Jaqenhghar:

I agree on that aint nothing special there. I just dont believe your claims that's all. It's nothing personal

BigBashiru:


How can I be stuck with one woman all my life and why should I?? Think about it! When there are asses of different sizes,so many other kissable gals etc with figure 8. Think about it!

Kobojunkie:
So, in order not to loose everything, marrying a woman and leaving her in Nigeria all but guarantees it won't happen again, right?

Cooooooks

Kobojunkie:
You say this because the marriage laws in Nigeria allowed for the "Nigerian" kind of marriage which basically leaves a woman at the mercy of the man and "breadwinner" right?

Cooooooks

cooooooks:
Then what happens when the woman is the breadwinner, as is sometimes the case?

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Where is the black paint. Between men and women, who paints who black. Go through the post and read comments from male. They don't even want to consider the fact that the way they treat women determines if the woman stays or not. And the way they treat women here is not the same way they would treat them abroad because most men here don't even see their wives as humans.
And even here women who are independent might not take what a woman who doesn't have any personal account would take and the men will call that submissiveness. We always forget that submissiveness is a reaction to the love the man shows to her. The love of the husband comes first before submission. Christians here can go back to their Bible. No normal woman who is treated like a wife will leave the husband.

Mariangeles:



Lekwe ka ha n’egbu gi ilu.
A nukwahu’m nga!

larryking540:

ma ,sorry to say this since I was a kid till now In which I am an adult,your gender will prefer to pick a tout,a gangster,a hot tempered man to a cool headed person or a boring guy ,,,the term boring is what most of your female friends use ,am not trying to Insult you or anyone but that's what we male have come to notice ,,and you can't generalize the whole stuff because one one or one gangster beat up a lady ,then all Nigeria men are the same ,when the ones whom you call boring are ready to listen to you but you don't pick them instead you go for the happening guys

mrbenjame:
Please I need an honest opinion. I’m not saying there’re no good women. But the rate at which women who marry their abroad hubbys and thereafter go to join them overseas and start misbehaving gets me very worried and sometimes afraid. The question is

1. How often does this happen?
2. Should a guy go on to take his chances?
3. Should he marry someone already abroad?
4. Should he settle entirely with another Nationality totally?

Guys make una input o make we know where we Dey.

Kobojunkie:
How many of such cases do you know of that have ended in divorce or the woman abandoning the marriage, this in Nigeria? And how did it go? I ask because I don't know of many such marriages, myself.

cooooooks:
I don't know many divorced couples to start with.
I do know many families where the wife outearns the husband though. Sometimes just a little, sometimes significantly.
Only one of them was/is rocky but more due to their personality than income difference.

mrbenjame:
Please I need an honest opinion. I’m not saying there’re no good women. But the rate at which women who marry their abroad hubbys and thereafter go to join them overseas and start misbehaving gets me very worried and sometimes afraid. The question is

1. How often does this happen?
2. Should a guy go on to take his chances?
3. Should he marry someone already abroad?
4. Should he settle entirely with another Nationality totally?

Guys make una input o make we know where we Dey.

Kobojunkie:
Recall the topic here, or at least my claim was that Nigerian marriages" working in Nigeria because the laws in Nigeria allow it. You brought up cases where the female sit instead as breadwinner and I am wondering at this point how that fits in with the topic we are on.

mrbenjame:
Please I need an honest opinion. I’m not saying there’re no good women. [b]But the rate at which women who marry their abroad hubbys and thereafter go to join them overseas and start misbehaving [/b]gets me very worried and sometimes afraid. The question is

1. How often does this happen?
2. Should a guy go on to take his chances?
3. Should he marry someone already abroad?
4. Should he settle entirely with another Nationality totally?

Guys make una input o make we know where we Dey.

Mariangeles:


When you marry a wife, do you feel you own her more than she owns you?

You have no right to keep a woman where you want her to stay, while you stay faraway for long.
It is unfair and ungodly.

mrbenjame:


Lols. You’re right though. I need the Nigerian kind of marriage. Although I’m not problematic character wise. But my fear is if the woman will give me peace of mind

Exceed15:


I beg you in the name of God don't try it
U will live to regret it.

mrbenjame:
Please I need an honest opinion. I’m not saying there’re no good women. But the rate at which women who marry their abroad hubbys and thereafter go to join them overseas and start misbehaving gets me very worried and sometimes afraid. The question is

1. How often does this happen?
2. Should a guy go on to take his chances?
3. Should he marry someone already abroad?
4. Should he settle entirely with another Nationality totally?

Guys make una input o make we know where we Dey.

sisisioge:
Too much talk about this....why are you particularly scared of marrying a woman in a liberated world or taking a woman from here to a liberated world? People who are reasonable on both sides shouldnt be scared of anything...just be good people and find yourselves good people....EOD.

pocohantas:


What is wrong in cooking for your family? Forgive me, I find arguments like this mundane and irrelevant. Sadly it is what has become the order of the day when marriage is discussed. It shows there is something wrong with us as a people. Both male and female.

You were cooking in Nigeria, suddenly cooking is below you because you are abroad? There are bound to be issues.

Ordinarily, both parties should be helping each other. Domestically and financially, but when one person thinks chores are below him or assisting financially would make her a mumu, wahala done dey. Nigerians play too many mind games and relationships with them wears someone like me out.

You might not cook 7 days a week, but I believe a good husband, be it in Nigeria or Cambodia, should know when his wife has done her best and deserves some rest. On such days she should get her rest.

If her husband is not dicking her and he is making no effort to improve, she can leave the marriage with her dignity and value intact.

No adult abroad has time to even sit and eat three times a day. There are more pressing issues and Nigerian men and women should begin to upgrade their OS. We are too backward in our issues.

yunqdady:

You are just a bitter divorcee. Nothing more.
Cost you nothing to have avoided it but you being woke has landed you on a mess, you are now bitter. It's well with you

wunmi590:


Some of our men with this their shallow mentality, I guess Nigerian men should stop thinking all Nigerian women are gold diggers...

If I have the chance which I'm currently working on, I will take my wife along, infact, I can't travel out for long without letting my wife be beside me...

No be every nigerian woman bad