1.Respect God
2 Great sense of humour. ok nt the sick, lame ,annoying kind of humour
3.Personal hygiene and very very organised. This is key
4.Posess leadership abilities
5.Command respect
6.Financial/Emotional/social stability
7.Killer eyes and smile
8.Good 'normal'physique
9.Not predictable and full of suprises
10.Romantic man
11.Good fashion sense
12.No pot bellies.NO NO
13.Kind but tough too.
14.Not jealous/possesive type
15.Full of life.Not a pessimist but optimist.
16.Know how to fix himself a cup of coffee at least and toast bread.
17.Visionary
18.Should be able to make me a better person and viceversa

Most important we must be compatible.

I think wat matters most for me is someone who can share my dreams and also encourage and support me to be a better person.

Its different strokes for different folks. For some its brains, for others its the backside or the pocket.

But the truth is, you can hard ever get it all in one package.

So if you find most of what you want in one person, my advise is go for that person.

Look for three things
1. one you can stand side by side in public without feeling off the moon
2. one you can quarrel with & settle without hearing it on street / family corners
3. one that won't be fighting with snakes & flying above your bed while you sleep.
DON'T MIND THOSE LOOKING FOR LARGE BOOBS & ASS, ONCE THERE IS A HOLE THAT GETS WET, MOVE ON IF THE ABOVE TRIO ARE SURE

someone who believes in Jesus
i am comfortable with
who understands me
help me with my weaknesses
not stress over me not dropping my father's name


dont want a nag
and those clingy-overly-emotional guys

presentable babe

whenever person make contribution, una go dey reply trash. behave ursef people.

Blazay:

Yes!


. . . and [size=20pt]emotionally independent!. . . .NOT CLINGY!!! Don't call me but once a month.[/size]

i like this part of the post cos my lady wants me to [size=18pt]call her daily [/size]- why all this - how does a woman think. . .

@ UNPHILAZ,

99.98% of women all over the world want their men to call daily or worse still hourly.Its a universal cry so no big deal if she asks.
In as much as we understand that a man needs his space we still want some assurance.To hear you voice is enough to keep us going. Its like recharging us or fueling a vehicle. In extreme situations it could be as a result of insecurity but in normal circumstances we just want assurance and to hear your voice.Thts why we have nothing to say to you when you pick up the call or vice versa.

upendo 98:

@ UNPHILAZ,

99.98% of women all over the world want their men to call daily or worse still hourly.[/b]Its a universal cry so no big deal if she asks.
In as much as we understand that a man needs his space we still want [b]some assurance.[/b]To hear you voice is enough to keep us going. Its like recharging us or fueling a vehicle. In extreme situations it could be [b]as a result of insecurity [/b]but in normal circumstances we just want assurance and to hear your voice.[b]Thts why we have nothing to say to you when you pick up the call or vice versa.

thanks 4 ur reply

thank God she doesnt want me to call HOURLY - e go be boring

how can one differentiate need for assurance and insecurity, it looks clingy at times.

thanks for being able to put the last bolden in written, i hope to adjust by God's grace.

Fuckin nothin :

(I) Respect
(II) Loving
(III) Kindness
(IV) Good sense of Humor
(V) Romantic and Good Looking

A partner who knows the song in my heart and can sing it back to me when am lonely.

upendo 98:

1.Respect God
2 Great sense of humour. ok nt the sick, lame ,annoying kind of humour
3.Personal hygiene and very very organised. This is key
4.Posess leadership abilities
5.Command respect
6.Financial/Emotional/social stability
7.Killer eyes and smile
8.Good 'normal'physique
9.Not predictable and full of suprises
10.Romantic man
11.Good fashion sense
12.No pot bellies.NO NO
13.Kind but tough too.
14.Not jealous/possesive type
15.Full of life.Not a pessimist but optimist.
16.Know how to fix himself a cup of coffee at least and toast bread.
17.Visionary
18.Should be able to make me a better person and viceversa

Most important we must be compatible.

