Marriage palava always

zeenaman:
Contrary to the impression held by many, women actually make marriage proposals. Because people see men going down on their knees popping the typical "will you marry me" question, they feel men are the ones in charge of fixing a date. But this is not true. I arrived at this after having discussions from a few married friends of mine, and my own experience too as a married person. Left for me, I didn't see myself married in three years time from the year I married considering my financial situation. There were many goals I hoped to achieve before getting married, but my fiancée changed my mindset. She knew my financial capacity, she made the analysis and convinced me that we can do it. Alhamdulillah, that's the best decision I have ever made in my life.
Three of my friends had similar experience, if not for their wives they won't have been married by now.

While men see problems, woman seem to see solution. For people that may think she was desperate, I married her at 22, extremely beautiful and untouched by any man.
Back to the question, if not for your wife, will you have been married by now?
Note : I'm only referring to good women that are focused and marriage oriented. Same as men.
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No...

They wouldn't o. Make them talk true

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The more money you have, the less likely it is to meet a wife who truly loves you.

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Personally l wouldn't have gotten married when l did but l thank God l did which made me to be focus

I still remember the day. i saw one matured aunty crying like a baby cos her so called man.. said he is not ready to settle down yet..

that was when I knew that for most Nigerian Ladies...

MARRIAGE IS THEIR ULTIMATE GOAL..

may God help una sha...

cos the economy is not helping the men/guys to be interested in marrying now...
in fact those that re ready.. are looking for a Blue passport wife ... if u knw u knw

NwaAmaikpe:




If not for my wife, I won't have been married till today.

But I pity the woman I married because if she was even quarter as wise as me, she'd never have settled for a jerk like me.

But love conquers all, innit?

As in she is not even one quarter a jerk as you are. just passing

abobote:
If not that she gave me two boys as baby mama, I would have still been single by now

Eweeeh

zeenaman:
Contrary to the impression held by many, women actually make marriage proposals. Because people see men going down on their knees popping the typical "will you marry me" question, they feel men are the ones in charge of fixing a date. But this is not true. I arrived at this after having discussions from a few married friends of mine, and my own experience too as a married person. Left for me, I didn't see myself married in three years time from the year I married considering my financial situation. There were many goals I hoped to achieve before getting married, but my fiancée changed my mindset. She knew my financial capacity, she made the analysis and convinced me that we can do it. Alhamdulillah, that's the best decision I have ever made in my life.
Three of my friends had similar experience, if not for their wives they won't have been married by now.

While men see problems, woman seem to see solution. For people that may think she was desperate, I married her at 22, extremely beautiful and untouched by any man.
Back to the question, if not for your wife, will you have been married by now?
Note : I'm only referring to good women that are focused and marriage oriented. Same as men.
Mod, please help move to front page

this one opened thread to deceive people

I keep asking this question, "what can a woman offer"

There's nothing beneficially in marrying those black baboons
Rather to be single than having the remaining rest of your life living in regret marrying those piece of shiit.

When I see young men getting marry, I always pity them for they do not know that what comes next is a path full of regrets!

Marriage only favour on particular gender and that's the plain truth!

In few years they will litter this place asking for one form of help or the other. When they are done their children will also come to ask for people to complete their tuition or send them money for their project or remind us how they have been feeding on garri in school or how they need money to complete jamb form.

While their parents will be busy forming we married on time.

No I wouldn't. But thank God I did.

Iyaebe:
During my time I got married at 16 and my husband was 20 as at then and we thank God for life so far.I'm a happy grandma at 60+,its good to marry early but children of these days won't listen to advise, they want to have everything before considering marriage which is bad. You can start small,all you need do is to find a partner that's ready to cooperate and work with you in your life journey.I'm 60+ but 60+ isn't me.

Congratulations but u rarely can find such a woman who wants to build with u these days.
They are only ready to reap from where they didn't sow.

Ahmed0336:


You're right.

I got married at 29 no regrets....

+8 and I am still single.

NO

Truth speaker identified

DonTim1:
Naaaa, wouldn't have married then

dettolgel:
In few years they will litter this place asking for one form of help or the other. When they are done their children will also come to ask for people to complete their tuition or send them money for their project or remind us how they have been feeding on garri in school or how they need money to complete jamb form.

While their parents will be busy forming we married on time.

Seriously, a lot of Nigerians are just too selfish especially the women.

The fact that you are of age doesn't qualify you for marriage or parenthood.

Ask yourself, am I capable financially and emotionally?

womenareapess:
this one opened thread to deceive people

I keep asking this question, "what can a woman offer"

There's nothing beneficially in marrying those black baboons
Rather to be single than having the remaining rest of your life living in regret marrying those piece of shiit.

When I see young men getting marry, I always pity them for they do not know that what comes next is a path full of regrets!

Marriage only favour on particular gender and that's the plain truth!

men get companionship from women especially as they age - no?

and also children - no?

and also sex - no?

