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This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by InfinityFabric: 11:49pm On Oct 21
Women who have had more sexual partners prior to marriage will more likely have their first marriage end in divorce/be in a less stable marriage and report a lower quality marriage. A man's sexual history has no effect on his marital happiness.

Edit: This is a study done in the US from 1970s through 2010s. It shows that:

Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce, but this only became true in recent years;
Women with 3-9 partners were less likely to divorce than women with 2 partners; and,
Women with 0-1 partners were the least likely to divorce.

https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability/

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by Bombastically00(m): 12:23am On Oct 22
Ur logic is invalid

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:44am On Oct 22
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!!

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by Kobojunkie: 12:45am On Oct 22
MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!!
ROFLMAO
grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by Godada(m): 6:28am On Oct 22
Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by LordIsaac(m): 7:36am On Oct 22
We know this secret....the research just validated it grin

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by alphaNomega: 7:46am On Oct 22
Hey guys, another bullshít thread on nairaland

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by Candidlady(f): 8:04am On Oct 22
Smh! What is this forum turning into?

manipulation season is over now itz virginity bah? _ba ankali op_

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by Jeon(f): 8:26am On Oct 22
You may cast the stone first if you are a virgin.. If not my friend you better keep your head below the crowd..

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by Hanibbal(m): 8:37am On Oct 22
It's true. Women who have had many sexual partners prior to marriage tend to compare their husband sexual prowess to the guys they have had sex with in the past and it becomes a problem when the husband does not measure up to the performance of those guys who have gave her wild pleasure during her hoeing days. Ladies with many sexual partners are damaged product you cannot satisfy her sexually as a husband.

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by cooooooks(m): 9:09am On Oct 22
Check if the study can be age controlled?

Generally, and in other studies I've seen, people who marry younger (sub 25) are more likely to get divorced.

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by Ehmmah588(m): 10:14am On Oct 22
I totally believe this cheesy
Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by Ispeaksarcasm(f): 10:26am On Oct 22
Why isn't it also applicable to men? There should be a valid reason behind what you posted

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by nijaomegacode(m): 10:59am On Oct 22
If you married a non virgin, you shouldn't be alive.
Only a hopeless,foolish, handicap, love starved and idiotic man will marry a woman who has slept with another man.
The one who keeps a cheating woman is worse!
God forbid I start a family with a LovePeddler (a non virgin).

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by InfinityFabric: 2:48pm On Oct 22
Ispeaksarcasm:
Why isn't it also applicable to men? There should be a valid reason behind what you posted
Sex is physical for men, it's emotional for women.
Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by placeofallure(f): 5:08pm On Oct 22
InfinityFabric:

Sex is physical for men, it's emotional for women.

The lies you unashamedly tell yourselves.

A man who takes pride in his body wouldn't revel in being a community dick. The thought of it alone stinks! I cringe in disgust.

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by Kiddogarcia(m): 5:26pm On Oct 22
I don't know seriously
Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by bepositive11: 5:34pm On Oct 22
Hanibbal:
It's true. Women who have had many sexual partners prior to marriage tend to compare their husband sexual prowess to the guys they have had sex with in the past and it becomes a problem when the husband does not measure up to the performance of those guys who have gave her wild pleasure during her hoeing days. Ladies with many sexual partners are damaged product.

Insecure man. Instead of worrying about not being better, believe that you can do better than everyone else. Communicate with her openly, honestly, and directly. Be open to learning what she likes and please her accordingly

Your virgin wife may even cheat on you because she felt that she missed out. You think she would be happy knowing that she's only slept with one man throughout her life? Keep fooling yourself

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by BigBashiru: 6:35pm On Oct 22
cooooooks:
Check if the study can be age controlled?

Generally, and in other studies I've seen, people who marry younger (sub 25) are more likely to get divorced.

Why are sub 25 girls more likely to get divorced? Because the girls still feel they have lots of options since so many guys are still asking them out.

And why are girls 25 and up less likely to get divorced? Because at 25/26 they have started seeing visible signs of ageing in their body and understand there will now be less demand so they cling on to the best man they can find (thats for the ones that hv sense oh). The ones that dont have sense wait till they 30.

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by InfinityFabric: 10:26pm On Oct 22
placeofallure:


The lies you unashamedly tell yourselves.

A man who takes pride in his body wouldn't revel in being a community dick. The thought of it alone stinks! I cringe in disgust.
Sex is physical for men, it's emotional for women.
Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by Jochabed(f): 10:35pm On Oct 22
bepositive11:


Insecure man. Instead of worrying about not being better, believe that you can do better than everyone else. Communicate with her openly, honestly, and directly. Be open to learning what she likes and please her accordingly

Your virgin wife may even cheat on you because she felt that she missed out. You think she would be happy knowing that she's only slept with one man throughout her life? Keep fooling yourself
She no open leg before marriage when she get all the freedom, na after marriage she go just throw caution to the wind? The way some people reason is difficult to comprehend.

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by InfinityFabric: 11:17pm On Oct 22
bepositive11:
Insecure man.
Insult. It doesn't work on men who already made up their sane minds. Try that on weaklings.

Instead of worrying about not being better, believe that you can do better than everyone else.
By marrying a virgin, he's already doing better than a lot people who have no taste and will marry anything.

Communicate with her openly, honestly, and directly. Be open to learning what she likes and please her accordingly
Or just marry a virgin. Problem solved.
When did the sheepish "Communicate" ever work with emotional beings.

Your virgin wife may even cheat on you because she felt that she missed out.
The non-virgin already cheated. Comparing the used product to new eh? Denied!

