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Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by ayandee: 12:23am On Nov 29, 2021 |
I fear prégnancy even though i have 3 kids now. Once i see a prégnant woman, i always have empathy. When i had my second child, the woman next to my bed died some hours after delivery. None of us in that ward could sleep that night. For that moment, we forgot the pains from our c-section scars. It was a horrible sight. I pray for all prégnant women, you will deliver safely without complications. 14 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by toujurs: 1:16am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Biglittlelois:There is nothing there to be scared of, you no longer a baby na |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by skyplustk(f): 1:35am On Nov 29, 2021 |
This happen during my second pregnancy I was always dreaming that I died during delivery, d pregnancy was eventful I became sick and tired from time to time, my husband and my first daughter were admitted in d hospital too at a point I said who even sent me to get pregnant again. So many prophecy came out too and even someone told my mom to do redemption for her pregnant daughter. On the 14th October I was sitting in my shop when I started feeling this strong contractions I called my husband and a dear sister I met on nairaland here and they both concluded that I should go to the hospital on getting there I was checked and I was told I was 4 cm dilated I was happy that at least this delivery will be very fast not knowing that that was the beginning of my problem I felt this contractions till 12 midnight till it stopped and the doctor said I will be induced the following morning. I was induced very early in d morning yet nothing happened so they suggested caesarian but I said no my husband agreed but I was adamant the doctor said I was proving stubborn that they have tried all their best I just called my husband that am going to d general hospital he was very annoyed that was when I told him I had series of dream and vision that I will die during delivery that if I might not make it alive if I give birth through ceaserian so he just went to the doctor that he should discharge me that we are going to church and that we will come back later in the evening on getting to the general hospital we were told that I was unbooked but they will admit me we were asked to go and pay and get some things as the private hospital I used didn't release anything for us. I was monitored till the following morning and I was induced on Saturday morning around 5am in the morning and I delivered 8: 41 am in the morning as well. After delivery I was seriously bleeding due to fibroid that my husband was asked to go and buy one injection though very expensive but it stopped d bleeding. If I had done the CS I might have died because this same thing happened to someone I know she delivered d child via C's and she started bleeding she was referred to a general hospital she died before they got to the hospital. If you are going through this at the moment please pray and confide in people you trustto pray along with you and always follow your instincts. My angel is six weeks now 14 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by stevups(m): 2:03am On Nov 29, 2021 |
That night, around 10 pm. My wife said she perceived maybe we would not sleep. I tot it was a joke. I had bought fuel but I did not pour it inside the car for almost a month. I just went to sleep. She came to meet me inside the room. Then the real rigorous exercise began. After 24 hours that boy came. In fact, if you are a real human being, you must pity your wife. I had my phone with me I couldn't snap. Women are to be respected!! 13 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by stevups(m): 2:13am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Please always register in a very good hospital, don't mind the distance. I saved the money I spent on that day from the money I got during my wedding. 7 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by Chinny024(f): 2:59am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Jabar2017: She will deliver safely just like Hebrew women in Jesus name... Labour room,doctors and nurses will be by her side round the clock till she delivers...No need to panic.. Make sure she delivers in a good hospital,teaching hospital preferably...No one prays for complications but should in case one arises, teaching hospital will be of outmost help unlike maternity. Thanks. You shall come back to spray us powder on Head for safe delivery.. 4 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by addicted268(f): 4:58am On Nov 29, 2021 |
I was never scared during my pregnancy. The concern was from my doctors n my husband cos my blood pressure was over the roof all through the period but i was very optimistic. I googled everything i could about pregnancy but i never looked up the delivery process itself( be it cs or normal delivery) cos i know i ll find something to be worried n scared about. My husband and my mum were so scared that i had to lie to them that i was going to deliver on Thursday whereas it was 2days earlier. the pleasant surprise on his face when he saw the baby was everything i had hoped it would be. He kept saying thank you, thank you 11 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by cococandy(f): 5:09am On Nov 29, 2021 |
