abobote:
Death is inevitable and can happen at any time, but we human are reluctant to accept the reality, especially when we are still young.
The best thing is to accept the reality on ground and start your Will once you get married and start having kids

That aside, imagine having Buhari as your president, and Ole Gunar as your coach, you will never find a reason to be happy. That's where I found myself right now

fineboynl:
I think family first before wife.

fineboynl:
I think family first before wife.

FutureIsFemale:
TB Joshua's wife is trying to retrive her husband's properties from the family and church.

I believe once a man is dead, his properties are automatically his wife. But men should learn to write their will anything can happen.

Write your will and will everything to your wife. She is the only one that will take care of your children when you die.

GboyegaD:
Why do people struggle for wealth they did not work for? Anyways, a better way to avoid such is to write one's will and review it from time to time.

BlackPantherxXx:


Once you marry into a flat head family... that one is inevitable.

No be curse... no be Nollywood.


Yes it has a 50/50 chance in other cultures but their own is 101%

ouvredeparis:
Never run a business with any family member apart from your wife or children...

NarcissistKing:
If you are the only successful person in your family, make sure you uplift others (most especially the kids if the parents are not agile) so as not to be a burden to you. Set boundaries between your immediate and extended family and let them respect it while you are alive, but ensure love is between them all.



Write a will also!!!

ouvredeparis:
Never run a business with any family member apart from your wife or children...

NarcissistKing:


You set boundaries by building respect. When you're good to your extended family, it will make it easier most times. No family will respect a man that is dissociating himself and his immediate from them. Yes, some families are very bad but not all. Some men are the cause of the family disputes after tgeir death.

You can't expect a family that you neglected or you didn't support while you are alive to treat your wife and kids well after your demise. I always tell people that it's good to empower your family if you have the capacity to do it. Some men are just greedy and too proud that they prefer to be the only successful person in the family.

Are you expecting Davido's aunts and uncles to be fighting over his father's property after his demise? His father is not even the richest among his siblings.

emmabest2000:
Na kids full this forum

NarcissistKing:
If you are the only successful person in your family, make sure you uplift others (most especially the kids if the parents are not agile) so as not to be a burden to you. Set boundaries between your immediate and extended family and let them respect it while you are alive, but ensure love is between them all.



Write a will also!!!

clayh:
its just normal when one Family member dies, there must be a bit dis agreement to usher in agreement

bdon123:

So if u brother doesnt empower u d way u want,u will go dragging property wit his family wen he dies?My take first u change ur mentality...ur brodas wealth is not urs ,go back n hustle for ur own family.

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omoolokunEsin:






What happens when they refuse to be lifted when they make efforts to kill you? It happens all the time.

Munzy14:

That uplifting is very essential...My mom will say nobody knows the stomach that will provide the king tomorrow..

We rise by lifting others.

odimbannamdi:


What if she isn't a good woman? What if she instigated and caused his death? What if she isn't prudent? What if she remarries to a manipulative man that takes all the properties, leaving his children to suffer?

It is better to will his properties to his children. If the kids are yet to turn 18 or a age where they can make good decisions, then the properties should be managed by a Trust board and the proceeds used to cater for the wife and kids

NarcissistKing:


True!

When you lift up people around you, it will lessen the burden on you. They will depend less on you and develop some sense of responsibility!

ednut1:
Get a will na. The man was doing business with his brothers . Then madam wants to come take over. How na

GboyegaD:
Why do people struggle for wealth they did not work for? Anyways, a better way to avoid such is to write one's will and review it from time to time.

ouvredeparis:
Never run a business with any family member apart from your wife or children...

FutureIsFemale:
Why would you marry a woman with these attributes in the first place?

bdon123:

So if u brother doesnt empower u d way u want,u will go dragging property wit his family wen he dies?My take first u change ur mentality...ur brodas wealth is not urs ,go back n hustle for ur own family.

emmnprince:


And if your wife or children doesn't have business skills nko?

vickydevoka:

I'm running mine with my family. When I'm dead I'm dead, I don't care what happens among de living. Buh once I'm alive I will do everything possible to do the contain sustain everybody.
I will open an account for my kids for their education n a business for my wife.

Sharatan:
The recent news about the fracas between the wife and siblings of the late Femi Osibona who died during the collapse of his 21 storey building at Ikoyi got me thinking; how does one prevent such occurrences after his or her death? because such instances occur especially when there is chunk of wealth left by the deceased.

NarcissistKing:


You set boundaries by building respect. When you're good to your extended family, it will make it easier most times. No family will respect a man that is dissociating himself and his immediate from them. Yes, some families are very bad but not all. Some men are the cause of the family disputes after tgeir death.

You can't expect a family that you neglected or you didn't support while you are alive to treat your wife and kids well after your demise. I always tell people that it's good to empower your family if you have the capacity to do it. Some men are just greedy and too proud that they prefer to be the only successful person in the family.

Are you expecting Davido's aunts and uncles to be fighting over his father's property after his demise? His father is not even the richest among his siblings.