Iyaebe:
If you are below 25 just know my last son isn't your mate

MufasaLion:

Iyaebe:
Yes that's it,he should respect me.

Iyaebe:
If you are below 25 just know my last son isn't your mate

bobowaja:

Lol.... Grandma, you are always wrong about me. Moreover, why are u still looking for husband when you are close to grave?

Iyaebe:
Where did I say I was looking for husband?

bobowaja:

Your posts are everywhere na

Iyaebe:
I'm 60+ maybe I was talking on behalf of my daughter

bobowaja:

Get off my back you this schizophrenic patient.

DrTee1:


In court, you'll be a badass lawyer! You are hinging on technicalities: the 1% and making a huge case out of it.

As much as a man wants to sleep at home, he actually doesn't. I wrote all that in my last paragraph. The woman usually makes up for the less work in maintaining the family by providing the funds in catering for the children and kitchen. Men happily switch those roles in developed countries, and high brow Lagos anyway. There are few men who do nothing at home, if any. Usually, with grown kids and nannies, there's little work on the home front for the woman's exclusive attention in today's world especially with washing machines in every home and the average Lagos family buying food on the streets rather than cooking in their small houses.

There's nothing special about working class couples splitting the bills. More often than not, it is split according to earnings - and most women marry upwards, to men who earn more than them anyway.

Iyaebe:
I'm 60+ maybe I was talking on behalf of my daughter

gorgeousnogo:


My dear, even if the husband and the wife comes home the same time, I agree with the other commenter that ‘a man can eat and go straight to bed’ but a woman can’t

Should I list it for you,

- she has to check on the kids, bath them, ensure the whole family eats and put them to bed

- if the kids are like 1-5 years , she doesn’t sleep straight, the kids will keep crying and sometimes she ends up sleeping in their room just to ensure they get to sleep (which some kids don’t and the mum ‘most times’ gets to stay up with them’

- she has to get up early and cook food for the family (pack lunch boxes for the kids), bathe them, prepare them for school (on top the kids crying and making it hard for her. Some husbands sleep through it all)

- she will then take them to school before going to work (because the average Nigeria family don’t all have cars - so school run Na keke or if the school is close, trekking)

- come back, prepare dinner, wash food flasks and uniform. Do assignments etc


And the cycle begins all over again the next day…

So most times, marriage favors the man more because after work they go home and sit in front of tv, say goodnight to the kids, expect sex and then sleep

But a woman….. let’s not even argue that abeg

Marriage Na work work work for women even if you get rich husband, you will still be up at night breast feeding your newborn 5 times in the night while the hubby sleeps away

Dicedpineappple:


This topice eh..
Abeg my picture dey my profile...
I no go talk

AgentGoat:


Child birth kills sexual appetite gradually.

elpochas:
These made me remember lady c,Those days dat i had d stamina of a horse.we met tru 2go then,she was well older than me.Had to travel to go meet her,Babe lodged me in an hotel.We banged that nite like hell,did all types of sex we cud do.Told my guy abt her,the mumu guy stole her number frm my phone and also went to see her,She almost killed him dat nite,he basically told me he had to beg her dat nite.My guy came back with red eyes,it took him a wk to recover.

elpochas:
These made me remember lady c,Those days dat i had d stamina of a horse.we met tru 2go then,she was well older than me.Had to travel to go meet her,Babe lodged me in an hotel.We banged that nite like hell,did all types of sex we cud do.Told my guy abt her,the mumu guy stole her number frm my phone and also went to see her,She almost killed him dat nite,he basically told me he had to beg her dat nite.My guy came back with red eyes,it took him a wk to recover.

Uncle96:
Mehn current girl I'm dating. Shes the youngest among the girls I've dated but the craziest.. I used to think I was a lion until this one shenk my super long lasting and heavy strokes. Slim body , soft and fat ass ,literally one of the sexiest girl curently in my city with mad curves . Our normal sex last 30 mints without any drugs or herbal stuffs. With it , lasts 1hr

At a point , I thought this her sexy body deserves a merciless fcking so I went to use confirm aboki agbo, I felt the strength. Babe came around, chowd her for 1hrs plus of mad banging that other girls could have ran out of the room over .

