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Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by ibrutex(m): 10:10am On Oct 09, 2021 |
To start with , do your spouse know how much your salary is at the end of the month.. Would you tell her if their is an increment and how much is added?? Well! To me I wouldn't let her know if their is increment because I can't let someone finish the salary for me before I received , last last she will still be the one that take most share... Maybe I acted wrongly , need your reasons. 15 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Nobody: 10:15am On Oct 09, 2021 |
It's up to you. Then again it depends largely on the kind of person your spouse is. If she's the leechy type, you know what to do.. if shes the prudent type, you know what to do. As for me, I'm not usually after or particular about someones income because im not ready to disclose mine. So long as you carry out your financial responsibilities as at when due, no qualms. Yey!!! First to comment on a financial increment post. I dedicate this FTC to my finances. More increase to and in my finances in Jesus name. Amen!!!!!! 117 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by chatinent: 10:15am On Oct 09, 2021 |
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Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Sonnobax15(m): 10:16am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Normally,if na home wey love dey,that one no suppose to be issue because na good news be that..... But if na home wey love no dey,just know say if you mistakenly make that mistake,na from that day you use your own hand dig your own grave 130 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Bola146(f): 10:24am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Sure! I don't pray I should marry liability or enemy of progress,. He MUST know, we are no more two but one. After God na him 167 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by MufasaLion: 10:35am On Oct 09, 2021 |
It's nobody's business. 5 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by lilvicky68(m): 10:40am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Omo no na.. Make she no come dey calculate my spendings.. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by olamidedivotee: 10:48am On Oct 09, 2021 |
It depend on the kind of spouse. There is I need 50k to retouch my hair spouse. And Baby lets invest this money spouse. In case, anyone need a content writer. Check my signature. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by DropsMic(m): 10:59am On Oct 09, 2021 |
.. Na only mumu aka Simps dey marry liability .. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Bsc(m): 10:59am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Her attitudes and demand frequency upon knowledge of my previous salary would determine whether or not to inform her. If she's isn't demanding, I would immediately share the good news, if she's demanding then I will keep it to myself. 7 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by stalwart123(m): 10:59am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Atikulated: 10:59am On Oct 09, 2021 |
She knows my current and will always know the future. 9 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Moyinoluwa35(f): 10:59am On Oct 09, 2021 |
No |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Hapinex01: 10:59am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Yes I will. It's not a big deal 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by vibbb: 10:59am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Naturally some women are selfish in nature: But as a man their are lots of stuff you would practically want to do via extended family that should be done without any permission or explanation from spouse. So the additional increment can conveniently sort that out silently. Some family run on a budget that is so tight without considering extended family which is too bad, both spouses should always consider reaching out to their immediate family without compromising their budget. 32 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by ATEAMS: 10:59am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Uche face your work o 1 Like |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Mykelslim: 10:59am On Oct 09, 2021 |
As a business man, I don't even tell myself how much I own, e come be spouse. Maka lackluster spending 8 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by femi4: 10:59am On Oct 09, 2021 |
No, not even the current one Damn niggar....over to you 7 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by slawormiir: 10:59am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Damnnn niggar Isoright 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Kiddogarcia(m): 11:00am On Oct 09, 2021 |
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Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by drennie(m): 11:00am On Oct 09, 2021 |
hear to read and learn 1 Like |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Vinnie2000(m): 11:00am On Oct 09, 2021 |
If she is a Trustworthy and financial Supporting Wife, You should! The role of A Good Wife in a man's development cannot be Overemphasized But If she is a Leech, ever demanding Wife, DO NOT TRY IT! Even if such a Wife discovers, Lock up and Give her any Flimsy Excuse for ur Action! 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Guyman02: 11:00am On Oct 09, 2021 |
My wife too like money, she will increase her demand more than the increment. I have been out of job due to the impact of Covid 19, because I knew I worked in a private sector with no guaranteed job security I didn't inform her of the salary upgrade, I just started a gradual phased increase in luxury at home without raising suspicion of extra income. When the company owners downsized I was affected but the impact was not felt much at home for the period I was searching for what else to do, I saved the increment for the rainy day which helped in maintaining stability at home. Imagine if I had informed her, she would insist that I spend it on changing school for the kids as she has been planning, send more money to relations etc and then when I was relieved from my job katakata for don burst, perhaps I would have come to Nairaland to seek for advice on what to do and begging Lala to move it to front page for the elders to comment on how I can pay my kids school fees or withdraw them to another school. It all depends on how well you know your spouse, if he/she is the considerate type that won't put pressure on you because of increment then you have to open up, but if you live with the opposite just respect yourself to have peace of mind at home and continue with your responsibilities responsibly with the salary he/she knows until the atmosphere is conducive to share the information 70 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by qtguru(m): 11:00am On Oct 09, 2021 |
I do, cuz sometimes you need advice from a partner. It depends on the spouse though 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Dididrumz(m): 11:01am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Maybe |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Nobody: 11:01am On Oct 09, 2021 |
yes but no |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by WibusJaga: 11:01am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Ideally your spouse should know all about your salary + any increments. But there are exceptions in certain cases. 5 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by iscom(m): 11:01am On Oct 09, 2021 |
I think everything depends on the strength of the relationship. Like the one i have presently i won't ooo. I no dey for trouble, make i sell my power banks jeje 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by UltimateStarman: 11:01am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ibrutex: marriage is about love you should tell her being open to your spouse is part of love 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by justdogitto: 11:01am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Depending on the kind of wife you have.... Some wives are chop and chop without thinking of tomorrow...If you have that kind of wife wisdom demands that as a man that you withold such information for your sanity sake... But If you have my type of wife, a loving and caring woman, even more frugal than me, then you can download all your financial information to her....Infact she will help you manage it well.... 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by BigDawsNet: 11:01am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Let me give you my scope If I got increments I will inform her! But with not the right figure... 5 Likes 2 Shares |
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