I sha hope the viagra will not kill him.

The lack of accountability t in this thread is stupendous. Nobody jazzed the old man, he knows what he is doing.

My advice, the wife should find her own 'happiness'

SmartGadgetz:


Prayer is your power in life, without it you are powerless.

Brainwashed sheeple.
Was it prayer that made the inventors of aero plane, electricity, incandescent bulb, cars etc to be powerful?

I am a Christian too and I believe in God and prayer but attributing it to some imaginary power is false.

If u need power go dey gym.

Kay25:
forget your papa no dey go heaven if at 85 adultery is the order of his day..The issue is not jazz he is just freak of what he didn't enjoy when he was younger but no qualms just get ready for cow money that's all

And you know he’s not going to heaven because you are Gods CSO abi?

Brain washed mumu

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

How old is your mum? Is she still sexually active? It might also be that your father's children are all grown and maybe your mum is frequently visiting you and your siblings for one reason or the other while your dad is left behind alone.

At this level, it is not just about sending your dad money while his heartthrob is not available for them to enjoy it. Create moments for your dad and mum to go on a vacation together. Even if it is just traveling out of town to lodge in a good hotel together for atleast 3 days, it will be a great moment for your dad as well.

oluwafeolami:


Guy this is totally wrong. It shows you lack the moral values needed in a public platform. You don’t even know the man and u are using derogatory words on him.
Some people father and grandfather.

Nawa for you ooo, just because u want to chase clout abi?

Just remember that social media never forgets.

You may be in a position whereby it’s only ur antecedent records on SM that u need to get a certain contract or a position and boom ur records start rolling in

saying it as it is . Is that wrong The man at 85 should know better. The vega can kill him faster. The op came for me for saying the truth. Nothing personal

oluwafeolami:


Brainwashed sheeple.
Was it prayer that made the inventors of aero plane, electricity, incandescent bulb, cars etc to be powerful?

I am a Christian too and I believe in God and prayer but attributing it to some imaginary power is false.

If u need power go dey gym.

Ask if na prayer dem use invent this same platform they are using to advocate prayers. If they could advocate working the way they are advocating for prayers, Nigeria will be better.

Techguy96:

Even higher, while I was still a christian I tried preaching to an elderly man lo n behold the man didn't believe in those fairy tales. Some might not even be atheist but don't just care about an after life that has not been proven by anyone.
All our memories and everything we know starts and end here on earth, so why bother about death, we weren't bothered before birth.

Secondly Nigeria has not really being a religious country until the last few decades. Alot of the older generation are not really religious.

Are you kidding me? Older generations not really religious?

Iyaebe:
Imagine ooo.Please I want to ask,do old men have erection?

Erection is not a respecter of age.

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

Stop giving him money, give him only food, he does not need money at his age. U guys have plenty money to giveaway I think.

RodgersAkpafu:
I'm sure if the gender was reversed
The comment section would have been quite different

An 85 year old woman philandering. Oooof. The forum would be ablaze by now.

But in this situation, they are treating him like a child who doesn’t know better.

Women are wicked, simply because your dad refuses to die in time and let your mother harvest you alone has now becomes your mom's problem. Your mom is no longer serially active, let her rest and she should let your dad to enjoy his life. If she thinks she can still satisfy your dad, let her offer such service else she should keep quiet. The woman wants the children to be sending money to only her the mother that is why she is painting her former husband black.

Experiment this suggestion and watch reactions from both sides. Promise her I mean your mother that you will not send your dad upkeep to him your dad directly but through your will send half (or small) of his upkeep and it will be through the former wife your mom.

Give the man his normal upkeep directly into his bank account (while you instruct him your father to tell everyone including his former wife your mom that it has been a while he heardfromyou).

You can only win this battle with what I called native intelligence

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

UyaiIncomparabl:
He's closer to resting in peace na. Let the man enjoy his life jor. Can your mum still turn 360 degrees in bed for your dad? Is her pussy still tight? Can her pussy grip his erect dick cap? Na young girl go fit work am o.

Don't be silly, please. Except, of course, this thread is a joke.

Ask your mum if she satisfies him sexually and get the answer from there. He must be so starved.

So turning 360 is now required to cum?
And you're wrong. Old women are tighter down there because with age they lose lubrication.

Weting come concern you if your father is cheating on your mum,
Do you want your dad to die early , do your mummy menstruate any longer,
Please free that old man let him enjoy his life and old age.
And if you the child is a man you too go find your own woman wey you sef go dey knack, and if you be woman go find guy wey go dey knack you weller. And if you be haemaphrodite knack your self, if you be mono sexual go get vibrator or intimacy gadgets.
Abeg leave grand pa alone let him enjoy his life.

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

My brother your dad is elderly, parents at this age should be treated with respect and also be guided and protected.
You did a mistake by calling all your siblings to discuss this matter with him. He will not listen,

First and foremost you should secure your dads properties, investment and documents..this should be left in the hands of your mum and a sibling you know that your dad listen to and respect. (Daddys pet ) to discuss with him.
.You must make sure a will is in order with mum and everyone included. The reason is I have witness a similar situation, where the elderly man left a portion of the family house to his concubine and her children.
You will hate to see your mum in such embarrassing situation. Make sure one of you has power attorney to admister is estate. Tell him you will allow him to continue if he aggrees to the will and power of attorney.
Make sure everything is documented properly and submitted to courts.
When this is done, and out of the way. You should review his finances. Let him have an allowance enough to give a sense of independence, but not in excess for a week. Don't let your mum control his allowance. Explain to him all this is to cater for him properly. With the reduced allowance and you and your siblings constantly visiting and engaging your mum and dad to outings. Or staying with you guys at different times, eventually he will let go of the concubine. In short your papa has to much lonely time that is why is engaging in it. If he is socially active within the family, it will stop. Nigerians idea of taking of elderly is stay at home and don't go out. Your dad wants to still socialize..

