Hi guys , pls ignore the typos and wrong grammar, I just need your advice on this.

I have been dating my girl for 4years now and really want to settle down with her. She's nice and supportive just to say the least. But the issue is few months ago she got an extra piercing adding to the normal one . Personally, I do not like body modification of any sort and she know this. I noticed it and we had an argument about it. After all said and done I decided to keep a blind eye. I truly love her.

I am sad right now because she has added about three more piercing to it and our rship is going to crash because she insists she's keeping it and that i can leave if I can't take her as she is.

I do not want to be quick with my decision hence I am writing this here so i can get honest and matured advice .

Thank you all in advance.

Give me her number let me help you beg her abi what exactly do you want., whatever is it you want, we don't have it here.
Goodnight

Sometimes, we take a bold decision to quit a bad instance and sometimes we pretend to believe all is well. That is not your wife bro.
Go and step up your hustling. You will thank me later.

"Truth is bitter"

Don't kill yourself bro......be bold enough to pierce like 5 places in each ear and see her calming down .... after which you fill it back

Does piercing change her personality?
Allow her to express herself in the way she loves.

Piercing is not bad!

You didn't tell us where she pierced. Shey na for nose abi nippl.e?

Ears .

rosesrblue:
Hi guys , pls ignore the typos and wrong grammar, I just need your advice on this.

I have been dating my girl for 4years now and really want to settle down with her. She's nice and supportive just to say the least. But the issue is few months ago she got an extra piercing adding to the normal one . Personally, I do not like body modification of any sort and she know this. I noticed it and we had an argument about it. After all said and done I decided to keep a blind eye. I truly love her.

I am sad right now because she has added about three more piercing to it and our rship is going to crash because she insists she's keeping it and that i can leave if I can't take her as she is.

I do not want to be quick with my decision hence I am writing this here so i can get honest and matured advice .

Thank you all in advance.

U are dating either a lesbian or a prostitute.

So you want to marry a lesbian cos of love despite all the writings on the wall?
Why are men so stupid and weak theses days?
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Any woman who tells me I can leave if I can't accept her demand is already an ex to me... nothing can change it the fact...what audacity and disregard.
Some of u people need alot of beating and insult to come to ur senses...

She's told you to leave her alone if you can't take it and I honestly see no reason why you're pushing it.

You share different values, obviously, and your preferences doesn't align with hers. The fact that you feel deeply about it says a lot. Coupled with her being indifferent to your objections.

If other issues arise tomorrow, that'll be her go-to response I'll bet - ''if you can't deal, leave. You see me like this before marrying me. I'll go to this party oh, if you're security-conscious, lock yourself in the room and leave the gate open for me when I'll be back'' - from how you've portrayed her, to me.

You'll only end up resenting her and feeling unhappy and invalidated if you continue with her. So I think it's best you both go your separate ways now. It's not 'love' no matter how much you're feeling about it now. Yes, she's being herself, but not at the expense of your comfort*. 'Love' will take note of that and not intentionally offend.

Abi, does she overlook your 'errors' and personal habits, etc., too, when it's 'her turn?'

She should pierce her belly button, it’s so sexy on babes with flat tummies

Magnoliaa:
She's told you to leave her alone if you can't take it and I honestly see no reason why you're pushing it.

You share different values, obviously, and your preferences doesn't align with hers. The fact that you feel deeply about it says a lot. Coupled with her being indifferent to your objections.

If other issues arise tomorrow, that'll be her go-to response I'll bet - ''if you can't deal, leave. You see me like this before marrying me. I'll go to this party oh, if you're security-conscious, lock yourself in the room and leave the gate open for me when I'll be back'' - from how you've portrayed her, to me.

You'll only end up resenting her and feeling unhappy and invalidated if you continue with her. So I think it's best you both go your separate ways now. It's not 'love' no matter how much you're feeling about it now. Yes, she's being herself, but not at the expense of your discomfort. 'Love' will take take note of that and not intentionally offend.

Abi, does she overlook your 'errors' and personal habits, etc., too, when it's 'her turn?'

You made alot of sense, love is just not enough in marriage. There are certain things we should not compromise just because we are in love or we have been in relationship for long. When someone love you deeply they not do things that will hurt you. Love isn't just a feeling is a sacrifice to make the other party more comfortable.