Too be honest
You are correct
My wife made me get married
She told me ,I can do it .. is always the ladies .

wunmi590:


Honestly, my wife was the one who engineered my fast wedding if not, I go still dey look for wetin no lose up and down...

That woman nah sweet woman and home maker, it was so difficult letting her go or delaying her more...

When she told me she has an empty account we can save our wedding g money togther, my head just straight, nah like that me and she saved up to 2+ million to do wedding apart from the little change family gave us...

I dey enjoy the woman until now...

As you celebrate your birthday come 4th of november, I wish you more success as my wife..

oga you forget to mention the part were she collected multiple diiicks to make up to that 2+million

Please stop skipping details like this

ifytrik:
Well the truth is that 60 to 70 percent of married guys bellow thirty years of age would have being single if not that love blinded them and made them make the wrong decision, The fact is 90 percent of married guys bellow the age of thirty years are in deep regret today either because they are not able to achieve their goals in life or that they are now counting children instead of millions, my advice to every youth out there is, don't let a woman change your plans in life, this is because most women(especially Nigeria women) have nothing else to offer in marriage aside sex and babies, set goals for yourselfs, achieve it all or atleast achieve 70 to 80 percent of your goals before getting married, make sure you are financially okay to avoid living a life of regrets.

OK, we have heard.

Aside money, what else do Nigerian men have to offer?

My wife

womenareapess:
oga you forget to mention the part were she collected multiple diiicks to make up to that 2+million

Please stop skipping details like this

You think every females are like your mother, sister and female relatives who sees prostitution as means to elevate their career

BigBashiru:


men get companionship from women especially as they age - no?

and also children - no?

and also sex - no?

as men age, children grow up to become a man and has his own different family and rarely visit his father, hence your number 2 question will be no!

For your number one question, as men age them tend to get better companionship with friends and neighbours outside there homes and coming back to home just to hear his aged wife nagging.
This will also be no!

And the last question about sex!
Definitely NO! Want is enjoyable in fvcking a older woman,

wunmi590:



You think every females are like your mother, sister and female relatives who sees prostitution as means to elevate their career

oh! Never knew your females and female relative sees prostitution as a means to elevate their career!

But please try do DNA test on your child!
Never can tell if one of your child looks like your neighbour's husband.

ifytrik:
Well the truth is that 60 to 70 percent of married guys bellow thirty years of age would have being single if not that love blinded them and made them make the wrong decision, The fact is 90 percent of married guys bellow the age of thirty years are in deep regret today either because they are not able to achieve their goals in life or that they are now counting children instead of millions, my advice to every youth out there is, don't let a woman change your plans in life, this is because most women(especially Nigeria women) have nothing else to offer in marriage aside sex and babies, set goals for yourselfs, achieve it all or atleast achieve 70 to 80 percent of your goals before getting married, make sure you are financially okay to avoid living a life of regrets.

If men follow this your rule, trust me with the way naija dey go dem go reach 40 years before dem marry

JAMB QUESTION..

You people like bringing shit on front-page... If u like marry. It's not compulsory to marry!!!

ifytrik:
Well the truth is that 60 to 70 percent of married guys bellow thirty years of age would have being single if not that love blinded them and made them make the wrong decision, The fact is 90 percent of married guys bellow the age of thirty years are in deep regret today either because they are not able to achieve their goals in life or that they are now counting children instead of millions, my advice to every youth out there is, don't let a woman change your plans in life, this is because most women(especially Nigeria women) have nothing else to offer in marriage aside sex and babies, set goals for yourselfs, achieve it all or atleast achieve 70 to 80 percent of your goals before getting married, make sure you are financially okay to avoid living a life of regrets.

May God bless you!!!

ifytrik:
Well the truth is that 60 to 70 percent of married guys bellow thirty years of age would have being single if not that love blinded them and made them make the wrong decision, The fact is 90 percent of married guys bellow the age of thirty years are in deep regret today either because they are not able to achieve their goals in life or that they are now counting children instead of millions, my advice to every youth out there is, don't let a woman change your plans in life, this is because most women(especially Nigeria women) have nothing else to offer in marriage aside sex and babies, set goals for yourselfs, achieve it all or atleast achieve 70 to 80 percent of your goals before getting married, make sure you are financially okay to avoid living a life of regrets.

the way you people hate and disrespect women won't it make sense for you to marry yourselves - yes, romamce and marry other men so women will not spoil your life as you are suggesting .

You people have deluded yourselves into this dishonest narrative that men bear ALL financial responsibilities in a marriage , which is a big lie . Majority of homes are two income households - but many of you keep driving the narrative as if women don't go to school and work - all they do is laze around in their fathers house till you come and marry them ..

one question for you - did your mother add any value to your father's life apart from sex and babies ? I'm assuming she did not cos you can't tell me a man from a family with a mother that added value in any financial form will come and type the rubbish you did .

Definitely no.
But at the time she got pregnant, i am already capable, so I happily agreed to do the needful.