There is this colleague of mine at work. One day her sister came to visit her and we became friend I mean her sister and I.

Although she was in school then, so when ever she come visiting we spend time together to share ideas, and all. I do visit her, buy her gift the little way I could. Each time I ask her for a date she will say that she is busy. She will always find a way of not going out with me.

Now after her graduation from school she is waiting for nysc, she intend to redeploy to South South, but I convince her to redeploy down to Lagos when the time comes. Although she is yet to be posted, but she agreed.

Now is has gotten a job here in Lagos, but she still waiting for nysc. This time she bearly pick my calls, she complain about work, she is always busy and all that.. Each time I bring up relationships matters she wil find a way of covering it up with different topic entirely.

Due to this her altitude of not having chance I have to send her a message that I love her and she mean alot to me. Later that same day I called her and she picked but started bringing another topic..

Few weeks ago I called her for us to see, she said that she will b going to work the next day that she was only off on that Sunday, I later discovered that she was off for two days.

I really love dis girl, not because she is beautiful, but because she is intelligent and can produce something out of little or nothing..

Now I don't know if I should keep calling her, just as I usually do, or I should just let her be?

Please I need an advice...

Due to this her altitude of not having chance I have to send her a message that I love her and she mean alot to me

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Father Lord in the Heavens, today, I kneel unto your presence and thank you for creating me with the updated version of common sense.

Chase money bro ..leave all these hoes alone..
You don't chase women you attract them ..

with what you said you have really tried, give her some space, stop the calling and choking, concentrate on your life and work. Don't let that affect you, what is meant for you will see be yours.

Bro, stop chasing this girl, dis girl is disturbing your peace, don't you like peace...this girl doesn't want you it's crystal clear. there are millions of women who have same attributes and still better than her.


If you can be typing this, on Sunday early momo, this girl is indid fucking with your brain and she no care about you..


As dinma will always say: Man up bro

rest, wen she sees u aren't chasing anymore she go use her hand ask u how far.

then u tell her u are busy

I have no advice to give you but you are a nice BIG FOOL.

Forget about her bro, put more energy in making Money to build houses, change cars every 6 months

Let me be real with you OP;

You no go like move on with your life. De there the chase who no send you or your papa.

E better make person born bandit than to born Mumu.

Tufiakwa!




Deacon Playmaker14, abeg bring holy water and annointing oil, we need to perform exorcism on this brother.

LEAVE HER

She's not into you.Move on with your life.

Bola146:
with what you said you have really tried, give her some space, stop the calling and choking, concentrate on your life and work. Don't let that affect you, what is meant for you will see be yours.

you are here again, abeg give us space, you are a fresher

Work hard, buy house, buy nice car, build a business, and she will come chasing you

Dm her number ,

My broda focus on ur hustle oo....
Barney no like u. Like dat.... Just lockup... Na almost 7 billion people dey dis world atleast 4.5b na babes u allow one dey stress u....


#wemove

Can borrow u Usain bolt's energy to keep up the chase

The girl has given you all the signs that will subtly tell you she doesn't want to date you, yet you're still being stubborn. Is she the only girl in the world?

Don't worry, your next move on her will get you seriously embarrassed in public. Nonsense

Davash222:
E better make person born bandit than to born Mumu.

Tufiakwa!

this post weak me but it's somehow true. I never see mumu like this OP walai

Davash222:
E better make person born bandit than to born Mumu.

Tufiakwa!




Deacon Playm.aker14, abeg bring holy water and annointing oil, we need to perform exorcism on this brother.

Bro, even if we pour 50 jars of GOYA anointing oil on his head, it won't cure the disorder he is suffering from.

There's nothing we can do.

PlayMaker14:




Bro, even if we pour 50 jars of GOYA anointing oil on his head, it won't cure the disorder he is suffering from.

There's nothing we can do.

Are you suggesting we should allow him wander with such SIMPle attitude?

Keep chasing her because ladies are designed differently, I for one won't ever say yes to someone with at least a year of good chasing, its not an easy decision allowing someone into your life and be part of you,this is someone you don't know before or how he's been living his life,its not easy for some of us.

HonestFriend:
There is this colleague of mine at work. One day her sister came to visit her and we became friend I mean her sister and I.

Although she was in school then, so when ever she come visiting we spend time together to share ideas, and all. I do visit her, buy her gift the little way I could. Each time I ask her for a date she will say that she is busy. She will always find a way of not going out with me.

Now after her graduation from school she is waiting for nysc, she intend to redeploy to South South, but I convince her to redeploy down to Lagos when the time comes. Although she is yet to be posted, but she agreed.

Now is has gotten a job here in Lagos, but she still waiting for nysc. This time she bearly pick my calls, she complain about work, she is always busy and all that.. Each time I bring up relationships matters she wil find a way of covering it up with different topic entirely.

Due to this her altitude of not having chance I have to send her a message that I love her and she mean alot to me. Later that same day I called her and she picked but started bringing another topic..

Few weeks ago I called her for us to see, she said that she will b going to work the next day that she was only off on that Sunday, I later discovered that she was off for two days.

I really love dis girl, not because she is beautiful, but because she is intelligent and can produce something out of little or nothing..

Now I don't know if I should keep calling her, just as I usually do, or I should just let her be?

Please I need an advice...

too long to read, but leave her

DaInferno:
too long to read, but leave her

Tnks..

Davash222:

Are you suggesting we should allow him wander with such SIMPle attitude?

The case is irredeemable bro.

Iyaebe:
Keep chasing her because ladies are designed differently, I for one won't ever say yes to someone with at least a year of good chasing, its not an easy decision allowing someone into your life and be part of you,this is someone you don't know before or how he's been living his life,its not easy for some of us.

Common Getat!

Davash222:

Common Getat!

hi junkie

chatinent:
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Father Lord in the Heavens, today, I kneel unto your presence and thank you for creating me with the updated version of common sense.

Kikikikikiki

Bro...
Forget all these guys calling you a simp and all... It's not simping to have feelings for a girl...

But the matter here be say, she doesn't like you the way you like her, so why force it??
And even if by some stroke of luck, she accepts to date you, she'd only be doing so out of pity and I don't think you'd like that...

Guy...
For your own peace of mind, LET HER GO!! it will be difficult, but it definitely will be worth it...

Give her d cold shoulder...stop talking about relationship,just acts as if you don't have her time,she will come begging you for attention self

Guy i would advice you 2 friend zone her 4 the main time, pretend as if you never care 4 now. She might av a re-thing about it

Simps irritate me