Then boom! I released on her Tommy , thinking' Haha , I've killed that bicth, next thing I heard was babe , I want mooreeeee, omo my spirit collapsed! I just nod head enter bathroom. Since then na I want more I always dey hear after heavy banging trying to catch my breath .

Coolgent:

What happened to him?

elpochas:
Cnt start saying all here,he told me he cud nt satisfy her,he had to beg her tru out d nite.bt dat lady is best i eva banged.Still remember her till today,its bn 7yrs we last met.A guy dat banged her even went to her facebook page then to praise her.She bangs u like a porn star and makes luv to u like a loyal housewife at same time.She was a Sex freak,So neat,pretty and matured.

DrTee1:


Says who?
Do you have some scientific proof of same?

Does childbirth reduce the hormones or pleasure nerve endings? Why are there so many sugar mummies and Cougars? Why is gigolo an informal job?

Guy, get it: the women who claim this never exactly loved their husbands for WHO their husbands are. They got into marriage for what they wanted to obtain from the man: a plush wedding where they dance (and contribute little or nothing financially), the societal esteem of being Mrs something, a man to take care of their responsibilities etc.

When children come, their attention shifts completely to the new creature that is entirely dependent on them. The women then invest all their attention on the child(ren) for the same reason as with they got into marriage: to get an assured future from the children when the children grow!

Meanwhile, the man is slaving himself and working extremely hard to pay for the children and family upkeep and development. He is hardly ever around at home as a consequence, unlike the mother. Guess what? The mothers subsequently appear to the children as the more caring parent and are often 'preferred' by the child(ren), regardless of their gender.

Look, if men could share the pregnancy, labour and breastfeeding role with women, men would be doing it the 'designer' way, trust me. Don't think I'm thrashing about. A lot is said about the unbearable pain of labour - until you see Fulani women in labour being completely silent all through. When you experience that, you'll know it is not entirely unbearable after all.

Like I wrote earlier, we have been scammed by women a very long time ago. We live all our lives and die for them with, often times, little or no acknowledgement of same by the female gender. Rather, they'll project their cases while men suffer in silence and project bravado.

onegig:


Absolute rubbish.


Try menstrual pain for 1 hour then come back here and type this rubbish.

Also the Fulani women talk is half truths. Don't say what you don't know. How many Fulani women have you experienced giving birth? Yes they might by their body structure and infant size not experience much pain. I have witnessed home births from women down south without even a word and i have had to send a Fulani student to the clinic because of menstrual pain.

We all have thresholds of pain and it would vary from women to women. To actually now belittle child birth pain as just some women "acting up" isn't only idiotic but wicked.

If Men go through 1/4 menstrual pain or 1/10 labour pain the world would have created a machine to stop menstruation and give birth outside the human body.

Can't imagine an adult with access to the internet would type what you wrote up there.

DrTee1:


Oh! This one is so pained! Phew.
No be me do you o.
I don't even know of your challenges. Lol.

Your identity reads 'male' but there you are writing about trying menstrual pain, which you have never experienced if you are male - except of course, if you are a female FRAUDSTER hiding behind a male identity.

I have handled deliveries of hundreds of women in Northern Nigeria really - if that is relevant to this conversation.

The threshold of menstrual pain or that associated with uterine contractions in labour is actually calculable - so don't bring your misdirected emotions to it, and it isn't my job to teach you what you do not know and frothing at the gills over.

In all, I hope you find peace. You need it.

onegig:

Pained? Why would i? I am more disgusted and feel absolute pity for the women around you. I hope you tell your wife the pains of labour she felt or would feel is actually she "acting up". I hope she does us a favour and smacks your face with backhand.

If your claims of being a doctor or health practitioner is true. Then your initial takes even makes it worse.

Just listen to your self. That Pain threshold can be calculated eliminates the pain and response to such?