I experienced it and that’s why I’m never doing it again. I literally sobbed so much. Said goodbye to my family just in case and was always so anxious about it. I’m done. Done!! 7 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by jaxxy(m): 5:37am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Fear and anxiety on a new experience in relatively normal especially if risks can go from low to high, pregnancy is perhaps one of them bt like every other thing it’s all about having proper knowledge and having experienced and attentive hands working with u or attending to u. Every other thing and decision making becomes easy, smooth and controlled. |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by Oblongata: 5:38am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Joydan95:May you be blessed for this wonderful piece! Thank you. 4 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by Bbqekpa: 6:28am On Nov 29, 2021 |
AdaSunshine: Why are people liking this post? Sometimes I fear nairalanders. So sad to hear about your loss dear. This is why my wife & I just opted for CS from the onset. |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by petitejolie(f): 6:30am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Hmmmn pregnancy.... Don't know if oga will allow us opt for surrogacy. As for all pregnant wives and member's wives u will all deliver safely with mother and child alive in Jesus name amen. 8 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by DFERENCE: 6:30am On Nov 29, 2021 |
isaiah4life:the year isn't correct, another fact is that most women don't open up about, hence there show no interest in sexual intercourse, compulsive use of contraceptives and using life activities like school or work as an excuse for no pregnancy, i can share you my research on tokophobia if you wish to read, and TOKOPHOBIA is general fear of pregnancy/childbirth not neccessarily DEATH, others feel it may take away their shape as result of weight gain, others may commit them to marriage, while others may feel it may impact their career as they wil have to spend time taking care of the child. 2 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by nosagold(m): 6:58am On Nov 29, 2021 |
maureensylvia: By faith, Sarah received strength to conceive when she was past age, because she judged Him faithful who had promised. 3 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by isaiah4life(m): 7:22am On Nov 29, 2021 |
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Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by DFERENCE: 7:59am On Nov 29, 2021 |
[quote author=isaiah4life post=108049054][/quote] "knauer 1897 tokophobia" read, just search 4 now later i will attach my research will i go to the office. And wikipedia is a free to edit page, always go to research link or reference and read |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by Crafteck1: 8:12am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Stigma that nigerian community bring is one of the causes, they made the average person pray and stand vehemently against surgery. |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by Darkmode64: 8:33am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Oblongata:I laughed so hard this early. Omo na wa oo Thanks for sharing. 2 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by Darkmode64: 8:35am On Nov 29, 2021 |
AdaSunshine:I was incredibly touched by this. So sorry for your loss. |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by isaiah4life(m): 8:42am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Okay, sir. But with all due respect sir. I also did an extensive research on it. It was my project. I had A in it and was acknowledged by my professors. I know what I am telling you. I also used research link. I would love to share my research with you if you want. I am currently hoping to obtain research grant to undertake another research on "THE EMPIRICISM OF CHILD BIRTH AND PSYCHOPROPHYLAXIS." All the same, may God bless your going out and coming in today. Do have a blessed day ahead, sir. God bless you. DFERENCE: 2 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by Nickyblithe: 10:21am On Nov 29, 2021 |
kennethfranc: She will give birth like the Hebrew women. Just believe and pray for her 2 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by ebunchi(f): 12:29pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
I had my baby girl 4 months ago , As a first time mom i was so scared but thank God everything went well. I joined the mountain of fire pregnant women prayer meeting and it really encouraged me to be strong and not to be afraid, 2 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by Joydan95: 3:18pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Oblongata:You are welcome |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by ezebunafo(m): 7:17pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
She was what yorubas call emere AdaSunshine: |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by Joydan95: 8:37pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
1F30M4:Hmmmn.... thank God 2 Likes |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by DonroxyII: 3:11pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
AdaSunshine:Kai, When the Brain enters deep state of Emotions, She closes Up! Almighty God should help us in conquering Fear and Remain Respectful. |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
KristaPretty:Will that not be worse? Imagine being cut and carrying a scar for life. |
Re: TOKOPHOBIA; Fear Of Death During Pregnancy. Ever Experienced This? by shegun4sur: 9:08pm On Feb 22, 2022 |
maureensylvia: Wow motherhood is serious work 1 Like 1 Share |
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