InTheCloudySky:

D guy don't fvck her pvssy well well...very wicked penis

Rickmann:



I don't believe ur story bro..
First of, I need to understand what you meant by 'training her in school' cos to me, it means supporting her financially from start to finish be it secondary or tertiary..
Now, If you truly ' trained her in school' like you claim, why would you push her away so easily for a mere setback in character, as if you are perfect? Do you think there aren't characters you exhibit too that she doesnt like as well?

Guys sef..

Look this a real guy and he tried and seeing she was not ready to change he let her go. There is some characters you can manage and some you should not even stomach. They say charity begins at home do not force a relationship if you are not truly happy. If you do not love yourself how can you love someone else. In a relationship i can suffer for my kids no matter what and my other half if she is truly loyal. But if i have kids in the equation then my 100% loyalty is to them, because they did not ask to be brought to this world.

Fourwinds:


D guy don't fvck her pvssy well well...very wicked penis

What else is naturally mandated to phuck a pussy if not penis?

Breakups hurt. You’ve decided to find another. She should do the same.

funkmrflexx:
I was dating this girl for a while actually wanted to marry her . She has some characters I couldn't live with. I gave her time to change but she didn't so I broke up with her.
So she started raining curses on Me telling me dat I'll suffer and beg for food. (this is a girl I trained in school)
Why are nigerian girls with this mentality that a relationship is a do or die

I hope you are telling us the truth cos there are always two sides to a story. Hope you were not the one that disvirgined her? And also you didn’t pressure her to abort any pregnancy on your behalf?

funkmrflexx:
I was dating this girl for a while actually wanted to marry her . She has some characters I couldn't live with. I gave her time to change but she didn't so I broke up with her.
So she started raining curses on Me telling me dat I'll suffer and beg for food. (this is a girl I trained in school)
Why are nigerian girls with this mentality that a relationship is a do or die

Hope.you are not planning to get back together for fear of her curses manifesting?

funkmrflexx:
I was dating this girl for a while actually wanted to marry her . She has some characters I couldn't live with. I gave her time to change but she didn't so I broke up with her.
So she started raining curses on Me telling me dat I'll suffer and beg for food. (this is a girl I trained in school)
Why are nigerian girls with this mentality that a relationship is a do or die

. Samething I’m passing through, everyday na my ex they send me threat say she go kill me, because I say I nor do again

Women are ungrateful beings... May God help us to marry a good wife.

mariodko190:
. Samething I’m passing through, everyday na my ex they send me threat say she go kill me, because I say I nor do again

Na today, dem begin threaten people.
Just take a copy of the threats to police.
NOTIFY them both orally and in writing.
Also notify the girl & her family that you have informed the police.
My Brother did exactly same. And since then the Evil spirit that was tormenting her stopped.
I say this, because most ladies you see parading do not have sense of their own. It's proven.
They usually regret their actions later.

How I wish I can connect you to my Brother.

Carchoice:
One benin girl did same thing to me years ago. I invited her the next week and we had rounds of rough play for three days, while at it She started apologizing for everything She said. After She left, I broke up with her the second time and the threat started again.

Chai human beings. The girl has zero self-esteem.

Las Las avoid fornication!
I AM SPEAKING FROM A CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE. YOU ARE NOT IN MY MIND AND CANNOT ASSUME THAT I think everybody is Christian. duh!!!!

Having sex DOES NOT MAKE YOU MATURE!
NO REDUCE YOU DESTINY TO 1mb
Shalom!!!

MALIGNANTGuest:

You must be too Childish to think everyone is a Christian.
Do you know that ABRAHAM, DAVID, MOSES, JOSHUA were never Christians..
Guess you are shocked now.
You should ask me why?
Again, u should be grateful for the knowledge we are imparting into people like u on Nairaland.

funkmrflexx:
I was dating this girl for a while actually wanted to marry her . She has some characters I couldn't live with. I gave her time to change but she didn't so I broke up with her.
So she started raining curses on Me telling me dat I'll suffer and beg for food. (this is a girl I trained in school)
Why are nigerian girls with this mentality that a relationship is a do or die

Search you heart very seriously before now either online or otherwise you have supported such girls against guys just to Bleep or trend because of female support! Please enjoy the seed you showed. This is harvest time.

