This thing called life is complicated. At age 28 I still can't figure out where my life is going. This minute it's all good and I'm financially competent then the next minute a problem pops up and in a flash everything is gone. I don't drink or smoke neither do I take drugs so ion waste money (not saying drinking or smoking is waste of money) and I wonder where my problem is

Could it be me or what am I not doing right?

Has anyone been in this situation before, what can/should I do?

You are still young at 28, what you are going through is called life, learn from your mistakes and grow with what you've learn.
Be prayerful, always include God or whatever you believe in, into your plans before you embark on it.
Challenges are meant to build us to be stronger not to tear us. Pick yourself up and try again.

We are the same age ma niqqa,I graduated from the uni at 22,,with mago mago at that age I traveled to the us,got snitched, I'm back to square one ma niqqa, that's life.... I built a very good house in the village,and cars that's the only thing I have now,no money, everything I got was seized over there,I don't know what to do too,so you got me,we have the same problem, stop whining and hustle hard,I believe you will make it,real guy's don't whine...

Yu don't drink, yu don't smoke
What bout Olosho, yu sef dey gbe-body abi.?
Ur problem no far from ur waiste, moreover; priick no get shoulder na why punna dey make neck spin

Holla911:
You are still young at 28, what you are going through is called life, learn from your mistakes and grow with what you've learn.
Be prayerful, always include God or whatever you believe in, into your plans before you embark on it.
Challenges are meant to build us to be stronger not to tear us. Pick yourself up and try again.

I keep trying again. I'm not the type that believe someone in the village is responsible for my misfortune(s) sometimes I wonder why it always happen but thanks

Life, at least you are a graduate, keep grinding.

Brother man, keep the head up, just ghost and grind

Daveambition:
Yu don't drink, yu don't smoke
What bout Olosho, yu sef dey gbe-body abi.?
Ur problem no far from ur waiste, moreover; priick no get shoulder na why punna dey make neck spin

Lol, ion have a girlfriend joor

Is sex that expensive in this generation?

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram abobi I feel ur CAPIN...


Na so LIFE be...


U go PASS dar STAGE and u go tell ur STORY just like TIMAYA wey sell PLANTAIN...


WTF MAN

Thanks bro

Kiddogarcia:
Brother man, keep the head up, just ghost and grind

We go again

yuping:
Life, at least you are a graduate, keep grinding.

Winning boost your morale

Holla911:
You are still young at 28, what you are going through is called life, learn from your mistakes and grow with what you've learn.
Be prayerful, always include God or whatever you believe in, into your plans before you embark on it.
Challenges are meant to build us to be stronger not to tear us. Pick yourself up and try again.

Still young at 28? are you serious at all.

McEphiks:
This thing called life is complicated. At age 28 I still can't figure out where my life is going. This minute it's all good and I'm financially competent then the next minute a problem pops up and in a flash everything is gone. I don't drink or smoke neither do I take drugs so ion waste money (not saying drinking or smoking is waste of money) and I wonder where my problem is

Could it be me or what am I not doing right?

Has anyone been in this situation before, what can/should I do?

Hope you don't masturbate??

Adeoye11:




Hope you don't masturbate??

Important question

Adeoye11:




Hope you don't masturbate??

Fortunately for me I don't. It irritates me

Jeremani:

Important question

Lol

I'm not a saint but that's not one of my flaws though I watch porn sha

McEphiks:


Lol

I'm not a saint but that's not one of my flaws though I watch porn sha

Try and stop it,
Thank God u don't masturbate, very dangerous and full of negativity

Stop playing bet9ja,

More especially virtual bet.

You need to know what is happening because we don't know you. You gotta take responsibility instead of saying you don't know what is happening. If you knew the problem then we help with solutions but you've come here so we could 'guess' your issues lol.

McEphiks:


Lol

I'm not a saint but that's not one of my flaws though I watch porn sha

Yeah , then try concentrate on your goals and reason why you are living.
2 Don't compare yourself with other people.
3 Try and give to the needy out of the little you have.
4. Quit porn,since you say you don't masturbate and love yourself more.

Then watch your life turn around.

McEphiks:
This thing called life is complicated. At age 28 I still can't figure out where my life is going. This minute it's all good and I'm financially competent then the next minute a problem pops up and in a flash everything is gone. I don't drink or smoke neither do I take drugs so ion waste money (not saying drinking or smoking is waste of money) and I wonder where my problem is

Could it be me or what am I not doing right?

Has anyone been in this situation before, what can/should I do?

You're an idiot, many of your age mate have died and you're alive complaining of not achieving anything. Believe in yourself and work hard , you will be fine brother

McEphiks:
This thing called life is complicated. At age 28 I still can't figure out where my life is going. This minute it's all good and I'm financially competent then the next minute a problem pops up and in a flash everything is gone. I don't drink or smoke neither do I take drugs so ion waste money (not saying drinking or smoking is waste of money) and I wonder where my problem is

Could it be me or what am I not doing right?

Has anyone been in this situation before, what can/should I do?

You should be more prayerful if you're a Christian but if you are not a Christian go to native doctor and check yourself out. Please don't quote me ooo i don't have strength

Jeremani:


Try and stop it,
Thank God u don't masturbate, very dangerous and full of negativity

Thanks bro, I will

Double0h7:
You need to know what is happening because we don't know you. You gotta take responsibility instead of saying you don't know what is happening. If you knew the problem then we help with solutions but you've come here so we could 'guess' your issues lol.

It's not about guessing bro. In a minute it seems everything is going on well but then something will happen and then everything will be back to zero. More or like been in a limbo or spinning around circles

Bennysam:

You're an idiot, many of your age mate have died and you're alive complaining of not achieving anything. Believe in yourself and work hard , you will be fine brother

If been alive is all a man should be thankful for then why stay alive. A unambitious man is as good as dead bro so its just normal if I feel I should be doing better than I am.

And thanks I'll pray about it as I've been trying

Bennysam:

You should be more prayerful if you're a Christian but if you are not a Christian go to native doctor and check yourself out. Please don't quote me ooo i don't have strength

Lol

Adeoye11:


Yeah , then try concentrate on your goals and reason why you are living.
2 Don't compare yourself with other people.
3 Try and give to the needy out of the little you have.
4. Quit porn,since you say you don't masturbate and love yourself more.

Then watch your life turn around.

You have said it all.....Many people still don't believe that masturbation and porn steals alot from them.

McEphiks:


It's not about guessing bro. In a minute it seems everything is going on well but then something will happen and then everything will be back to zero. More or like been in a limbo or spinning around circles

When I'm in that kind of situation, I look within and have an honest conversation with myself. I identify the things I'm doing when things are going back to zero and I work on that. It's a sign of madness when we do the same thing and expect a different outcome. We have to do things differently when we want a different outcome. The problem lies in our attitude. Change something even if it's the smallest thing and you will see that change in your results.

Have you tried prayer and fasting?

Any scientific evidence to support that?

Jeremani:


Try and stop it,
Thank God u don't masturbate, very dangerous and full of negativity

When ever money enters ur hand take a pen and a piece of paper and write down what and what needs to be bought, fixed and changed. So many times we end up spending above our income and expect a miracle from God. We buy things that are necessary and those ones that are not necessary. When we get our salary that's when we remember some girls we'll like to take home cos there's money to spend. Money gives us boldness but money not well spent will disappear from our hands so ur problem isn't a spiritual one but rather a spending problem.