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Actually there is nothing wrong with a woman proposing but it could be miss read as being desperate

Outstrip:
I honestly don't believe the story about her husband. They are lying. They know that if the man is in the picture they will get less sympathy. Anyway I wish them all well

You have hit the nail on the head. I believe this was the set plan

Nigerian woman said she flew into Britain and had quins on the NHS, now we need to stay
£200,000 ‘health tourism’ row

Far from home ,  Bimbo Ayelabola with babies
Jon Bond / The Sun Law says they
must go home

BIMBO'S quins do not have an automatic right to British nationality, despite being born here.




To qualify, the babies would need to have at least one parent who is British - or who has indefinite leave to remain in the country.




Bimbo's visa is valid until December 2012.




But there are conditions. She can only stay in Britain for a maximum of six months at a time during that period. Bimbo's six-month visit should have ended on June 27.




The visa also states: "No work or recourse to public funds."




Bimbo's lawyer says not allowing her to stay would breach the 2009 UK Borders Citizenship Act. But this is meant to protect people on health grounds.



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Published: Today
Add a comment A NIGERIAN mum who headed for Britain when she learned she was pregnant is battling to stay after having QUINS, The Sun can reveal.
Bimbo Ayelabola, 33, had been taking twice the prescribed dose of a potent fertility drug while at home in Lagos.

Within days of discovering she was expecting she obtained a visitor's visa for Britain.

And she ended up getting the best treatment possible on the NHS following an emergency Health Service scan which showed she was expecting four babies.

After months of taxpayer-funded care - costing an estimated £200,000 - Bimbo had a complex Caesarean op 32 weeks into her pregnancy on April 28.

Doctors at Homerton Hospital, in Hackney, East London, then discovered there was a fifth baby.

Now, two months later, Bimbo is applying to the Home Office to extend her stay in the UK because boys Tayseel and Samir and girls Aqeelah, Binish and Zara - although healthy - are too fragile to fly home.

Bimbo is also arguing that there is no "support network" of family and friends left in Nigeria to help her bring up her kids because they are all in the UK already.

Bimbo's husband Ohi, 37, is not. He came to Britain to visit her in hospital but fled back to Nigeria after discovering it was a multiple pregnancy and he faced being responsible for the brood.

The Home Office will now decide whether to grant Bimbo a six-month extension of her visa which expired on June 27.

Officials are also considering sending her a bill for the huge cost of her six months of care which included treatment by consultants, paediatricians, nurses, midwives, social workers and back-up staff. But Bimbo would be unable to pay anyway.

She insists she had no idea she was expecting more than one child when she sought a UK visa after getting pregnant in November.



Taxpayer-funded care ,  Bimbo Ayelabola while pregnant
Bimbo had bought supplies of the fertility drug Clomid over the counter in Lagos and began taking two a day - double the recommended dose. The drug is also supposed to be taken for five to seven days. But Bimbo popped the pills for two months before discovering she was pregnant - and deciding to head for London.

She said: "I had already had miscarriages and couldn't bear the stress another pregnancy would cause. So I decided to visit my family in London. I thought I would stand a much better chance of avoiding another miscarriage in a calmer place with friends and family. Now if I go back I'll be on my own without even a roof over my head. My entire family support network, three sisters, four aunts and virtually all my school friends, live here."



Operation ,  hospital in East London where Bimbo Ayelabola gave birth


Bimbo is helped by her sister Stella, 26, and a Nigerian school pal. They take turns to feed the babies in Stella's two-bedroom flat in Poplar, East London. But they are struggling to make ends meet as each baby costs £70-a-week in milk formula and nappies alone. Bimbo is being backed by immigration lawyer Mark Dada. He has applied to the Home Office for her to stay.

But a Home Office spokesman said: "The NHS is a national health service, not an international one. We expect those with no right to be in the UK to leave. otherwise we will remove them."

Tory MP Chris Skidmore said: "It's not acceptable for health tourism to continue in the way it has done."



Read more: http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3673011/Nigerian-mum-Bimbo-Ayelabola-flew-into-Britain-and-had-quins-on-the-NHS.html#ixzz1QuT5lU5G
Is this fair on UK tax payers?

IloveFred:
I have one problem with him,he doesn't want to eat polish food.

make him some pierogi he will love it

Ikoteyogrl:
Talk with them and try to rectify the situation. I would address the situation immediately and let him know what he did to get the reaction i showed him. If its a repeat offense then i would ignore him until he apologizes. Its worked for me every time, but i know that is probably not how everyone does things.

