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ibrutex:
To start with , do your spouse know how much your salary is at the end of the month..

Would you tell her if their is an increment and how much is added??

Well! To me I wouldn't let her know if their is increment because I can't let someone finish the salary for me before I received , last last she will still be the one that take most share...

Maybe I acted wrongly , need your reasons.

yes I will

Even my mama self no know how much my papa day receive till he retire,and they are both happily married for almost 35 years now.and my dad was able to accomplish alot even without him telling mum about his salary income

Bola146:
Sure! I don't pray I should marry liability or enemy of progress,. He MUST know, we are no more two but one. After God na him

Bola will you Mary me ?

Nopes , never try it

PHIPEX:
If your spouse is still "someone* to you then the marriage needs a help.

The question should be why do people marry whom they don't trust with their finances?

The banks are enjoying so much free monies in dormant accounts because people die and their spouses and family members are not aware of the banks they have accounts.

See you!
You talk as if you don't know dat 70% of Guys/ladies marry due to pressure, poverty or convenience!!

How many Nigerian Husbands trust dier wives and vice versa?
Don't women buy land, houses, etc without d knowledge of dier husbands?

So Leave dat Thing!
Anybody dat wants to Hide their Finances, Let him/her Hide!

Only simps do shît like that.

Stop being lovey dovey with women. They're playing the long game on you. Don't fall for it

There shouldn't be a problem if the woman you married was wife material. If you're earning N60K salary she should know how to make that manage the home.... 1 piece meat in your food.... 1 piece in each child's food every 3 days. If you let her know if your salary increase... then you and the children will see a meat increase. So what would you prefer?... as a husband?.... buy extra meat outside to satisfy and fatten yourself?... while those at home continue chugging along the road of malnutrition? If you're a husband ... head of the home ... no problem in letting the wife know... but if you're the man in the house ... then your money is your business.

In all situation and circumstances, use your brain and think deep.

Don't be moved by some lies here. What ever will ensure stability and peace, do it. Not telling him or her may ensure stability. Telling him or her may equally ensure stability. Know what option to take and keep to it.

Is only a foolish man that will do that

It is important u tell her.

For me,why did u marry when u know u don't trust her?

Mercychen:
It's up to you. Then again it depends largely on the kind of person your spouse is. If she's the leechy type, you know what to do.. if shes the prudent type, you know what to do.

As for me, I'm not usually after or particular about someones income because im not ready to disclose mine. So long as you carry out your financial responsibilities as at when due, no qualms.

What will be your own financial responsibilities?

Why not! Being penny-wise and/but pound-foolish is maintaining closeness with your spouse if you don't consider them worthy enough to not only know about your financial conquest and progress but also allowing them unrestricted access to it, especially the expendable.

Noooooo..... she dosnt even know my salary let alone increment..
dem go de calculate am for u...

Do so at your own peril, a man will always need to be a man, what use is being a man is you don't have spare money to play with .

Sonnobax15:

Normally,if na home wey love dey,that one no suppose to be issue because na good news be that.....
But if na home wey love no dey,just know say if you mistakenly make that mistake,na from that day you use your own hand dig your own grave

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zedegit:


What will be your own financial responsibilities?

Leave that to me.

ibrutex:
To start with , do your spouse know how much your salary is at the end of the month..

Would you tell her if their is an increment and how much is added??

Well! To me I wouldn't let her know if their is increment because I can't let someone finish the salary for me before I received , last last she will still be the one that take most share...

Maybe I acted wrongly , need your reasons.

PLEASE tell her and and have a heart to heart talk, so you can manage your finances.

"Ko jo plc", at times it depends on the partner, if the person is open and not reckless in spending why not, but if not, I will not o.

God forbid!!
Even if I tell her, not actual Amount.

ibrutex:
To start with , do your spouse know how much your salary is at the end of the month..

Would you tell her if their is an increment and how much is added??

Well! To me I wouldn't let her know if their is increment because I can't let someone finish the salary for me before I received , last last she will still be the one that take most share...

Maybe I acted wrongly , need your reasons.

There is no point hiding ur income to your wife. Only local people do that

Mercychen:


Leave that to me.

Your money is our money, my money is my money crew.

Income is one the sensitive issues of life. It should be kept secret more often than not. Whenever you inform someone (your spouse, siblings, friends, mentors, children, lawyer, doctor, pastor) about increment in your earnings. You are exposed already, be ready to manage the effects of such action.

zedegit:


Your money is our money, my money is my money crew.

Yeah, yeah. You can say that again.

ibrutex:
To start with , do your spouse know how much your salary is at the end of the month..

Would you tell her if their is an increment and how much is added??

Well! To me I wouldn't let her know if their is increment because I can't let someone finish the salary for me before I received , last last she will still be the one that take most share...

Maybe I acted wrongly , need your reasons.

100%. If you marry right, all these things no be big deal to do.

Toyin tetuila...

So that she will now start monitoring how I spend my own money, abeg I no fit.

I give her the letter.

Hiding is not manly enough too.

Not being straight forward is also an act of cowardice.

If she happen to be somebody I cnt show, I wouldn't have married her in the first place.

However, please do what works for you. There is no
A-Z of life

ibrutex:
To start with , do your spouse know how much your salary is at the end of the month..

Would you tell her if their is an increment and how much is added??

Well! To me I wouldn't let her know if their is increment because I can't let someone finish the salary for me before I received , last last she will still be the one that take most share...

Maybe I acted wrongly , need your reasons.

My husband and I are professional colleagues and earn roughly same salary.
We both know how much each of us earn.
I wouldn't be comfortable in a union where I don't know what my spouse earns.
I don't know how people do it.
Transparency is key

Bola146:
Sure! I don't pray I should marry liability or enemy of progress,. He MUST know, we are no more two but one. After God na him

Gbayi!

I will tell and keep my atm away and delete my bank app immediately...shikena