Being a simp doesn't necessarily mean being a bad person.

There's actually nothing generally wrong with being a simp. At least for the society to function well in this age and time, a certain percentage of men have to be simp. We can't all be the same. Just like for the society to function properly, some students have to go to science class, some commercial while the others art. Basically, everyone needs to have different beliefs, goals, mindest, dreams, reasoning...so that we can be able to add value to each.

Here is why you should be a simp.
If you want ladies to LIKE you, then be a simp.
No, seriously, think of it. Why wouldn't ladies like you if you're a simp.

Simps has nice qualities:

* A simp spends his money on ladies. He recharge girls phone all the time.

* A simp give ladies free gifts. He buys shawarma for ladies. (He hasn't even bought shawarma for his mother before).

* A simp is always available for the girl all the time. He follows her about. He's always walking with her.

* A simp always defend the ladies. He always assist the ladies in bashing other guys.

With all these aforementioned nice qualities, why won't ladies LIKE you if you're a Simp. A lady is going to always ‘like’ a man who is nice, kind, helpful and always there for her, and financially generous towards her.
When you do nice things to a girl, she'll give you compliments like, "aww..you're so sweet" or "you are really nice.." or "you are such a generous guy"
Many simps wants to be liked by the ladies: they want ladies to compliment them and say nice about them.

But my friends, here is why you SHOULDN'T be a simp.

There's a huge difference between being liked and being respected

There's a big difference between being liked and "being feared and highly regarded."


A girl can LIKE you but she'd still ignore your messages or give you excuse on why she can't come hangout with you but if a girl RESPECT you, she will always make out time for you. If she missed your phone call, she'd always try to call you back. She would never want to ignore your messages.

A girl can LIKE you but she would still play games with you, mess with your emotions and eventually break your heart, but if she actually RESPECT and admire you, she wouldn't mess with your emotions or play games with you.

In a nutshell, a woman can LIKE you but still treat you poorly and act stubborn towards you but if she RESPECT you, she'd be submissive and very feminine towards you.

A lady will never feel lust for a guy if he demonstrate all the above-mentioned nice qualities of a simp. Those are the qualities only her brothers and father should exhibit, and because you exhibit those nice qualities towards her she tends to see you as a brother or father. Remember, she can never date or open her legs for her brother or father.
She can't feel lust or sexual attraction for a guy who behave like a brother towards her: this is why ladies still reject your sexual advances.

I have met many ladies who told me they had to date or stay in a relationship with these guys(simps) out of pity, but they cheat on him with another guy.

To top it all, ladies will generally like you when you exhibit those nice simp qualities but they'd find you boring and predictable. You become unappealing to ladies when you display a boring and predictable behavior. Ladies knows this, but they would never tell you that because they want you to keep being a simp for them.

The moment you start exhibiting those simp qualities towards a lady, your chance dating or sleeping with her would dramatically reduce. Your only chance of sleeping with a lady is when you spend huge amount of money on her (I mean huge). OR if you drug her and forcefully try to have sex with her...which is rape, and if she manages to report you to the authorities, legal actions will be taking against you. Which might eventually damage your reputation as a man.

If you want to be LIKED by ladies, then continue being a Simp; more grease to your elbow.

But if you want ladies to find you sexually appealing, respect you and be more submissive towards you, then you have to discontinue from exhibiting simp behavior. You should start by reading this particular nairaland post. I believe it will be very helpful:

https://www.nairaland.com/6817409/how-stole-girl-guy-birthday#107001361

Stay blessed.

Absolutely Spot on

The painful thing is that after doing all this for her she'll still leave you for a bad guy

you are obsessed with women

Wetin una dey post these days? WtF!

Xenry:
Wetin una dey post these days? WtF!

,..Again,

Mr Simpson

siofra:
The painful thing is that after doing all this for her she'll still leave you for a bad guy

Exactly brother.. that's the most painful part of everything

Abba114:
you are obsessed with women

Abba114, you said incorrectly.

Instead you're supposed to say, you are obsessed with:

* trying to make men become better with women.

* making men to stop being simp.

* making men become more interesting, bold, attractive and sexy around the lady they like without having to waste money on her.

Do you know how guys view sluts and girls who always give in to sex request?

no commitment


thats the exact same way girls view simps and yes men, thats why they view most freindzoned guys as mugu/maga

no pussi


simp = man (spending)slut

skywalker240:
Do you know how guys view sluts and girls who always give in to sex request?

no commitment


thats the exact same way girls view simps and yes men, thats why they view most freindzoned guys as mugu/maga

no pussi


simp = man (spending)slut

Brother, God bless you but for this comment... you're smart