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Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by oilmane(m): 8:39pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
[quote author=Iyaebe post=107580951]That vows before God is the most important after bride price, so you are only fully and truly married after church wedding Please show me proof from the bible, how did Moses get married? What about Isaac? The only bible recorded in the new testament was not celebrated in the synagogue so where did you get that from? White wedding is borrowed from the white folks and it is not biblical. Show proof if I'm wrong |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Tonyblessed(m): 8:41pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Who told you that? Anything not in the scripture and ordained by Christ is false. Jesus attended a traditional wedding. Isaac got married traditional.. And Paul who wrote most of the new testament did not specify such. Get your facts right? 1 Like |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Tryon4(m): 8:42pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: In the traditional marriage, do they make vow to deities or shrines? The earlier we understand life, the better for us. Do church wedding if you can but don't come here to condemn whose did traditional marriage and move in with his wife mostly because of limited resources |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Saorchy(m): 8:43pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
I beg to disagree with you. the so-called White Wedding is the white man's traditional marriage. this is part of the reasons why our culture is going extinct. Iyaebe: |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by jcross19: 8:47pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe:where is in the bible that man and woman are making vpw before God? |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by jamesharryson(m): 8:49pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Righteousness2:No dey deceive urself o Which body of Christ are u really talking about? The whites that introduced church, do they do traditional wedding too? |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by edoairways: 8:50pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Do you have bible verse to back this ( strong one at that) |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by shadeyinka(m): 8:53pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
BabaIbo:Finish your marriage rites before living with your wife. If the traditional wedding is your final wedding rite, your wife should move in with you HOWEVER If the traditional wedding is NOT your final wedding rite, your wife should then not move in with you Finish your marriage rite first |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by edoairways: 8:55pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Righteousness2:Let me ask you some few questions and I need some honest response. 1. The wedding at Galilee, was is done in synagogue or at the house of the bride? 2. Is there any strong bible verse that supports wedding at the church? 3. Did the men of faith had their weddings in the synagogue? 4. The westerners who introduced wedding, do they observe two weddings? |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Abbeywondrous(m): 8:59pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
After traditional wedding, your wife is fully yours! Other weddings are ex cetera! |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by airsaylongcome: 8:59pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Is this from a legal position? Or your opinion? |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by tunize(m): 8:59pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Question is what is Churching wedding? Officially even the bible recognizes and endorses traditional marriage. If the church wedding is so important then why not just go to the church and then go home without doing the traditional stuff? "If you try am na curse self" The only key important thing I still see interesting about church wedding is the fact that some churches tends to make you go through some essential stuff like genotype, blood group, hiv test etc. Which if not for the church, some ignorant persons are not so concerned about vital issues like this, Dem go tell you say na love. |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Munzy14(m): 9:00pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Ticket ke...You are not aware some people bleep the hell out of themselves before moving to next level to pay bride price sef.. The traditional wedding is the authentic wedding, which is more of paying dowry...After that, the lady must follow her man to his ancestral home, to be welcomed by her man's people, both physically and spiritually.. I know we are in digital age, but tradition must be tradition...We don't even know when and where we complicate life by just following the herd mentality. With this your way of reasoning atimes, you will frustrate a man who decided to make you his partner. |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by jaxxy(m): 9:01pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Traditional and court is still ok. Church is to please the crowd. Lol Bt asfar as I’m concerned marriage is about the family giving out the gal not about the church or court or whoever. If the family or guardian has given the approval and formalities even if we do it it a garden or on a yacht with few friends and witnesses we are married. I don’t care what anybody thinks. |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Munzy14(m): 9:06pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Peace081:100% period!.. |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Mariangeles(f): 9:11pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Munzy14: E go better make una do everything the same day. Wedding by day, and trad/reception by evening. Onye richaa, ya lawa. Na the new style now. E dey save stress, and cut costs. |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by cooooooks(m): 9:12pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Go to court, get married. Everything else is unnecessary. |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by izuu20(m): 9:12pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
That vows before God is the most important after bride price, so you are only fully and truly married after church wedding.. Says who?.. Any biblical back up or just that your pastor is telling you otherwise? |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by aliasdueprocess: 9:14pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
After the traditional rites,I'm taking you straight to my house.if my pastor like let him not do the rituals |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by cooooooks(m): 9:17pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
This is a forum. Everything is everyone's opinion. Never take things serious. airsaylongcome: |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by cooooooks(m): 9:19pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Couples should decide on ONE legal marriage. Do that one and continue your life. BabaIbo: |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Bubblewitch: 9:37pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
ednut1:no, court is the major wedding |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Jesuschild: 9:43pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
What you know today as white wedding is the traditional marriage of the white upon which a certificate is issued (statutory). Marriages were contracted by families and not preachers even Jesus attended a marriage and no record shows him joining any couple. Church weddings started when religion was been mixed with governance. Please let's research, the truth is there to make us less ignorant. Righteousness2: |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Alhajiemeritus: 9:45pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Your ancestors did church wedding? Abeg, get out. |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Offpoint1: 9:53pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Righteousness2:Emancipate yourself from mental slavery, free yourself from self inflicted bondage. Mental slavery is the worst of all slavery because the sufferer is oblivious to it. |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by lomprico(m): 9:56pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
BabaIbo: I'm not doing 2 weddings! if it's trad that's it. if she does not want it, she ain't my wife. |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by lomprico(m): 9:57pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: says who? |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Righteousness2: MOG I always respect you posts. Jesus Christ is not left out of most traditional marriages. Most traditional marriages nowadays starts and ends with prayers to God in the name of Jesus Christ. And God is present everywhere. I'm envisaging a situation where marriages can be blessed by the pastor even in the same ceremony as the traditional marriage, they also take their vows there after going through all the church requirements and marriage classes. God is present everywhere. I always find it funny when the couples are asked will you take him or her as your husband or wife even after the traditional marriage. |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Bishopino: 10:03pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
After my traditional wedding my mother said to me: go and bring your wife let's go, you are not owning them. I went immediately, carry the gal put for motor... Vum. After some days my mum says: if you decide to do church wedding: good. She can only go to their house, few days to the church wedding and prepare from their. But for now she will be in your home and do the duties of a married woman... 1 Like |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by shantti(m): 10:03pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: According to what constitution. If the case is taken to a customary court, the groom will win the bride's family hands down |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by ramatintin(m): 10:08pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe:i disagrees with you once traditional rites are done the woman becomes your wife. |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by shantti(m): 10:08pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: You sound like an ingrate. You call bride price peanut as if you can afford it if tables were turned. If it's peanut then tell your family not to accept it when it's time for you to get married. Yes that peanut is enough for him to claim somebody's daughter, you can't eat your cake and have it. Once that peanut is paid the man's decision supercedes that of her father as far as the girl is involved |
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