You think she would be happy knowing that she's only slept with one man throughout her life? Keep fooling yourself
Yes, because the man is worth it. Ask your grandma tho, most of them were virgin wives unlike your generation.
Btw, Divorce Sending her to her father's is cheap, in Nigeria.

This is how we know and detect non-virgin, they'll fight tooth and nail to convince you marrying public latrine is OK. The actual virgin will never say these nonsense.
Same thing with women arguing DNA test, they're born/aspiring cheaters.

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by InfinityFabric: 11:19pm On Oct 22
Jochabed:
She no open leg before marriage when she get all the freedom, na after marriage she go just throw caution to the wind? The way some people reason is difficult to comprehend.
Another used product detected. Keep exposing yourselves. Why can't you guys just accept a virtue is a virtue, always trying to bring the virtuous down.
Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by Jochabed(f): 1:29am On Oct 23
InfinityFabric:

Another used product detected. Keep exposing yourselves. Why can't you guys just accept a virtue is a virtue, always trying to bring the virtuous down.
You clearly don't understand English.

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by bepositive11: 5:01am On Oct 23
Jochabed:
She no open leg before marriage when she get all the freedom, na after marriage she go just throw caution to the wind? The way some people reason is difficult to comprehend.

It happens. Not all of them, some
Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by bepositive11: 5:08am On Oct 23
InfinityFabric:

Insult. It doesn't work on men who already made up their sane minds. Try that on weaklings.


By marrying a virgin, he's already doing better than a lot people who have no taste and will marry anything.


Or just marry a virgin. Problem solved.
When did the sheepish "Communicate" ever work with emotional beings.


The non-virgin already cheated. Comparing the used product to new eh? Denied!


Yes, because the man is worth it. Ask your grandma tho, most of them were virgin wives unlike your generation.
Btw, Divorce Sending her to her father's is cheap, in Nigeria.

This is how we know and detect non-virgin, they'll fight tooth and nail to convince you marrying public latrine is OK. The actual virgin will never say these nonsense.
Same thing with women arguing DNA test, they're born/aspiring cheaters.

Being insecure is not an insult. It's a problem that needs to be worked on to have healthy and more fulfilling relationships

You're referring to women as "product" -- you're toxic too.

Instead of focusing on virginity, focus on the character of the woman

Again, would all virgins be satisfied with sleeping with only one man for the rest of her life? Some virgins cheat after marriage, some don't. Some non virgins cheat after marriage, some don't. What's the difference between those that cheat and those that don't? Character

Then again, women are better off staying away from men like you. I pity the virgin who gets married to you

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by RedpillAnalyst: 5:20am On Oct 23
Ispeaksarcasm:
Why isn't it also applicable to men? There should be a valid reason behind what you posted



man != woman
Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by ImaIma1(f): 8:34am On Oct 23
Jochabed:
She no open leg before marriage when she get all the freedom, na after marriage she go just throw caution to the wind? The way some people reason is difficult to comprehend.


It's actually something that happens. Especially going back to that ex she dated for years without sex. Nothing in this life is cast in stone. There's no rule that says people who married as virgins won't cheat or those who married as non virgins will cheat. It's just something guys enjoy fantasizing and debating about.

In truth, when they meet a girl that says no sex before marriage because she's a virgin, most cannot handle it. They pester her till she gives it up to him. Let's say they breakup, she's no longer a virgin.

Many guys condemning non virgins and calling them names will still end up marrying them. Nothing new there. All the talk here is obviously childish talk from children.

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Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by InfinityFabric: 12:11pm On Oct 23

Being insecure is not an insult. It's a problem that needs to be worked on to have healthy and more fulfilling relationships
You can't be secure with women tho. You have to make sure, just like children.

You're referring to women as "product" -- you're toxic too.
Cope.

Instead of focusing on virginity, focus on the character of the woman
No, I'm focusing on virginity first, character second. Character can be taught and learned, but virginity ? Crickets...

Again, would all virgins be satisfied with sleeping with only one man for the rest of her life?
Every one of you was also a virgin until they start feeling this way. So where 's the character in this reasoning ?
This is stupid reasoning that turned used ones into what they're. Virgins already proved they can at least hold out.
What did the public latrine prove ?

Some virgins cheat after marriage, some don't.
Less likely compared to used-up ones.

What's the difference between those that cheat and those that don't? Character
Where is the Character of the non-virgin before marriage ? How did u even pass in school ? We should ask for refund.

Then again, women are better off staying away from men like you. I pity the virgin who gets married to you
Non-virgins should definitely stay away from me.

Madam is angry because her man might read this post and start having clearer thoughts. Cope.

Virgin > Used.
Re: This Is One Of The Major Reasons We Marry Virgins. by InfinityFabric: 12:15pm On Oct 23
placeofallure:


The lies you unashamedly tell yourselves.

A man who takes pride in his body wouldn't revel in being a community dick. The thought of it alone stinks! I cringe in disgust.
Sex is physical for men, it's emotional for women. You guys don't have a lot time before the wall.
Few people care about having sex with a 35 year old, even fewer for 45. 55 yo is invisible.
The 80 yo man is still busting nuts. Go figure!

Unless you're a prostitute or aspiring prostitute, you can't just lay with anyone. Oh, there's a word for that: LovePeddler. You don't wanna be that? Or do you ?

A man who takes pride in his body wouldn't revel in being a community dick. The thought of it alone stinks! I cringe in disgust.
A man who has multiple mates mostly has something, a woman who does the same is a LovePeddler.

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