I possess all of the above , My fiancee must be  very lucky lady , I hope am not blowing ma trumpet, 

I Look out for a Godly lady with a 'Melancholic' temperament.

character and must God-fearing.

Ms. Potato:

He must be

1) Funny - - - - - - - - - I am Ali baba's Master
2) Clean - - - - - - - - - Ever since i was taught cleanliness is next to godliness
3) has a vision - - - - - 100%
4) Catholic - - - - - - - - Mary is my mother
5) Must be black - - - - 100% Black
6) Loyal and sincere - -You can't find anyone better
7) hardworking - - - - - I don push truck before
lovable - - - - - - - - - This is were I am perfect

Here I am ma'am

Is this the lover's shop?

Me think, the real question should be Who are you and What are you bringing to the relationship? . You look and desire for the perfect person and it turns out you disqualify yourself because of your imperfections

I still need a grenade catcher though

A friend, it's as simple as dt.

upendo 98:

1.Respect God
2 Great sense of humour. ok nt the sick, lame ,annoying kind of humour
3.Personal hygiene and very very organised. This is key
4.Posess leadership abilities
5.Command respect
6.Financial/Emotional/social stability
7.Killer eyes and smile
8.Good 'normal'physique
9.Not predictable and full of suprises
10.Romantic man
11.Good fashion sense
12.No pot bellies.NO NO
13.Kind but tough too.
14.Not jealous/possesive type
15.Full of life.Not a pessimist but optimist.
16.Know how to fix himself a cup of coffee at least and toast bread.
17.Visionary
18.Should be able to make me a better person and viceversa

Most important we must be compatible.

You go tey for house oooo   No be curse, just kidin

Nah, more of sex

.

If she can't fck she's useless.

ma friend, is just simply Godliness, it is all encompassing.

talina:

I think its very important to marry someone who is your best friend and lover.

That's it he has to be my best friend and lover 

Foremost, he would have to be a Christian with God the head of his life. He has to know who he is in Christ Jesus. He has to be emotionally ready and mature. The rest Phate you pretty much covered it it. But I can also add, he must be respectful, eccentric with great integrity and family values and morals. He must have a great sense of humor to be compatible with Livedit, share common interests and goals in life.

^^^^ Livedit, I'm curious to know. What will you do if the one you love has erectile dysfunction ?

obowunmi:

If she can't fck she's useless.

obowunmi:

^^^^ Livedit, I'm curious to know. What will you do if the one you love has erectile dysfunction ?

What the?    Where did that question come from?  Well, Livedit had a FWB she use to kick it with who had "ED" and it was quite a challenge.  She basically just dealt with it.  He wasn't interested in any of the ideas I had to help him with his "problem", so she wasn't going to force him.  As long as she was satisfied, she was okay with him.  But if MY husband had that problem, then I would want to get down to the root cause of it.  Try to rule out reasons as to why he would be have these problems.  Rather if it's medically, mentally, stress etc.   I wouldn't love him no less or act any differently towards him.  In most cases,  this problem can be fixed.  If it's unable to be fixed, then him and I would have to find just deal with it and find "other" ways to keep Livedit and him happy.   

livedit:

What the?    Where did that question come from?  Well, Livedit had a FWB she use to kick it with who had "ED" and it was quite a challenge.  She basically just dealt with it.  He wasn't interested in any of the ideas I had to help him with his "problem", so she wasn't going to force him.  As long as she was satisfied, she was okay with him.  But if MY husband had that problem, then I would want to get down to the root cause of it.  Try to rule out reasons as to why he would be have these problems.  Rather if it's medically, mentally, stress etc.   I wouldn't love him no less or act any differently towards him.  In most cases,  this problem can be fixed.  If it's unable to be fixed, then him and I would have to find just deal with it and find "other" ways to keep Livedit and him happy.   

Thank you! I enjoy reading your viewpoints.

You guys are backward Jesus this Jesus that I don't think religion should be  relevant when someone is picking up his/her mate people who cling to religion and wear it on their sleeves tend  not to follow the teaching and  are squarely hypocrites