three years of trying for kids without success, I’ve started sleeping with strangers in the hope I’ll get pregnant. We are both 31. Being childless is utterly miserable. He doesn’t know what I’m doing and would be heartbroken. So far I’ve slept with four strangers who I’ve picked up on nights out when I know I am at my most fertile. I try to go for men who are similar in looks to my husband — medium-height, athletic, blue-eyed and dark-haired. After a year and a half of trying with my husband, I suggested we see our doctor. But he shut me down, saying if we were meant to be parents it would happen and that we simply have to try harder. He is so proud and I know he is really struggling with this. Things aren’t the same with us. I feel shut out. Yet he still demands we have regular sex to try for a child. But all the joy has gone for me. He constantly asks where I am in my cycle and if there are any signs my period has arrived. And he insists I lie on my back with my knees up for 20 minutes after sex, “to give us the best chance of getting pregnant”. I don’t want to lose him but I am worried about the future of our relationship if I can’t get pregnant soon. https://www.thesun.co.uk/dear-deidre/16241263/married-but-i-sleep-around-get-pregnant/?utm_campaign=native_share&utm_source=sharebar_native&utm_medium=sharebar_native |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by PediakAuthor: 4:42am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Mood11:Also beware of the phrase; He is JUST a friend |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Dchair2: 4:43am On Sep 27, 2021 |
AquaPetals: What if the woman is married to his wife's brother? What would it make him? |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Skillsnigeria: 4:52am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Nigeria women, the lord will deliver una |
Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by Burgerlomo: 4:54am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Some farm tool ain't loyal
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