purefacti:
cc:Datboredberry

massinola:
I will be as brief as possible.
I recently opened a barbing salon shop. Within the area I opened this shop, there's this couple living there. The man does nothing for a living. He's a drunkard. The woman on the other hand sells black market fuel and oil to make ends meet.

They gave birth to 6 children (yes, you heard right). Since I entered that street, I noticed a serious domestic violence going on in that family. The man after drinking, uses his wife and children as punching bags. This is not occasionally. On a daily. I'm seriously disturbed. A little arguement and the man goes straight to the woman's fuel and oil and pours everything away.

Even when he's the one provoking the woman, he goes to the woman's properties and starts damaging everything.

The worst is that no body in the street says anything. They all say they are used to them.
I'm seriously disturbed because the man always threatens to pour fuel on the woman and set her ablaze always.

On many occasions, he carries huge sticks to kill the woman like a snake.
People around always say he can't do it. On my side, I'm really disturbed, because I have seen where domestic violence caused a disaster. I fear that one day, the man might carry out his threats.

Today a serious fight broke out between the man and the wife. The man was beating the last born of the house that's just a year plus like a mad man. The wife couldn't bear it anymore and faced the man. He was beating all of them like animals. Looking for cutlass and 2by2 to use on them. People were passing and didn't even care. I couldn't bear it anymore. He was trying to smash the woman's phone on the main road. One small girl went to rescue the woman and the phone. The way this man flung the lady eeh, that was when I stepped in, collected the phone and told the man that if he tried touching the woman and the children again, I would bury him alive. I was very mad. I asked the woman what he's still doing with the man. Or is she waiting for people to carry her corpse before she flees for her life? The phone is still with me. I'm confused on what to do.

This man needs to be stopped before a disaster strikes. It's just a matter of time. I fear for the woman's life seriously.
What can I do to help the situation guys. I'm really disturbed.

aldonem:
Our women are not courageous enough to leave marriages due to domestic violence especially the uneducated and unestablished ones. its so pathetic.

Mancrossfire:


Stupid people prioritize their fantasies over their future. Some women are plain stupid, they can even think of the future of their unborn children when choosing a partner. They make decisions with their perverts mind

yemi1504:


Beating na love strokes kwanu? , to the stupid lady in question who is the bembe Nabiu victim lol, na love strokes sha lol SMH.

Some women consider violence to mean love o

Lokojatoofar:


Some women consider violence to mean love o

Datboredberry:
Yes?

Do you want me to advice the op? Or you mentioned me to make a point that sometimes, domestic violence is the woman's fault?

Honestly, I think most women tolerate a lot of bullshit.. but aren't they expected to?

How many women have been advised to abandon their cheating husband? Few...

We're told to turn a blind eye to his adultery, to ignore that he's a drunk...

Women are raised to be wives and mothers... To be resilient... No matter how much it costs us... We are expected to keep the family afloat...

I hope for a time when women realise marriage isn't necessity... Or a do or die affair... That they can live on their own as complete individuals...

As for people blaming the woman for marrying the man out of lust, it's quite convenient for them to forget that that's most men settle down with women they are only sexually attracted to.

If a woman marries a man she desires, it's not a reason to say she deserves being beaten...

Everyone makes mistakes... I'm not sure how the op knows that she's not stupidly inlove with the scumbag though... The woman is probably old now... I'm not sure she's still being consumed by lust...

All in all, if this were happening in my neighbourhood... I would definitely arrest the man...

But you want to know the irony, bitter truth? The police would advice her to back... To try to work things out...

And as for welfare? What agency do we have that's truly dedicated to protecting the rights of women?

We're nothing more than cattle... To be beaten, raped...

That's Nigeria... I have nothing to say...

purefacti:



what a long speech anyway the reason why I tagged you is that i thought that maybe u would know somebody that know somebody that can her situation i really felt for her if her situation is as bad as op potrays

massinola:
I will be as brief as possible.
I recently opened a barbing salon shop. Within the area I opened this shop, there's this couple living there. The man does nothing for a living. He's a drunkard. The woman on the other hand sells black market fuel and oil to make ends meet.

They gave birth to 6 children (yes, you heard right). Since I entered that street, I noticed a serious domestic violence going on in that family. The man after drinking, uses his wife and children as punching bags. This is not occasionally. On a daily. I'm seriously disturbed. A little arguement and the man goes straight to the woman's fuel and oil and pours everything away.

Even when he's the one provoking the woman, he goes to the woman's properties and starts damaging everything.

The worst is that no body in the street says anything. They all say they are used to them.
I'm seriously disturbed because the man always threatens to pour fuel on the woman and set her ablaze always.

On many occasions, he carries huge sticks to kill the woman like a snake.
People around always say he can't do it. On my side, I'm really disturbed, because I have seen where domestic violence caused a disaster. I fear that one day, the man might carry out his threats.

Today a serious fight broke out between the man and the wife. The man was beating the last born of the house that's just a year plus like a mad man. The wife couldn't bear it anymore and faced the man. He was beating all of them like animals. Looking for cutlass and 2by2 to use on them. People were passing and didn't even care. I couldn't bear it anymore. He was trying to smash the woman's phone on the main road. One small girl went to rescue the woman and the phone. The way this man flung the lady eeh, that was when I stepped in, collected the phone and told the man that if he tried touching the woman and the children again, I would bury him alive. I was very mad. I asked the woman what he's still doing with the man. Or is she waiting for people to carry her corpse before she flees for her life? The phone is still with me. I'm confused on what to do.

This man needs to be stopped before a disaster strikes. It's just a matter of time. I fear for the woman's life seriously.
What can I do to help the situation guys. I'm really disturbed.

Datboredberry:


Don't mind me... I honestly know no one... I've lost hope in the system...

Kholiwe:

You meet your mother at Sandfill . Yes bring evidence of meeting your mother at Sandfill. This bastard will die today