Bola146:

I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.


It's a real jazz, 85 old man can't have that power, the woman is just collecting his money. Your father need a serious prayer

Serious prayer or psychiatrist

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

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Why not send the upkeep to your mother only.

If he needs play money, he can use his own (if at all it still exists). You are enabling his adultery by providing the funds necessary for the expedition.

/

Lol
Baba still dey fire down on a stead

OssyMalik:
Your papa na old generation simp

An unrepentant one

mariahAngel:


How old is your mum?

At the stage she is in her life, I don't think she should bother herself with however an 85yr old man has chosen to live the rest of his life.
So, she should simply stop stressing herself over the matter and let him do whatever and however he wants.
You and your siblings should just make sure she has all she needs.
Ya lefuru agadi nwoke anya!

I doubt she can satisfy his sexual urge yet won't let him get it somewhere else. And you said at 85 your dad shouldn't be having sexual urge, are you joking? Your mum's sexuality is dead but the husband is still active, sit him down like a man and talk things out instead of threatening him. He should be discreet and hide it from your mum and another thing he should avoid pre menopause ladies to avoid pregnancies.

Your mum should be atleast 75 or more. She obviously can't fvck the man.

InvertedHammer:

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Why not send the upkeep to your mother only.

If he needs play money, he can use his own (if at all it still exists). You are enabling his adultery by providing the funds necessary for the expedition.

/

They have no such rights.
If he saved all the he spent on them he would have been a wealthy 85 year old, He should have beem able to afford a younger wife. But he served his family diligently and never chetated on their mum but now their mum is too old to sleep with him but he still has sexual urge, what do you want him to do?

I don't understand what the problem is. You sound very much like my siblings. Your father is an individual adult who has the right to continue making his own choices in life. The fact that you give him money because he is retired does not give you or anyone else the right to dictate his choices in any way. It will be wrong of you to stop giving him his due because he is not spending it as you dictate. Let your mum make her own independent decision regarding her relationship with your Dad. My siblings are like you. They want to use financial leaverage to order my Dad's choices. Living abroad does not seem to have given us the experience required to handle these things. As for me, each person is an individual and under no circumstance will I use financial leverage to order their choices. Moreover, just like your Dad, my Dad will tell you to take a hike if you're trying to order his choices because you give him money. He has money of his own. Let's leave these individuals to be individuals who will be ultimately accountable for their actions. You certainly wouldn't like it if someone else uses financial muscle to order your choices. Though old, our parents are no different. Let's stop seeing them as children whose life choices must be acceptable to us first. They are not.

oluwafeolami:



And you know he’s not going to heaven because you are Gods CSO abi?

Brain washed mumu

yes veks break ur head Cos I said so..u are still a baby in deciphering word usage when u grow up comeback and comment better

Icouldhave:

No, in my mid 40, but my immediate elder brother is.

There's really nothing you can do about it. He is 85. My only worry is the Vega he is using. It is dangerous for him at his age.

Also know that you're enabling his relationship with the other woman by deviating from the usual schedule for sending upkeep money.

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

Allow the man to enjoy

Drella:


With your words,it shows you're not a street type.

If I were the one,I'll be dealing seriously with that woman.And I'll deny ever having a hand in it.
By the time she suffers in the hands of area boys,she will leave another person's husband alone.



I'm not saying you should do that o

85 years need love too.
Let the mum rest and let the Dad continue. It seems you don't want the man to be happy.

Leave Papa alone! Life is short.

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

You people should leave baba alone your mum cause it, baba must have ask her several but turn him down so what do you want him to do while he can still fill himself as a real man.

mariahAngel:


How old is your mum?

At the stage she is in her life, I don't think she should bother herself with however an 85yr old man has chosen to live the rest of his life.
So, she should simply stop stressing herself over the matter and let him do whatever and however he wants.
You and your siblings should just make sure she has all she needs.
Ya lefuru agadi nwoke anya!

Sad and annoying fact is that if the man becomes incapacitated due to illness, etc, it's the wife that is expected to take care of him. The other woman will become history.

Have you considered the possibility that, you might be the one enabling him?

If you stop sending upkeeps directly to him, but instead to your mom, who will ensure only the necessary things are spent on, he will not see a lot of cash to play with.

And believe me, when cash stop flowing that lady will chase him away by herself. There is nothing that irritates and dry the Nigeria lady’s pussy faster than a cashless man or dry pocket, if you think am making stuff up, try loss your job today…….the countdown to losing your girlfriend or wife has begun.

You don't have sense. Even 10 kobo sense you don't have.

thatsleepboy1:
Kindly remember baba that HELL FIRE is real biko and he should reduce his flexing but if he's my dad, walahi my mama go hear am cos she's not giving him what he wants and he's seeking for it outside inorder not to die on time and yet she's complaining, she's clearly not doing her duties as a wife and a mother and her upkeep will be drastically reduced until I see changes.




I love what you said here. GOD BLESS YOU. If she's my mom, it is either she resumes her duties in that department fully or she stops complaining and her upkeep will be reduced.

Burna boy ODOGWU
Ur dad na odogwu







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