A long lasting marriage is built on trust. Where there is no trust, love is living on borrowed times. A union of two love birds would eventually collapse and one or both lovers would either have to move on with hope or get left behind with a broken heart.

So, since trust is the bedrock of every enduring marriage, how can someone who desires to enjoy the rewards of a happy long lasting marriage build trust? It is by refusing to ask some QUESTIONS and do some things.

What are those questions you shouldn’t ask, things you shouldn’t say and do?

Don’t have secrets. Tell your partner everything about what you are doing or intend to do. Let your partner know about your fears and your hopes. Be transparent and be as opened as possible.


Don’t say, ‘You are lying’, or ‘I don’t believe you‘. When you tell your partner that they are lying, you are indirectly telling them that you don’t trust them. When you do this on a consistent basis, you are making it difficult for your partner to tell you the truth about a lot if things. This is because, they would have had the impression that telling you anything is a waste of time, since you would never believe.

Don’t ask, ‘who was that?‘. Okay you should but when it becomes a habit, it becomes a problem. If your partner wants to tell you who they were with and where they were, they would volunteer the information without you asking.

Asking, especially frequently and leaving no room for objectivity, would make them believe that you are trailing them out of suspicion. And suspicion breeds distrust.

https://ayietim.com/2016/09/26/questions-you-mustnt-ask-and-things-you-mustnt-do-if-you-must-build-your-marriage-on-trust/

Bennysam

This man is seriously wanted.
He haunts his prey by night.
Please his whereabouts is needed at all cost.

Icouldhave:
Bennysam

This man is seriously wanted

who declared him wanted? You or security agents?

Icouldhave:
Bennysam

This man is seriously wanted.
He haunts his prey by night.
Please his whereabouts is needed at all cost.

Post evidence of what he did so it wouldn't look like a defamation of character.

chatinent:


Post evidence of what he did so it wouldn't look like a defamation of character.

He's a ritualist

He's a ritualist

You have no point.

OP...
I agree with you an extent....
Buh lemme add that you don't build trust by choosing to not ask questions... You don't build trust by choosing to be ignorant...
Trust is build on concrete knowledge of your partners capacity and as you know, knowledge comes by asking questions and by experience...