we,ve been goin out for years both families are even talking marriage. now she is speaking spanish cuz she is schooling abroad. all of a suddden school is taking all her time atleast that is what she say.Guys is it worth keeping a distance relationship or even waiting for anyone? cuz right now i feel i dont even know her anymore.

Huh?? wat's da koko??

[/quote]Huh?? what's da koko??[quote]

Good point

were you not aware of that before she started studying or went to study in spain.

yawns  next.

hahahha

imagine him --------------
any problem in speaking spanish
is that ur problem that ur family didn't take u abroad for schooling
whts ur problem there
jealous will kill u MR
don mind him

n-way my bro
let her study so that she will hv her better future

by the way ,do u even hv any digree .i am biginning to suspect u hv nothing so thts why u r complaining.live ur life.build ur future.u think u will woke up one day and find urself abroad.LOL ~(joking)

you guys dont get the point i dig chicks who speak foreign languages. i meant i dont understand her anymore not the language but who she is. sides i have a B.sc in political science and i'm doin ok(financially)

Whatever then

lol, bro find urself another girl, ur clearly dont want this girl to suceed in life. ur stirring up trouble just coz she can speak spanish, hssss.

most of the responses to this topic are dumb

The poster doesn't mean the girl's spanish is the problem. All he meant by "now speaking spanish" is that she's got a changed attitude !

itachi,

the writing's on the wall my brother, next thing she may start eating paella and then you know what,

my take on the scenario is the distance which has given her some space and opened her eyes and heart to a new and different culture/surroundings is whats causing the issue.

two simple thing can now happen, you wait and see if she returns to you or you count your losses. sometimes when it seems like it will be, it may not actually be,

just my 2 kobo

sillyboy:

most of the responses to this topic are dumb

The poster doesn't mean the girl's spanish is the problem. All he meant by "now speaking spanish" is that she's got a changed attitude !

i agree with u. most response r dumb. the guy is saying she has started singing another tune, now that she is schooling abroad. ltes call a spade a spade. why would u go abroad after ten years of relationship and even after planning marriage and now u r keeping less contact on the basis that u r schooling.

my guy, let me be frank, the girl has someone else poking her there. most idtstance relationships dont work out most especially if u guys might not see in 2 yrs. for me, look for another girl and start a new life. but if love is really shaking u, wait for her and if she snubs u when she comes back U R ON UR OWN

Hey, why are you confused? remember Love has Know language:what language do you speak with your girl, while you both was Dating? now that she is speaking Spanish, does not change anything, I Live In Spain and I can speak Spanish very well, let me know if you need an interpreter.

simple,if she is speaking spanish find an interpreter

i hate most of the responses in here, All sham! What has the guy's problem got to do with spanish? What he meant was that his girlfirend has got a strange behaviour which he doesn't understand simply because she is studying abroad.
pls, don't be in haste to respond to topic that you don't understand. ok?

@ poster,

how old is your girlfriend? when will she be through with her studies? really try to get an interpreter cos she just may be sending you a message!! don't stress yourself, just stay calm, after finding out that raul or juan carlos or fernando (or whatever spanish name he bears) is not the same as you, she'll revert back to english you can be rest assured.

stay calm and keep us posted. cheers