Contrary to the impression held by many, women actually make marriage proposals. Because people see men going down on their knees popping the typical "will you marry me" question, they feel men are the ones in charge of fixing a date. But this is not true. I arrived at this after having discussions from a few married friends of mine, and my own experience too as a married person. Left for me, I didn't see myself married in three years time from the year I married considering my financial situation. There were many goals I hoped to achieve before getting married, but my fiancée changed my mindset. She knew my financial capacity, she made the analysis and convinced me that we can do it. Alhamdulillah, that's the best decision I have ever made in my life.
Three of my friends had similar experience, if not for their wives they won't have been married by now.

While men see problems, woman seem to see solution. For people that may think she was desperate, I married her at 22, extremely beautiful and untouched by any man.
Back to the question, if not for your wife, will you have been married by now?
Note : I'm only referring to good women that are focused and marriage oriented. Same as men.
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Over to the married people in the forum.


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. I married her at 22, extremely beautiful and untouched by any man.

Congratulations man.

Well the truth is that 60 to 70 percent of married guys bellow thirty years of age would have being single if not that love blinded them and made them make the wrong decision, The fact is 90 percent of married guys bellow the age of thirty years are in deep regret today either because they are not able to achieve their goals in life or that they are now counting children instead of millions, my advice to every youth out there is, don't let a woman change your plans in life, this is because most women(especially Nigeria women) have nothing else to offer in marriage aside sex and babies, set goals for yourselfs, achieve it all or atleast achieve 70 to 80 percent of your goals before getting married, make sure you are financially okay to avoid living a life of regrets.

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Not to burst your bubble op, but you will hardly get the response you expect because this forum is filled with mostly bitter souls with only negative things to say about marriage.

Got married to her at 25, have a kid and the only regret I have was me not getting to know her before I met her.. she get soul that's my wife

mariahAngel:
Not to burst your bubble op, but you will hardly get the response you want because this forum is filled with mostly bitter souls with only negative things to say about marriage.

You're right.

I got married at 29 no regrets....

Manq:
Got married to her at 25, have a kid and the only regret I have was me not getting to know her before I met her.. she get soul that's my wife

congratulations man, he who finds a good wife finds long life, i wish everlasting happiness

Naaaa, wouldn't have married then

During my time I got married at 16 and my husband was 20 as at then and we thank God for life so far.I'm a happy grandma at 60+,its good to marry early but children of these days won't listen to advise, they want to have everything before considering marriage which is bad. You can start small,all you need do is to find a partner that's ready to cooperate and work with you in your life journey.I'm 60+ but 60+ isn't me.

If not for my wife, I won't have been married till today.

But I pity the woman I married because if she was even quarter as wise as me, she'd never have settled for a jerk like me.

But love conquers all, innit?

Imagine...

Sincerely, I miss the good old days when men were men.
When men who knew the Value of marriage and treated it accordingly existed.

When marriage has not lost its Glory and meaning.

God bless those men who made us look forward to marriage.

This is not my thread.

zeenaman:
Contrary to the impression held by many, women actually make marriage proposals. Because people see men going down on their knees popping the typical "will you marry me" question, they feel men are the ones in charge of fixing a date. But this is not true. I arrived at this after having discussions from a few married friends of mine, and my own experience too as a married person. Left for me, I didn't see myself married in three years time from the year I married considering my financial situation. There were many goals I hoped to achieve before getting married, but my fiancée changed my mindset. She knew my financial capacity, she made the analysis and convinced me that we can do it. Alhamdulillah, that's the best decision I have ever made in my life.
Three of my friends had similar experience, if not for their wives they won't have been married by now.

While men see problems, woman seem to see solution. For people that may think she was desperate, I married her at 22, extremely beautiful and untouched by any man.
Back to the question, if not for your wife, will you have been married by now?
Note : I'm only referring to good women that are focused and marriage oriented. Same as men.
Mod, please help move to front page

I will come back when Glo calls us. Lol

Hubby probably wouldn't have gotten married till date oo. I remember when we were planning to settle down years back and just 4/5 months to the time we were planning to settle, he came over and broke the news of being relieved of his job thinking I would say we should suspend plans. He was shocked my response was that we'll cut our coat according to our cloth. We only went to court and did trad plus God really really surprised us.
Till date, we still joke about it and he'll tell me I would have settled down with a rich man by now "lol" while he wil still be very single.

ifytrik:
Well the truth is that 60 to 70 percent of married guys bellow thirty years of age would have being single if not that love blinded them and made them make the wrong decision, The fact is 90 percent of married guys bellow the age of thirty years are in deep regret today either because they are not able to achieve their goals in life or that they are now counting children instead of millions, my advice to every youth out there is, don't let a woman change your plans in life, this is because most women(especially Nigeria women) have nothing else to offer in marriage aside sex and babies, set goals for yourselfs, achieve it all or atleast achieve 70 to 80 percent of your goals before getting married, make sure you are financially okay to avoid living a life of regrets.

And what makes you think staying single till you're 40 will make you a billionaire?

Is there a particular allowance the federal govt pays the 40s and single people that suddenly makes them wealthy? The money you think you're saving at age 40 would still be spent on the same family, wife and kids you tried to avoid at 28. You will still spend that savings and even more, so why lie to yourself?


Whatever can make you broke while married is capable of turning you to a dejected and frustrated single man at 50.

ifytrik:
congratulations man, he who finds a good wife finds long life, i wish everlasting happiness

Thanks brother man

I will answer for my brother, capital No... Thank God for the wonderful lady.

Lalasticlala please move this to front page

Single people like us

I wish I become Nigerian president one day so I can make simps that get married to any of these useless Nigerian women pay huge tax and are also placed on a forceful curfew that won't make them know what it is like to be outside when it's sunny.

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My wife actually played no role in my marriage timeline. My loving mother made that request because she wanted to see grand kids from me. Thank God I listened to mum and got married to a woman i never even dated. After15 years and 4 amazing kids, that decision has turned out to be the best decision I have made

No.

Honestly, my wife was the one who engineered my fast wedding if not, I go still dey look for wetin no lose up and down...

That woman nah sweet woman and home maker, it was so difficult letting her go or delaying her more...

When she told me she has an empty account we can save our wedding g money togther, my head just straight, nah like that me and she saved up to 2+ million to do wedding apart from the little change family gave us...

I dey enjoy the woman until now...

As you celebrate your birthday come 4th of november, I wish you more success as my wife..

OP
because You married a young Virgin now, you come dey DengePose!
You nor wan allow person see Road!

You are partially right,

If not that she gave me two boys as baby mama, I would have still been single by now

After helping her cross the water.....
She said "Thanks Oga" and ran away








Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind