I read one aimless story of one unknown bride that claimed she got married as a virgin. No video evidence or witnesses to support her claims. While I don't blame or judge the gullible ones who are self-servicing around the story, I find it senseless to see people Celebrate virginity in the 21st century.

I've dated a couple of virgins and disflowered a handful, hence my scepticism of what's so fascinating about getting married as a virgin.

A lot of them feel you owe them so much for them being virgins. You go into a relationship and all you carry along is virginity tag. No commitment and nothing to spice up the relationship. And when the dude finally breaks your hymen, you feel he should stomach your excesses and marry you because he broke your virginity. There are failed Marriages that happened just because the woman was a virgin.

Two incompatible humans who were blinded by some balderdash heighten by nature.

Some of them are even bag packs of naughtiness. I dated one that was an expert in BJ but was still claiming virgin.

There are good, disciplined and respectable ladies who are not virgins. They don't sleep around, but if you're in a relationship with them, they show commitment, reciprocate the love and satisfaction you give to them.

The Future is Virginity

Virginity is not overrated.
E no easy to keep your virginity for your future husband. So, let them be proud of themselves ooo.

Let this matter to rest, they are many ways to spice up a relationship, you should work on your love life not worked up on someone else commitment.

yuping:
Let this matter to rest, they are many ways to spice up a relationship, you should work on your love life not worked up on someone else commitment.

I should work on my love life, while my partner roams around my life with claims of being a virgin

theNaughtyPope:


I should work on my love life, while my partner roams around my life with claims of being a virgin

Claims? Then get married or get a call girl since all you need in sex.

yuping:

Claims? Then get married or get a call girl since all you need in sex.

Sex is not the only thing you get out of a relationship, but it's an important part of it. Besides, who limited sex exclusively to marriage?

But wait o.

am i the only guy that will not marry a virgin

Emocruize:
But wait o.

am i the only guy that will not marry a virgin

Omoh, we plenty o... For a happy marriage, sexual compatibility is a factor

Wait o, how did you want the evidence to be? Like a video recording her husband knacking and breaking off her virginity ? You drunk ?

pansophist:
Wait o, how did you want the evidence to be? Like a video recording her husband knacking and breaking off her virginity ? You drunk ?

Yes naa

Any kind of evidence would do. Confessional statement is not enough.

Virginity is overrated you say?? LMAO

No probs...
If that's your opinion that's fine...
But don't come here saying people who celebrate virginity are senseless...

If it were that easy to keep your virginity, why are you not a virgin??

And you think sleeping around is something to be proud of?? Well if it is to you that's fine, but obviously it isn't to some people out there...

You say there are failed marriages that happen just because the woman was a virgin, OP are there not failed marriages that happened just because the woman was not a virgin??

And yes, there are good, disciplined girls who are nonvigirns, but are there not also good disciplined girls who are virgins??

Are there not virgins who are committed to relationships?? Are there not virgins who reciprocate the love you give to them??


If you like, LovePeddler around, that's your wahala, but to those who choose to keep themselves till marriage, I believe they deserve to be celebrated...

Your post is a proof that fornication affected your reasoning. So promiscuity should be celebrated?

Here we go

Wait @OP, Do you know what it takes to be self disciplined and remain virgin till marriage? I'm sure you won't utter this statement if you are one.


You said those who ain't virgins have good character....
Question : Didn't they have good character before they lost their virginity?

Should we celebrate fornication?

So Nigerian men will wake up and decide to ague about a woman's virginity? Wahala dey!!

Oyadorf:
Wait @OP, Do you know what it takes to be self disciplined and remain virgin till marriage? I'm sure you won't utter this statement if you are one.


You said those who ain't virgins have good character....
Question : Didn't they have good character before they lost their virginity?

It's not a question of discipline. It's just some hypocritical restraint, backed up by fanatic religious beliefs.