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Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Freelane33(m): 11:15am On Oct 09, 2021 |
No ibrutex: |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Nobody: 11:17am On Oct 09, 2021 |
yes I will |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Makanaki127: 11:18am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Even my mama self no know how much my papa day receive till he retire,and they are both happily married for almost 35 years now.and my dad was able to accomplish alot even without him telling mum about his salary income 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Danjikanbauchi: 11:19am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Bola146:Bola will you Mary me ? |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Ofadaman(m): 11:19am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Nopes , never try it 1 Like |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Vinnie2000(m): 11:20am On Oct 09, 2021 |
PHIPEX: See you! You talk as if you don't know dat 70% of Guys/ladies marry due to pressure, poverty or convenience!! How many Nigerian Husbands trust dier wives and vice versa? Don't women buy land, houses, etc without d knowledge of dier husbands? So Leave dat Thing! Anybody dat wants to Hide their Finances, Let him/her Hide! 1 Like |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Newboss(m): 11:24am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Only simps do shît like that. Stop being lovey dovey with women. They're playing the long game on you. Don't fall for it 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Originalsly: 11:26am On Oct 09, 2021 |
There shouldn't be a problem if the woman you married was wife material. If you're earning N60K salary she should know how to make that manage the home.... 1 piece meat in your food.... 1 piece in each child's food every 3 days. If you let her know if your salary increase... then you and the children will see a meat increase. So what would you prefer?... as a husband?.... buy extra meat outside to satisfy and fatten yourself?... while those at home continue chugging along the road of malnutrition? If you're a husband ... head of the home ... no problem in letting the wife know... but if you're the man in the house ... then your money is your business. |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Focusmind: 11:26am On Oct 09, 2021 |
In all situation and circumstances, use your brain and think deep. Don't be moved by some lies here. What ever will ensure stability and peace, do it. Not telling him or her may ensure stability. Telling him or her may equally ensure stability. Know what option to take and keep to it. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by emmykk(m): 11:27am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Is only a foolish man that will do that 1 Like |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by ibechris(m): 11:29am On Oct 09, 2021 |
It is important u tell her. For me,why did u marry when u know u don't trust her? 1 Like |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by zedegit: 11:30am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Mercychen: What will be your own financial responsibilities? |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by RightToReject(m): 11:33am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Why not! Being penny-wise and/but pound-foolish is maintaining closeness with your spouse if you don't consider them worthy enough to not only know about your financial conquest and progress but also allowing them unrestricted access to it, especially the expendable. |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Obynopositive: 11:35am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Noooooo..... she dosnt even know my salary let alone increment.. dem go de calculate am for u... 1 Like |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Ofadaman(m): 11:35am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Do so at your own peril, a man will always need to be a man, what use is being a man is you don't have spare money to play with . 1 Like |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by bukatyne(f): 11:41am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Sonnobax15: @bold: Has closed the thread. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Nobody: 11:41am On Oct 09, 2021 |
zedegit: Leave that to me. |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Goldiness: 11:43am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ibrutex: PLEASE tell her and and have a heart to heart talk, so you can manage your finances. |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Sivou1(m): 11:46am On Oct 09, 2021 |
"Ko jo plc", at times it depends on the partner, if the person is open and not reckless in spending why not, but if not, I will not o. |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by rollandben(m): 11:47am On Oct 09, 2021 |
God forbid!! Even if I tell her, not actual Amount. |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by obembet(f): 11:47am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ibrutex: There is no point hiding ur income to your wife. Only local people do that |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by zedegit: 11:51am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Mercychen: Your money is our money, my money is my money crew. |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Frakintayo(m): 11:53am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Income is one the sensitive issues of life. It should be kept secret more often than not. Whenever you inform someone (your spouse, siblings, friends, mentors, children, lawyer, doctor, pastor) about increment in your earnings. You are exposed already, be ready to manage the effects of such action. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Nobody: 11:53am On Oct 09, 2021 |
zedegit: Yeah, yeah. You can say that again. |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by KazikageSama: 11:55am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ibrutex: 100%. If you marry right, all these things no be big deal to do. |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by ofiko123(m): 11:57am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Toyin tetuila... |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by YourFavorite21(m): 11:59am On Oct 09, 2021 |
So that she will now start monitoring how I spend my own money, abeg I no fit. |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by AntiWailer: 12:03pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
I give her the letter. Hiding is not manly enough too. Not being straight forward is also an act of cowardice. If she happen to be somebody I cnt show, I wouldn't have married her in the first place. However, please do what works for you. There is no A-Z of life 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by spiceadole: 12:05pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ibrutex: My husband and I are professional colleagues and earn roughly same salary. We both know how much each of us earn. I wouldn't be comfortable in a union where I don't know what my spouse earns. I don't know how people do it. Transparency is key 1 Like |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Nobody: 12:09pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Bola146: Gbayi! |
Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by Makib2020(m): 12:14pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
I will tell and keep my atm away and delete my bank app immediately...shikena |
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