"Pain threshold can be calculated and mitigated?" "Men would do childbirth with fashion." Lol.

How about we do a test and ram your ass hole with a pestle and wait for you not to flinch?

NovesaTillie:
This new guy I just met has stamina like a horse
Yesterday I had to pretend that I was having a headache before he could get off me ;

Have you ever had a partner with an insatiable thirst and stamina for bedroom gymnastics?
How did you handle it because I know my coochieline is sweet but I don't want him to finish me

BadRadio:
my last ex had sex as a second hobby after eating... all she does is eat and then have sex. She's a rare breed, she can do it 15 times a day... I thank God I am still alive to talk about it

There was a day I released multiple times in 7 hours that there was nothing left to release again... 3 days later I started loosing weight with reckless abandon

Beckysexy:
My EX.

He literally bleeps like his life depends on it and he never get tired even though I let him play the role. Thank goodness my p***y is still very intact.
But I can't blame him though he said I'm sweeter than honey and it drives him crazy.

sweeter than Honey kwa

Nahunger:


Aww♥️
Well I won't speak on this.

NovesaTillie:

DrTee1:


Dear Nogo,

Good evening. Let me try to attend to your posers line by line:

1. The husband and wife virtually never get home at the same time. The average man works HARDER than his Mrs/spouse to feed his wife, his children, his extended family, his wife's extended family plus run the home to meet the woman's social and societal expectations. Recall that women generally marry UP the social ladder.

2. The 'men can go straight to bed' is all but overaching fallacy. Very few men can go straight to bed, or simply come home to bath and watch TV. There are very many house chores that married men can/often help their wives with. I sweep, clean, bathed the neonate, iron clothes, wash the vehicles, fixed or arrange all gadgets and installations, maintain same etc.

3. When I was 3, my mum never had to sleep in my room, really. My brother was freshly born at that time. By the time he was three, neither me nor him slept in our parents' rooms, of course, except we were ill or something. When mothers however, as this entire conversation is about anyway, shift marital and family attention to the children as priority, all these become a difficult thing and she'll find excuses to overpamper the children with time and attention. My parents simply dismissed us to our bedroom after night prayer back in our day. Nobody cried for attention and everyone slept, whether there was NEPA and fan or no NEPA and the kerosene lantern was at its lowest ebb. So what's new?

4. Get up early and cook:. Okay. Is Oga lying in bed when she gets up early? Oga is also often awake to assist with bathing the kids, dressing them and all - or out of home early to hustle traffic/work. Lagos is bustling by 4.30am every day and there are more men on the streets by those early hours of the day than women, innit? You wouldn't hear/read men complain about waking early anyway or helping with kids. Only husbands like Ned Nwoko, far older than their wives and with a relatively large harem may not help with child(ren) welfare at that age 1-5.

5. Let's talk about the school runs. Who is the school bus driver or keke driver? A man: someone's father from another family and another woman's husband. That's if the biological father isn't dropping the children with his vehicle. My point: it is an exclusive women preserve. What is in washing dishes? Any gender can quite rightly do that, but where the man pays for everything at home, or the lion share in most Nigerian homes, you do not expect him to contribute to house chores as much as his wife. He works hard and often funds the home heavily in lieu of this 50% domestic chores expectations. In the West where both spouses share finances equally, chores are similarly shared equally without fuss. Washing machine are in most homes, so let's not go into clothes washing chore as some female bugging.

I think I may have addressed every item you raised. Let me now shock you: I know married women with no kids at all, with their own cars and careers who still do not 'serve' regular sex in marriage. They watch TV, internet and want to sleep after 'a hard career-day'. What excuse would you quite formulate for that?

Remember that the entire article is about NO MARRIED MAN, not one, saying that his wife's libido is more than his. Not one. Not even a 60 year old man where all the kids are out of home, at least the age 1-5 child excuse wouldn't be there... Na scam.

