Smartb0y:
@op,ask yourself this - if you go broke,will she stick around.?

MarketDispatch:
@golor

If it was your younger sis that was spending money and destroying things easily this way, I am quite sure you would have had strong words with her....

It seems you're spending to hold the girlfriend down...cos you feel she might leave you.

betcliq:
Op you're just a Simp . How much have you spend on your Mom or Family . That Slut will dump you Soon . She's just managing you .

chatinent:
Hello brother,

Anywhere I put (cc), please knock yourself so hard twice. Anywhere I put (TT), rough-handle your cheeks please. Anywhere I put (pp), pull the trigger.

1. You aren't married but leaving together. (TT).

2. You are investing in sb that isn't your wife. (cc)²+(TT)³ - (pp).

3. You allowed an entitlement feeling have the best of you. (TT)⁴.

My good brother, I will not say you are the stupidest and most foolish person in the whole world I have ever met, no, I won't say such.

You have been living with her, and I am sure you have also rumpled her and now, you are deciding to dump her for some stupid dude to pick up. Whatever you are doing in this life, no make I see you for heaven.

Brotherly, for spending so much too, know one thing, you finally made me sober. The shame leave you dey catch me.

Sonnobax15:

And e fit surprise you say the op get siblings wey he no dey chest their billings...,but without steady excuses

golor:


About words ..I de give her public embarrassment steady ....I wouldn't say I made the little change I HV all alone ..she contributed massively. She's a girl that can do anything for me ...she chooses me over her family any day and time my issue is how to remedy her spending attitude nothing more

golor:
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Leave this one . I been get money when I de school. I stayed in one room face me I slap u during school days and she stayed . Finished went to family house where siblings full everywhere she de come no de wan go self even with so much insult she chest am ..money I am making she's contributing alot to it but then her spending attitude is what I don't like ..

golor:
.My biggest challenge; she doesn't spend wisely or place value to money and I am beginning to HV a doubt if she can manage a home . It's a well known fact that women manage and handle money more than men but in her case it's not . While in school and many occasions I will give her money that exceed a thing for in stance to go market and buy stuff she will go and buy things and come back with no money in fact things I will buy cheaper self if I complain she will lament things are expensive oh bla bla bla ... In my interest , I am giving her more than enough to see how she can save from it but in returns for where . Things she will buy today just for confirmation I will buy same thing cheaper the next day just to prove a point that madam u can actually do better this has continued to the extend I feel much more comfortable getting stuff weda soup items or whatever cause I know she's very carefree with money .

Smartb0y:
that finance would be a problem later in the future o.
a wife that cannot manage,thats a ticking time bomb.
bro you know once you marry her attitude will only get worse. Her non-chalant attitude will triple.
can you deal with that,if no ,you already know what to do.
dont fvck your future up for any woman.

MarketDispatch:


Cash is king....not public embarrassment or choosing over family....

The day you can't meet up with spending, she will look for the next spender that has been disturbing her on Facebook.

golor:



If money no de and it means to eat soup empty I no go lie we de eat am ....no money or money she de vibe my take is how to see her over come excesses to make a better lady ...aside that ..she meet all pass mark

Candidlady:


oMg! You need help! Just showed my pals your post them laugh like mumu

Smartb0y:
simple don't leave her in a position of finance since you can manage better.
and cut down on expenses,think about your future.

golor:


Abeg she's not dat type jare .. she doesn't control her spending excesses ...we HV been through alot together..when I start to get change na ? Same money she works at least 30 to 40 percent of it

MarketDispatch:


so, why are you disturbing yourself if she puts in 30-40% of the effort to get the money you spend on here?

Your girlfriend is simply following the Pareto principle.