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aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked

Stop acting like a bìtch and talk to her

aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked

No you are not but it would have been better if you had man up and told to go and refill there own gas. You are not charity organizations besides you have already be helpful dont let people take your generosity for granted

If you don't refill the gas cylinder, how will you cook?

You should not have wasted it, you should have allowed it finish by itself and then stop buying for a while to see what they will do

Yes

aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked

OK close your eyes and just Imagine it's your younger bro or a friend that can't say no to some pussy. You'll be all over their dicks wailing how they don't got balls and all that trash. Grow up



Pukes

Diswan 3kg gas dey last 3wks... It's like u no dey cook for house... Meanwhile people wey dey cook dey help u usam... Wo... Don't refill it.. let everyone rest . After one month if u refill it ... They sud understand what u did that's if they have sense o... If not.. dis tym don't waste the gas.. just carry everything inside

Edibles20:
You’re not wicked.
Nigeria is hard. Nigeria is the wicked person in this story.

una can make person laff enh. Wetin concern Buhari here.

If it's me, I will just tell her nicely that I can not afford to do the Mr free gas usage again.

Sonnobax15:

And in the process of trying to prove a point, you're indirectly suffering yourself......I wonder how some men dey behave self . For your own thing? Abi na fear of say dem go begin to see you as the bad guy you dey reason?

Tell her your mind jorrh

That's exactly the problem.
OP wants to always appear as the good guy,
Perhaps as a pastor, he doesn't want to appear wicked or Un-Christ-like.
He keeps accommodating actions and behavior which in turn makes him sad.
Yet he can't speak up, not because he lacks courage or confidence as some people think, but because he doesn't want to be tagged a bad person.

Mr OP, stop seeking human validation at the expense of your inner joy and peace of mind.
Nothing beats being happy.

Face that challenge.
Speak up, howbeit do it maturedly.
Have a very matured conversation with her.
Get your peace back my dear.

Biko this life is too short for one to be harbouring hate.
Na you go choke. Honestly.

Speak up, and tell them your mind but be polite don't talk down on them or speak in anger.

I must confess, you wickedly did the right thing!

aytech360:
I am now a mugu to be nice to them I won’t fill for a month I will now see if she won’t cook

So you mean you won't cook for week? Just because of one funny neighbor

aytech360:
I am now a mugu to be nice to them I won’t fill for a month I will now see if she won’t cook

So you mean you won't cook for a month? Just because of one funny neighbor

Missyajoke:
Are you sure you're okay like this with this your foolish comment

Why are you triggered? Why can’t you tell the truth. OP is very wicked. In fact, he should dash them money to cook the next soup too for depriving them of his gas.

By the way, your name already discribes your problem. MissAJoke.

Longsleeve:
Just tell the woman your mind..

Instead of suffering yourself because of her..

he should not tell them anything.his action is speaking, even louder.

aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked

Omo, everywhere hard o. I cannot blame you at all.

Your mistake was tolerating it from the get go as it is usually hard to stop such a thing once you start and when you finally decide to stand for yourself people will say you are a bad person.

Just remember, "if people dey talk say that guy is a good man just know say him na mugu"

Klass99:
I just want to hear drama nah. So, you believe there'll be no more issues with this his move?

E be like sey you never jam anyhow neighbours wey get anyhow character.

She will forget that she was using the guy's cooking gas without him complaining but the moment he does this, she go begin carry face and her attitude towards him will change - I can bet you that's what will happen.

If she get mumu husband, that one too will join her, in her foolishness to start beefing OP on top of his own cooking gas.

That couple already sounds very entitled, selfish and annoying as f...ck, like that your ex babe wey no wan pay back loan. I mean what stopped them from buying their own cooking gas when they work? And it's not like 5kg gas is 10 or 20k.

Gbam.

That is what will happen.

Give people a finger and they'll want the whole arm

I wonder how adults can't say their minds to people. Me I like my self o! I will tell you my mind with impunity!

aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked

Anything could have triggered a fire while you were leaking that gas.

Why not take your cylinder into your room when you ain't cooking ?

Klass99:
I just want to hear drama nah. So, you believe there'll be no more issues with this his move?

E be like sey you never jam anyhow neighbours wey get anyhow character.

She will forget that she was using the guy's cooking gas without him complaining but the moment he does this, she go begin carry face and her attitude towards him will change - I can bet you that's what will happen.

If she get mumu husband, that one too will join her, in her foolishness to start beefing OP on top of his own cooking gas.

That couple already sounds very entitled, selfish and annoying as f...ck, like that your ex babe wey no wan pay back loan. I mean what stopped them from buying their own cooking gas when they work? And it's not like 5kg gas is 10 or 20k.

I just feel they will get the message and respect themselves, but it all depends on their type of person...

You are not wicked
But u should have allowed the gas to finish instead of wasting it tho

Talk it over with them.

fotadmowmend:
That kind of wife dey find something else o. Hope she dey watch BBN for your room too

I no dey gree give am space.... I no wan disrespect her husband

I'll say you're not intelligent,
Just carry your food flask and attach to her kitchen with your name written boldly on it,

hahn:
Omo, everywhere hard o. I cannot blame you at all.

Your mistake was tolerating it from the get go as it is usually hard to stop such a thing once you start and when you finally decide to stand for yourself people will say you are a bad person.

Just remember, "if people dey talk say that guy is a good man just know say him na mugu"

You are a good man

lied:
You are a good man

No levels

aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked

I hate reading stories that are full of weaknesses due to indecision.
Meanwhile, it's like you guys use the same kitchen or what?

hahn:
Omo, everywhere hard o. I cannot blame you at all.

Your mistake was tolerating it from the get go as it is usually hard to stop such a thing once you start and when you finally decide to stand for yourself people will say you are a bad person.

Just remember, "if people dey talk say that guy is a good man just know say him na mugu"

As for me, I don't care.
I change whenever I want to change.
And take up any fight that follows it.

aytech360:
I am now a mugu to be nice to them I won’t fill for a month I will now see if she won’t cook

You nkọ??
Won't you cook too??
..
Relax.
When you finally fill it again, wait and see drama.
They will come back again.
..
By then, keep being a good guy.
Or you empty the gas again and wait for one full year this time.