I may be wrong, but I think there is almost NOTHING women do that men cannot and have not accomplished in history without much fuss, except what they are biologically incapable of doing e.g carrying pregnancy naturally. Women should reflect on these things. It is the reason why there would always be side chics till the end of the world in most places. Women often change priorities in marriage and leave the man short-changed.

P.S: About breastfeeding babies at night being work: Hello? Do our sisters make a complaint about everything? Should men complain about sex being hard work? Yes, the intercourse we are talking about: do you know it is very hard work for the person thrusting - usually the man?

I mean let me break that down: work is force multiplied by distance. Force is mass multiplied by acceleration due to gravity.

So the person on top during the said sex works hard and that can quite be calculated is weight multiplied by distance (or length of his phallus) multiplied by acceleration due to gravity multiplied by each stroke required to reach ejaculation multiplied by number of ejaculations. This can be converted to values in Newton, Calories, Joules or kilojoules - to determine the amount of work done or energy dissipated. Yet, you'll possibly never hear or read men complain.

Women make it look like the men enjoy the sex more. Another one: when the cotton bud goes into the ear, where is the enjoyment? The bud or the ear canal? Scientifically, the vagina has relatively more nerve endings to transmit pain or pleasure than the penis. That tells you who possibly enjoys more. The force of the person doing the thrusting, which I have demonstrated earlier, is largely borne by surface on which the person receiving the thrusting is lying on, which is then transmitted to the floor. Meanwhile, don't women generally prefer more muscular and taller men for that purpose?

New fathers hardly get good sleep. I remember going to work every day with bloodshot eyes when my baby arrived years ago because the little one woke us up every other hour for attention and breast milk. It didn't matter who did the breastfeeding. Sleep was distorted for both of us - and the woman is usually on maternity leave in the first three months anyway. As of then, paternity leave didn't exist in Nigeria. I do not think it has been implemented yet - not as of 6 weeks ago at least.

destiny4luv:
Lol.... This topic just brought old memories to my mind. Years ago there was this girl I was dating almost same street with me then. Good Lord this girl is a sex machine I always brag to my friends then how I go 4, 5 rounds before I met this babe oh, but as I jam this babe chai she humble me sexually. Fine, round pretty and boosty babe just as I love them big.

Then I wasn't having a job just finished an offshore contract job so I am always at home that was when we hooked up. This girl will come to my place in the morning after she is through with her shores at home and the moment she steps into my house sex begins at first I was having d fun of my life but as time goes on I couldn't meet up her sexual demands. This babe don't get tired, she does not count rounds she just go on and on and on some days I loose count of how many rounds we go together she is a sex freak. It got to the extent before she comes in the morning I will call her telling her that I am having an appointment that I won't be at home mean while am home oh. I will just close all the doors draw my cotton close and stay low key at home, I did that severally until she started suspecting that I am avoiding her, she will still come knock on my door, go to my room window to spy if am in call my phones which I will put in a silent mood when I noticed she is around to really confirm if am home or not, me I go just shocking for one Conner for inside after much calls and knock without any response she will leave. I will just call her later in the evening telling her I was busy where I went and couldn't pick her calls lol...

Me when get body I lean within 3 months of none stop sex. Apart from sex she is fun to be with oh but d sex too much to do extent we have had sex in an hotel rest room severally, if we go out to drink and hang out in the evening the moment I excuse myself to piss this babe will follow me to the gent rest room and give me doggy things I don't do normally and it's only this babe I have ever done such with. I later got my deliverance when she gained admission into International School of aviation Lagos State. Na that period I regain myself and start adding weight. My niggas then won use laughter kill me say I jam who strong pass me.

She is married now with three kids likewise myself. I had to change my lines after she got married because she was still calling me for sex after marriage. Funny enough she got married to a Pastor chai God help that young man. Sorry for the long write up just refreshing my memories of the past.

NovesaTillie:
This new guy I just met has stamina like a horse
Yesterday I had to pretend that I was having a headache before he could get off me ;

Have you ever had a partner with an insatiable thirst and stamina for bedroom gymnastics?
How did you handle it because I know my coochieline is sweet but I don't want him to finish me