DISCUSSION:
You met a once long lost lover of over 15years out of the blues & upon making further enquiries, discovers she has been practically living alone with 1kid because the husband based in Nigeria comes home once a year, or once in 2-3years.....now the young lady is tired of the whole scenerio, How do you manage such situation not forgetting you both grew up from dsame village & both families are good(let's learn from each other) cos this life is sometimes funny but complex!

As a guyman wey prefer his sanity over mere lashing,I wouldn't fall for such lady.. Because the moment her husband returns,the probability that I'm gonna be dumped like a paper bag of shiit is high

You better face your front before you go inherit another person wahala.

Why is the husband running from home?

Me i will go my own way o.

How about being friends again, helping her in which ever way you can and still make it clear you have some one else, if you are not interested in her. We are humans too and we do not forget people that help lift us when we are down.

chiommy123:
How about being friends again, helping her in which ever way you can and still make it clear you have some one else, if you are not interested in her. We are humans too and we do not forget people that help lift us when we are down.

This is a good one but how easy for two exes to remain friends? Hmmm, let's not pretend Holiness O�

So you’re asking if you should indirectly facilitate her divorce and then step in?

Lol. Leave her alone.

No matter how lonley you think she might be, don't involve yourself in such a thing.

I dey tell you now, because I Know you are the one in question ....hold you D very well


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