udemzyudex:


If men follow this your rule, trust me with the way naija dey go dem go reach 40 years before dem marry

Ahmed0336:


You're right.

I got married at 29 no regrets....

dettolgel:
In few years they will litter this place asking for one form of help or the other. When they are done their children will also come to ask for people to complete their tuition or send them money for their project or remind us how they have been feeding on garri in school or how they need money to complete jamb form.

While their parents will be busy forming we married on time.

udemzyudex:


If men follow this your rule, trust me with the way naija dey go dem go reach 40 years before dem marry

Edge1:


Congratulations but u rarely can find such a woman who wants to build with u these days.
They are only ready to reap from where they didn't sow.

Acidosis:



And what makes you think staying single till you're 40 will make you a billionaire?

Is there a particular allowance the federal govt pays the 40s and single people that suddenly makes them wealthy? The money you think you're saving at age 40 would still be spent on the same family, wife and kids you tried to avoid at 28. You will still spend that savings and even more, so why lie to yourself?


Whatever can make you broke while married is capable of turning you to a dejected and frustrated single man at 50.

zeenaman:
Contrary to the impression held by many, women actually make marriage proposals. Because people see men going down on their knees popping the typical "will you marry me" question, they feel men are the ones in charge of fixing a date. But this is not true. I arrived at this after having discussions from a few married friends of mine, and my own experience too as a married person. Left for me, I didn't see myself married in three years time from the year I married considering my financial situation. There were many goals I hoped to achieve before getting married, but my fiancée changed my mindset. She knew my financial capacity, she made the analysis and convinced me that we can do it. Alhamdulillah, that's the best decision I have ever made in my life.
Three of my friends had similar experience, if not for their wives they won't have been married by now.

While men see problems, woman seem to see solution. For people that may think she was desperate, I married her at 22, extremely beautiful and untouched by any man.
Back to the question, if not for your wife, will you have been married by now?
Note : I'm only referring to good women that are focused and marriage oriented. Same as men.
Mod, please help move to front page

FiverrTutor:


Bro STFU!!!!! You have no right to tell anyone how to live their life.... U Africans like hoping that your kids will take care of u at old age forgetting that when they grow up they will leave u to look after their own family!!! If u like marry at 20 it doesn't change anything

zeenaman:
Contrary to the impression held by many, women actually make marriage proposals. Because people see men going down on their knees popping the typical "will you marry me" question, they feel men are the ones in charge of fixing a date. But this is not true. I arrived at this after having discussions from a few married friends of mine, and my own experience too as a married person. Left for me, I didn't see myself married in three years time from the year I married considering my financial situation. There were many goals I hoped to achieve before getting married, but my fiancée changed my mindset. She knew my financial capacity, she made the analysis and convinced me that we can do it. Alhamdulillah, that's the best decision I have ever made in my life.
Three of my friends had similar experience, if not for their wives they won't have been married by now.

While men see problems, woman seem to see solution. For people that may think she was desperate, I married her at 22, extremely beautiful and untouched by any man.
Back to the question, if not for your wife, will you have been married by now?
Note : I'm only referring to good women that are focused and marriage oriented. Same as men.
Mod, please help move to front page

Pataricatering:
That's becos majority of you like poor , hungry women
.I double dare you to go and toast a babe with more money than you ..thats when we will be hearing- she too proud , she won't submit yen yen yen ..

FiverrTutor:


Lol for your mind na achievement abi? Oya clap for yourself... For your information marriage is an achievement to women!!!
Not men!!! You're a man bros!!!