Prettychild:

I hope you are telling us the truth cos there are always two sides to a story. Hope you were not the one that disvirgined her? And also you didn’t pressure her to abort any pregnancy on your behalf?

Let's assume it was a GIRL that dumped a man, would you say same.?
Would you be this thorough?
This is the issue!
By the way, MARRIAGE is not a death sentence.
People get married and still divorce even after having kids and aborting many.
So, I don't expect an ordinary relationship championed by phuckmates to be anywhere close to marriage in terms of commitment.

The GIRL should move on and look for another man to leech on. She can also snatch Men from other unmarried ladies which is allowed in Law.

richeeyo:


Bro thanks for pointing that out
This guys just post lies on nairaland
The girl in question never cheated or lost interest
Am very sure his just trying to play innocent
Majority of kids here saying nonsense,
Do you know what it means when a girl puts her hope on you, only for you to say you are tired. You need death

They think every reader is as stupid as they think it..im not saying marrying a girl you put through school ( even if that's true) is a must but throwing everything away for behavioural reasons?C'mon! It not like she was caught pants down with some other guy... I believe there is always room for change besides he isn't perfect either..i'm pretty sure she doesn't like a few things he exhibits as well but perhaps cos he is her benefactor, she can't talk or express herself .

funkmrflexx:
I was dating this girl for a while actually wanted to marry her . She has some characters I couldn't live with. I gave her time to change but she didn't so I broke up with her.
So she started raining curses on Me telling me dat I'll suffer and beg for food. (this is a girl I trained in school)
Why are nigerian girls with this mentality that a relationship is a do or die

Op stop with the lies. She cursed you because you betrayed her. After hitting the punna you then saw the character you are complaining of. LIES. Chop and go. The next girl too go curse you. Get ready. Chop and go minister.

funkmrflexx:
I was dating this girl for a while actually wanted to marry her . She has some characters I couldn't live with. I gave her time to change but she didn't so I broke up with her.
So she started raining curses on Me telling me dat I'll suffer and beg for food. (this is a girl I trained in school)
Why are nigerian girls with this mentality that a relationship is a do or die

Actually, Nigerian girls don't have the mentality that relationship is do or die. Most Nigerian girls are only in relationship for the material things that they're getting from it.

That girl curse you because you don take away her daily bread, her source of livelihood.

Rickmann:



They think every reader is as stupid as they think it..im not saying marrying a girl you put through school ( even if that's true) is a must but for behavioural reasons, C'mon...theres always room for change besides he isn't perfect either..im sure she doesn't like a few things he exhibits as well but perhaps cos he is her benefactor, she can't talk or express herself .

Don't mind him. He is a chop and go minister. Once he gets the cookie, he then starts to complain about character just to escape and go on to his next victim. Curse wey just start. As if he has a perfect character. Nonsense.

Why will you train a girl to school especially if she is not your sister or maybe she is an orphan.

The kind of men we have now are from the zoo, tufiakwa.

Newboss:


Actually, Nigerian girls don't have the mentality that relationship is do or die. Most Nigerian girls are only in relationship for the material things that they're getting from it.

That girl curse you because you don take away her daily bread, her source of livelihood.

My Belle don burst!
MARRIED MEN have received countless curses from their wives, yet that one no work.
Na ordinary BEDMATE go work..
IF curses were like the wind, Buhari wouldn't still be ✈️flying around nor be in Aso Rock..

Digmygold:


Don't mind him. He is a chop and go minister. Once he gets the cookie, he then starts to complain about character just to escape and go on to his next victim. Curse wey just start. As if he has a perfect character. Nonsense.

