The recent news about the fracas between the wife and siblings of the late Femi Osibona who died during the collapse of his 21 storey building at Ikoyi got me thinking; how does one prevent such occurrences after his or her death? because such instances occur especially when there is chunk of wealth left by the deceased.

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If you are the only successful person in your family, make sure you uplift others (most especially the kids if the parents are not agile) so as not to be a burden to you. Set boundaries between your immediate and extended family and let them respect it while you are alive, but ensure love is between them all.



Write a will also!!!

NarcissistKing:
If you are the only successful person in your family, make sure you uplift others (most especially the kids if the parents are not agile) so as not to be a burden to you. Set boundaries between your immediate and extended family and let them respect it while you are alive, but ensure love is between them all.



Write a will also!!!

I think writing a will is an okay idea but how do you set boundaries if I may ask?

Sharatan:

I think writing a will is an okay idea but how do you set boundaries if I may ask?

You set boundaries by building respect. When you're good to your extended family, it will make it easier most times. No family will respect a man that is dissociating himself and his immediate from them. Yes, some families are very bad but not all. Some men are the cause of the family disputes after tgeir death.

You can't expect a family that you neglected or you didn't support while you are alive to treat your wife and kids well after your demise. I always tell people that it's good to empower your family if you have the capacity to do it. Some men are just greedy and too proud that they prefer to be the only successful person in the family.

Are you expecting Davido's aunts and uncles to be fighting over his father's property after his demise? His father is not even the richest among his siblings.

Africans,we still get like over 2 centuries before we go begin think and act like whites...

Ordinary one small yahoo boy wey die last month for my area,you need to see the kind heavy wahala wey the money wey the small boy die leave dey cause among him family members.....Like say the boy wey die no pain them

Sonnobax15:
:-XOrdinary one small yahoo boy wey die last month for my area,you need to see the kind heavy wahala wey the money wey the small boy die leave dey cause among h family members.....Like say the boy wey die no pain them

There's this hidden evil inside money, when e come out to operate na die

Infactuation

Omo _na to will everything to one dog or cat

make dem too go hustle

Death is inevitable and can happen at any time, but we human are reluctant to accept the reality, especially when we are still young.
The best thing is to accept the reality on ground and start your Will once you get married and start having kids

That aside, imagine having Buhari as your president, and Ole Gunar as your coach, you will never find a reason to be happy. That's where I found myself right now

Hmmm

Leave a will......photocopied and stored in several secret places.

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Enough news about this killer already! This man deserves no pity.

Get a will na. The man was doing business with his brothers . Then madam wants to come take over. How na

Do a damn WILL

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Sharatan:
The recent news about the fracas between the wife and siblings of the late Femi Osibona who died during the collapse of his 21 storey building at Ikoyi got me thinking; how does one prevent such occurrences after his or her death? because such instances occur especially when there is chunk of wealth left by the deceased.

TB Joshua's wife is trying to retrive her husband's properties from the family and church.

I believe once a man is dead, his properties are automatically his wife. But men should learn to write their will anything can happen.

Write your will and will everything to your wife. She is the only one that will take care of your children when you die.

Why do people struggle for wealth they did not work for? Anyways, a better way to avoid such is to write one's will and review it from time to time.

Sharatan:
The recent news about the fracas between the wife and siblings of the late Femi Osibona who died during the collapse of his 21 storey building at Ikoyi got me thinking; how does one prevent such occurrences after his or her death? because such instances occur especially when there is chunk of wealth left by the deceased.

Well, it has to do with having a will

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Mak dem use the Next of kin formula na as will no dey

This guy death touch me ..

The most important hierarchy on how to cater for those you will leave
behind are

1. Your children
2. A loyal and dedicated wife
3. Your aged parents
4. Your siblings
5. Society at large

Never run a business with any family member apart from your wife or children...

It is only a lazy person that will depend on a relative's property or wealth after his/her death.

If you fighting outsiders from intruding into such property..then I will understand, but if the fight is among brothers, or blood relatives. Then you are lazy.

Will

If only the hypocritically bigoted, greedy, disingenuous, and wannabe sophisticated lots and their self-hate contentious and contemptuous fellows who are usually in the habit of peddling lies that the Igbo men and culture are the ones that do treat widows and women in general unfairly even when news and evidence every passing second like this one have continually shown the actual culprits, I would have been glad to proffer an answer.

Anyway, leniently, such is only avoidable where everyone involved wears the garb of justness. Unfortunately, there are and will always be more unscrupulous men and women than the scrupulous ones everywhere, regardless of gender, tribe, race, and social class.