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Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by peace0813(f): 1:46pm On Nov 22, 2021
There is a saying that age is a number.

I have a friend who got married to a younger guy, she complained of not been taking care of by her husband and said that her husband gives his salary to his mother but before their marriage the guy was always there for her but now his mother is the one in charge.

Is there any issue with marrying a younger guy.

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Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by aanuoluwami14(f): 1:47pm On Nov 22, 2021
Go for your happiness, you will be the one to stay alone in the marriage, but be very careful choosing younger man, it's very risky sometimes.
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by donbachi(m): 1:49pm On Nov 22, 2021
No
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by peace0813(f): 1:51pm On Nov 22, 2021
aanuoluwami14:
Go for your happiness, you will be the one to stay alone in the marriage, but be very careful choosing younger man, it's very risky sometimes.
Thanks for your response. Why is it risky?
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by SenecaTheYonger: 1:53pm On Nov 22, 2021
Define younger? 50 year old man is young to a 90 year old woman.
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by aanuoluwami14(f): 1:55pm On Nov 22, 2021
peace0813:
Thanks for your response. Why is it risky?

Some of them might not be matured enough to any future pressure or side talks. Most might be after your money and lust

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Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by peace0813(f): 1:58pm On Nov 22, 2021
SenecaTheYonger:
Define younger? 50 year old man is young to a 90 year old woman.
That is what i mean.
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by Abfinest007(m): 2:00pm On Nov 22, 2021
Age is just a number.maturity is a thing of the head not age

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Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by iamtardey: 2:03pm On Nov 22, 2021
real talk tho
aanuoluwami14:


Some of them might not be matured enough to any future pressure or side talks. Most might be after your money and lust

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Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by brosom(m): 2:29pm On Nov 22, 2021
Yeah and it's solvable.

Avoid public opinion in regards to ur choice.

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Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by suffering: 3:43pm On Nov 22, 2021
Is there any issue with marrying a younger guy
Do it first let us find out.
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by Kobojunkie: 5:25pm On Nov 22, 2021
peace0813:
Is there any issue with marrying a younger guy.
No undecided

Marriage na Marriage! undecided
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by odinson1(m): 6:54pm On Nov 22, 2021
peace0813:
There is a saying that age is a number.

I have a friend who got married to a younger guy, she complained of not been taking care of by her husband and said that her husband gives his salary to his mother but before their marriage the guy was always there for her but now his mother is the one in charge.

Is there any issue with marrying a younger guy.

What nonsense is this? Why is she complaining that he isn't "taking care of her"? Isn't she a Complete human adult with 2 hands,2 legs and a Brain that she can use to take care of herself? I thought feminists said both Genders were equal and men shouldn't be the heads of the home.

Well,as for me,my Mother comes first above every other person (my dad is late) because of the sacrifices and love she has done and shown to me over the years. So my mother will ALWAYS come first before my wife(assuming i ever get married). call me immature or mummy's boy, I don't care!

And as for the "responsible and real men" in the house, I'll leave you with this:

"In your entire Family,the only person not related to you by blood is your wife" while you go about doing all sorts of unprintable things for her,ask yourself; "would she do same for me?"

Final note: "you can have a 2nd wife,but it is Virtually IMPOSSIBLE for you to have a 2nd Parent"
placeofallure:


Yes your woman can take care of her own needs because she's working and responsible and wouldn't spend all her own income on her own family because she has a home to keep, neither will she spend it all on human hair and mascara.
But what happens to the utility bills that you both enjoy when you pack all your salary dash your mum? I bet she'll be sorry to have raised an irresponsible boy who will forever be tied to her apron strings. Your attitude should depress any good mother. I'm sure your late father took care of her before he passed. Why would she unleash a simp as you on the society? Mtcheeew!

I didn't say I won't take care of my home,i will of course take care of my kids but I AM NOT PUTTING THE NEEDS OF MY WIFE ABOVE MY MOTHER'S. Men and women are equals right? So my wife can take care of her own utility bills.
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by Boogyman557: 6:55pm On Nov 22, 2021
Holly Gram cool real matters. WTF MAN
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by Ayo081(m): 7:00pm On Nov 22, 2021
Being the right person doesn't necessarily have anything to do with age.
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by Jeremani: 7:22pm On Nov 22, 2021
Lemme be a gentle man.
The lady is older than him, am I correct? If yes,
Then if the mother didn't step in, the lady will control the guy. The mother understands how the female nature works. So she had to come in.

Still and still maturity is what matters.

Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by Favfables1: 7:32pm On Nov 22, 2021
peace0813:
There is a saying that age is a number.

I have a friend who got married to a younger guy, she complained of not been taking care of by her husband and said that her husband gives his salary to his mother but before their marriage the guy was always there for her but now his mother is the one in charge.

Is there any issue with marrying a younger guy.

I don't think there's anything wrong...
As long as you both understand each other and you don't allow your "seniority" make you disrespect him...
Cause whether you're older than the man or you're younger than him, no man I know will tolerate a disrespectful woman...

And as for your friend...
Let her know that even men who get married to younger women may also allow their mum to take control of their home. So this phenomenon you described is not only applicable to men who marry older wives...
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by MufasaLion(m): 9:08pm On Nov 22, 2021
Marry whosoever you find peace and harmony with. I like older ladies. cool tongue
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by helinues: 9:41pm On Nov 22, 2021
The issue here is not about younger or older but the personality of the man

Age is just a number, maturity is the key
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by Johndagr8t(m): 9:46pm On Nov 22, 2021
odinson1:


What nonsense is this? Why is she complaining that he isn't "taking care of her"? Isn't she a Complete human adult with 2 hands,2 legs and a Brain that she can use to take care of herself? I thought feminists said both Genders were equal and men shouldn't be the heads of the home.