Exactly

Carchoice:
One benin girl did same thing to me years ago. I invited her the next week and we had rounds of rough play for three days, while at it She started apologizing for everything She said. After She left, I broke up with her the second time and the threat started again.

BAHD GUY

Hmmmmm, you shouldn't have gone deeply into the relationship.

Those curses are void, and null, just listen to your head and your heart, better you have moved on.

It's due to lack of wisdom and intelligence this is why she is raining curses, and I pity her state of mind.

But, again, thinking, seeing the comments, it occurred to me, that you and her might have had intensive sex

So She might feel maybe used. You should have studied her for a long time before being intimate, next time, study the person for a very long time.

she is hurt, i think she thought she could express herself negatively because she still has a lot of growing to do, and she has not accepted that she has some negative trait that turns you off, sometimes i think loving a person, makes you want to be better and makes you recognize your negative traits, and because you love that person, you begin to grow or change negativity to balance, as a result of more self awareness and directed consciousness, introspection.

You can wish her the best and move on, perhaps she will grow out of it sooner than never.

Perhaps her consciousness is locked in a bubble, due to "Me Me" way of Life, and she can not really connect on a level you need, but she may be young, so she has time on her side to grow, to become more thoughtful.

True, he could have studied her for a long time.

mechanics:
Hmmmmm, you shouldn't have gone deeply into the relationship.

SmartPolician:


Stop toying with girls' emotions.
It's not fair.
You are dealing with human beings, not machines.

Na your type dey give ashawo Tfare and tell them thanks for coming

Bloody simp!

Character is not a MERE it is the MAIN CHARACTERISTIC

Rickmann:



I don't believe ur story bro..
First of, I need to understand what you meant by 'training her in school' cos to me, it means supporting her financially from start to finish be it secondary or tertiary..
Now, If you truly ' trained her in school' like you claim, why would you push her away so easily for a mere setback in character, as if you are perfect? Do you think there aren't characters you exhibit too that she doesnt like as well?

Guys sef..

i926:


Lol...maybe your mom wants you to be a nice guy

That guy na mumu. Him mama don turn am to simp

Sheyb Dem don dey sue people wey dey break up now...

frankflix:
Character is not a MERE it is the MAIN CHARACTERISTIC

Fine, I strongly agree with you bro..
Then he should have disclosed the exact character deficiency she is having so we all can have a clearer perspective.

funkmrflexx:
I was dating this girl for a while actually wanted to marry her . She has some characters I couldn't live with. I gave her time to change but she didn't so I broke up with her.
So she started raining curses on Me telling me dat I'll suffer and beg for food. (this is a girl I trained in school)
Why are nigerian girls with this mentality that a relationship is a do or die

Dont worry, just sing " Me I no go suffer, I no go beg for bread..God of Miracle na my papa ooo"

But on a serious note, many of them have the mentality that a relationship is a do or die affair because many see it as a ticket out of penury. While the some of the male folks and the few female folks with the right mindset work hard in school or trade, these ones waste away their years with the plan of 'leaching' on somebody's son when they're ripe for marriage. Lol. She cursed you because you cut her ticket at 90 mins lool. Like my good friend would say, "play stupid games, win stupid prices"

Men and women (I'm talking to women that have something to show for themselves o, not the empty headed, relationship-relying 'queens and more' lol) open your eyes and only date or marry people that have something to show for themselves.

Newboss:


Na your type dey give ashawo Tfare and tell them thanks for coming
Bloody simp!

Don't mind him.
It appears we now have more weaklings who parade themselves as MEN....
We really need to define our Genders again.


I want to use this medium to encourage those men who may be at cross roads of leaving their GIRLFRIENDS.
I will only give you three absolute reasons for which you can leave your Girl today:
1. IF she lacks undiluted Respect for you.
2. IF she's a Leech. ( not productive both in common sense & material ideas.)
3. IF you are no longer interested in Women!

You see those characters and you were still training her in school. Hmmm! Story!