Ignoring someone when there is an issue does not solve the problem you only prolong the problem

I will go for a walk to calm myself then come back home and have a nice quiet talk about the problems

Plumber has categories most plumbers in europe can not be compared to plumbers in Nigeria
CORGI certified plumbers earn quite a lot in the UK.

Most of the women making noise in this forum can hardly earn the wages plumbers earn per hour in the UK
In all fairness I dont know what plumbers earn in Nigeria.

Most of the expatriates you have in Nigeria that girls run around are all trades men yet they say they cant date a plumber
Some of these ladies should stop posing with the level of desperation they will marry plumbers when they can find anyone in the long run.

You can upgrade them they are human

Well if you have the means/financial muscle what do you expect them to do?

Nigerians when will you stop giving the country bad name?

such a pity homosexuality has become a way of life in the world
end times are here already

ZimAngel:
My baby sister recently got married to a Naija. I don't agree with the marriage but I've decided to be supportive and be there for her. I want to learn about the culture I hear a lot of things not sure what's true of false.

1. Is it true naija men cook for their wives, this is unheard of in Zimbabwe. The wife cooks everyday.
2. Is it true a woman is not to use her own money in the house, the naija husband will pay for everything.
3. Is it true polygamy is widespread and accepted in naija?
4. Is it true naija women are cut down below on their private parts, Zim girls pull their labia to elongate them I hear naija girls cut them off

I am trying to understand because my sisters hubby is not doing some things I hear are standard for naija men.

To get the right answers to your question specify your sister husband tribe and state in Nigeria
Nigerians have various tribes and cultures or better still visit their country to learn first hand

What is it with Nigerians?

you complain when your people date whites, asians, latinas and other Africans
why cant you people have a life without compliants and concentrate on developing you careers and life etc

Wislet:
Before i forget, be wary of some white ladies. The morality rate over there is very low. A culture that does not recognize God, Unless u're not a christian. If u are- be careful.

And women in Nigeria have better morals?

tom28:
Look at the high divorce rate among white couples in the USA
Take a look at the number of white moms in the USA who murder their kids
What of the white women who murder their husbands for the life insurance money
Or those ones who hire hitmen to wack off their hubbies

What about Nigeria the women dont divorce or kill their husbands to inherit their wealth?

@OP save yourself a lot of problems and marry where you are based. If you are more comfortable with white women marry one than go and import a woman from Nigeria to come and give you grief within a few months of marrying one. Put your happiness and peace before skin color or origin.

Actually breaking into three will not solve the problem better six

loveable82:
I met and made love with my long-time boyfriend that I admired a lot till now. I have tried to stop seeing him as he's never really loves me and now he is married but recently I met him again after 2 years. we really had fun but it was just for a temporary.

I am now engaged with someone else and been with my fiance for about 8years now. I met the person that I been in love before I met my fince. I think I love my fiance and I know he loves me more than I do but I couldn't escape from thinking about the man that I had loved 9 years ago.

I'm feeling unstable and wanting more from him. I can't give more love and beginning to think of separating from my fiance. I am not attracted with fiance although he rained me with kindness, cares and love,  what should I do

Are you sure it is not your ex pocket/money you want

courage89:
I would support his nomination to head EFCC, at least to curb corruption a bit.

Do you think Buhari is not corrupt like the others? the Buhari of past is much more different form the man of today

Egbe Nak:
I strongly believe that Gen Buhari be brought to serve the nation once again. I did not vote for the General but I have the utmost respect for him. This General is an example to our thieving politicians.
As a nation, people like him should be celebrated for his no nonsense and coruption free approach to governance.

What a myopic individual are you saying there are no credible serious Nigerians? the scales need to fall of your eyes for you to see what Buhari stand for. You did not learn from the last election violence?

charlisco:
i read this question frm a frnd face book status
How will u react if your fiance/fiancee insists that divorced papers be prepared b4 u get married?

Quite Insane

You can request a software/hardware upgrade for the mother in-law
and pay for the upgrade i.e plastic surgery

I believe you must have led him on

Well I hope when you are married you will not have your mother inlaw making decisions on how you run your family

ZimAngel:
In the UK, when they have their wives back in naigeria. So cunning, these men will do anything for papers. It's really sad and low

Have you asked the ZIM ladies if they are doing it for financial gains.
I understand they are so money concious.

deal with it once and for all mister