Omakraid:
Hubby probably wouldn't have gotten married till date oo. I remember when we were planning to settle down years back and just 4/5 months to the time we were planning to settle, he came over and broke the news of being relieved of his job thinking I would say we should suspend plans. He was shocked my response was that we'll cut our coat according to our cloth. We only went to court and did trad plus God really really surprised us.
Till date, we still joke about it and he'll tell me I would have settled down with a rich man by now "lol" while he wil still be very single.

tensazangetsu20:

Is there anything wrong getting married at 40 and above. Men don't have any biological clocks on them.

zeenaman:
Contrary to the impression held by many, women actually make marriage proposals. Because people see men going down on their knees popping the typical "will you marry me" question, they feel men are the ones in charge of fixing a date. But this is not true. I arrived at this after having discussions from a few married friends of mine, and my own experience too as a married person. Left for me, I didn't see myself married in three years time from the year I married considering my financial situation. There were many goals I hoped to achieve before getting married, but my fiancée changed my mindset. She knew my financial capacity, she made the analysis and convinced me that we can do it. Alhamdulillah, that's the best decision I have ever made in my life.
Three of my friends had similar experience, if not for their wives they won't have been married by now.

While men see problems, woman seem to see solution. For people that may think she was desperate, I married her at 22, extremely beautiful and untouched by any man.
Back to the question, if not for your wife, will you have been married by now?
Note : I'm only referring to good women that are focused and marriage oriented. Same as men.
Mod, please help move to front page

udemzyudex:


If men follow this your rule, trust me with the way naija dey go dem go reach 40 years before dem marry

Midas01:
Men don't have biological clock yen yen yen....

Do you know that after 40 the quality of your sperm and also the motility reduces hences making you more susceptible to infertility? Keep yapping what you don't know.

Timekeeper:


Can I shoot my shot, patari?
If you don't mind

Omakraid:
Hubby probably wouldn't have gotten married till date oo. I remember when we were planning to settle down years back and just 4/5 months to the time we were planning to settle, he came over and broke the news of being relieved of his job thinking I would say we should suspend plans. He was shocked my response was that we'll cut our coat according to our cloth. We only went to court and did trad plus God really really surprised us.
Till date, we still joke about it and he'll tell me I would have settled down with a rich man by now "lol" while he wil still be very single.

tensazangetsu20:

But there are men fathering kids at 80.

Midas01:
Men don't have biological clock yen yen yen....

Do you know that after 40 the quality of your sperm and also the motility reduces hences making you more susceptible to infertility? Keep yapping what you don't know.

tensazangetsu20:

But there are men fathering kids at 80.

Midas01:
Men don't have biological clock yen yen yen....

Do you know that after 40 the quality of your sperm and also the motility reduces hences making you more susceptible to infertility? Keep yapping what you don't know.

FiverrTutor:


Oga that's not true!!!

Midas01:
I have told you a scientific and biological fact.

There are always exceptions but if you make your research properly, you'd find that much older men tend to birth babies with down syndrome or other chromosomal anomalies.

Age affects the process of spermatogenesis in men and this is a known fact but Nigerians like to lie to themselves that men have no biological clock.

Lightway:


Ned Nwoko

tensazangetsu20:

Yeah wheres the research and how come all old men I know who fathered kids have healthy intelligent beautiful kids. Face the facct, the best time to get married as a Nigerian guy from a poor home is 45 plus and thats even debatable. I wont even consider it till I am 50.

Midas01:
This is the problem with Nigerians. When you're being given facts you come up with , but my neighbor this and that....

Oga, if you're not willing to expand your knowledge and accept proven scientific facts then i can't help you.

ifytrik:
Well the truth is that 60 to 70 percent of married guys bellow thirty years of age would have being single if not that love blinded them and made them make the wrong decision, The fact is 90 percent of married guys bellow the age of thirty years are in deep regret today either because they are not able to achieve their goals in life or that they are now counting children instead of millions, my advice to every youth out there is, don't let a woman change your plans in life, this is because most women(especially Nigeria women) have nothing else to offer in marriage aside sex and babies, set goals for yourselfs, achieve it all or atleast achieve 70 to 80 percent of your goals before getting married, make sure you are financially okay to avoid living a life of regrets.

Acidosis:



And what makes you think staying single till you're 40 will make you a billionaire?

Is there a particular allowance the federal govt pays the 40s and single people that suddenly makes them wealthy? The money you think you're saving at age 40 would still be spent on the same family, wife and kids you tried to avoid at 28. You will still spend that savings and even more, so why lie to yourself?


Whatever can make you broke while married is capable of turning you to a dejected and frustrated single man at 50.