Kobojunkie:
So by the statement in bold, have you actually dated an older women and actually seen her age faster the you or are you here regurgitated what others have instead told you or such things?

Out of one side of your mouth you proclaim that experience is the best teacher yet while revealing you have none of that experience to actually boast of except what others equally as ignorant as you feed to you.

Let us be objective and stop arguing like a debutant you are. I cannot advise my younger brother to marry a lady six years older than him.

To me, it all depends on both individuals. If you see anyone who likes down with you irrespective of the age you go.

Brunosamel:
yes I believe religion is socially constructed but let's call a spade a spade will you marry someone 6 years older than you.

Yes, I would. How are you even sure I am not married to one already?

TimeTraveller:


Yes, I would. How are you even sure I am not married to one already?

well I wish you all the best with your marriage as for me I must be older, wealthy and fitter than my spouse before I consider marriage that how it has been in my family so I won't be dumb enough to do such...

oldienavie:

In all these examples there is not 1 single African there talkless of Nigerian.
Even abroad, younger men marrying older women is the exception not the norm.


@oP na small child still dey do you... when you grow up small your eye will open.
Age is not just a number, especially if you are an African. Oyinbo people have already normalised homosexuality while it carries 14 year jail term in Nigeria.
The summary of my talk is that we are Africans/Nigerians and as such reason like one.

Bro you ask for an African or Nigerian Example. Peter Okoye of Psquare and Wife Lola is 6 years older than him, And they are living happily together. Except for the family that is trying to spoil things.

Ficeo:
Let us be objective and stop arguing like a debutant you are. I cannot advise my younger brother to marry a lady six years older than him.

You shouldn't even be advising anyone on anything you don't yourself have experience with or at least have some sort of exposure( preferably direct) to.

Kobojunkie:
You shouldn't even be advising anyone on anything you don't yourself have experience with or at least have some sort of exposure( preferably direct) to.

That's a myopic way of reasoning.
I am an experienced married man with kids. I must not marry a woman 6 years older than me before I can advice anybody on such issue that is so glaring. I cannot advise my younger brother to marry a woman older than him with 6 years. The advice I will give to my brother is what I will advise another. I am been very objective.

Ficeo:

That's a myopic way of reasoning.
I am an experienced married man with kids. I must not marry a woman 6 years older than me before I can advice anybody on such issue that is so glaring. I cannot advise my younger brother to marry a woman older than him with 6 years. The advice I will give to my brother is what I will advise another. I am been very objective.

Objectivity decrees you only give advice on marriage to a younger woman but not to an older woman since you have no personal experience of such things to begin with.

There is nothing myopic about common sense.

Kobojunkie:
Objectivity decrees you only give advice on marriage to a younger woman but not to an older woman since you have no personal experience of such things to begin with.

There is nothing myopic about common sense.

I WILL NEVER ADVICE A MAN TO MARRY A WOMAN 6 YEARS OLDER THAN HIM... So what's your problem with this?

Ficeo:

I WILL NEVER ADVICE A MAN TO MARRY A WOMAN 6 YEARS OLDER THAN HIM... So what's your problem with this?

Stop using words you don't understand to qualify an opinion which it does not represent.

Kobojunkie:
Stop using words you don't understand to qualify an opinion which it does not represent.

I WILL NEVER ADVICE A MAN TO MARRY A WOMAN WHO IS 6 YEARS OLDER THAN HIM....

Ficeo:

I WILL NEVER ADVICE A MAN TO MARRY A WOMAN WHO IS 6 YEARS OLDER THAN HIM....

Again, there is nothing objective about your opinion.

Kobojunkie:
Again, there is nothing objective about your opinion.

I WILL NEVER ADVICE A MAN TO MARRY A WOMAN WHO IS 6 YEARS OLDER THAN HIM....