Well,as for me,my Mother comes first above every other person (my dad is late) because of the sacrifices and love she has done and shown to me over the years. So my mother will ALWAYS come first before my wife(assuming i ever get married). call me immature or mummy's boy, I don't care!

And as for the "responsible and real men" in the house, I'll leave you with this:

"In your entire Family,the only person not related to you by blood is your wife" while you go about doing all sorts of unprintable things for her,ask yourself; "would she do same for me?"

Final note: "you can have a 2nd wife,but it is Virtually IMPOSSIBLE for you to have a 2nd Parent"

Send me your account details bro, I love your mentally
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by muheeb01(m): 10:13pm On Nov 22, 2021
There's no big deal....age is just a number






Check my signature and profile for my work
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by Lilsameey: 10:46pm On Nov 22, 2021
Nawaoooo, he is really young then.
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by placeofallure(f): 6:25am On Nov 23, 2021
odinson1:


What nonsense is this? Why is she complaining that he isn't "taking care of her"? Isn't she a Complete human adult with 2 hands,2 legs and a Brain that she can use to take care of herself? I thought feminists said both Genders were equal and men shouldn't be the heads of the home.

Well,as for me,my Mother comes first above every other person (my dad is late) because of the sacrifices and love she has done and shown to me over the years. So my mother will ALWAYS come first before my wife(assuming i ever get married). call me immature or mummy's boy, I don't care!

And as for the "responsible and real men" in the house, I'll leave you with this:

"In your entire Family,the only person not related to you by blood is your wife" while you go about doing all sorts of unprintable things for her,ask yourself; "would she do same for me?"

Final note: "you can have a 2nd wife,but it is Virtually IMPOSSIBLE for you to have a 2nd Parent"

Yes your woman can take care of her own needs because she's working and responsible and wouldn't spend all her own income on her own family because she has a home to keep, neither will she spend it all on human hair and mascara.
But what happens to the utility bills that you both enjoy when you pack all your salary dash your mum? I bet she'll be sorry to have raised an irresponsible boy who will forever be tied to her apron strings. Your attitude should depress any good mother. I'm sure your late father took care of her before he passed. Why would she unleash a simp as you on the society? Mtcheeew!
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by odinson1(m): 6:44am On Nov 23, 2021
Johndagr8t:


Send me your account details bro, I love your mentally

Thanks man,nice to see a man of similar thinking as mine.

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Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by Fiscus105(m): 6:56am On Nov 23, 2021
aanuoluwami14:


Some of them might not be matured enough to any future pressure or side talks. Most might be after your money and lust


I know men of 48 and 54 who are not mature one and I know a boy of 18 in my church who is fully mature, if they give a town for the boy to rule, he would rule it with wisdom.

If you are not a daunc, going out with a particular partner for 3 months with short distance relationship, is enough to know if you would be able to leave with him/her.

The problem is that many do notice flaw that they can't leave with in their partners but still go ahead to married him/her, after marriage they will be complaining.

And more importantly, couple should learn how to Leave their lives and not to please third party, that's if you are happy to marry young guy as a woman so be it.

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Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by aanuoluwami14(f): 6:58am On Nov 23, 2021
Fiscus105:



I know men of 48 and 54 who are not mature one and I know a boy of 18 in my church who is fully mature, if they give a town for the boy to rule, he would rule it with wisdom.

If you are not a daunc, going out with a particular partner for 3 months with short distance relationship, is enough to know if you would be able to leave with him/her.

A month is enough
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by anthonyuncle(m): 7:22am On Nov 23, 2021
so she's older and still has eyes on his money?

what is all that age for?
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by jericco1(m): 10:33am On Nov 23, 2021
There's nothing wrong with that.. maybe they have an underlying issue that needs to be solved
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by mmadu4: 10:53am On Nov 23, 2021
placeofallure:


Yes your woman can take care of her own needs because she's working and responsible and wouldn't spend all her own income on her own family because she has a home to keep, neither will she spend it all on human hair and mascara.
But what happens to the utility bills that you both enjoy when you pack all your salary dash your mum? I bet she'll be sorry to have raised an irresponsible boy who will forever be tied to her apron strings. Your attitude should depress any good mother. I'm sure your late father took care of her before he passed. Why would she unleash a simp as you on the society? Mtcheeew!

See the nonsense you took time to type . Our fathers and mothers time were different times when women had value and supported their husband not the kind of women we have today . You might try to justify and defend your fellow hoes. It won't work . My mom comes first so go F u c k your self harlot
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by odinson1(m): 2:20pm On Nov 23, 2021
Johndagr8t:


Send me your account details bro, I love your mentally

Sir i have sent it in my previous mention to you
Re: Is There Any Issue Marrying A Younger Guy by placeofallure(f): 4:17pm On Nov 23, 2021
mmadu4:


See the nonsense you took time to type . Our fathers and mothers time were different times when women had value and supported their husband not the kind of women we have today . You might try to justify and defend your fellow hoes. It won't work . My mom comes first so go F u c k your self harlot

Bastard son of a lowlife. I wonder who raised you or how you were raised. May you get what you deserve.

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