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Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Kobojunkie: 4:46pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
mrbenjame:Sure, but if a "Nigerian" marriage is what you want, you are best staying in Nigeria to get that. The law and even society abroad makes a "Nigerian" marriage so many times harder to achieve out here than down there in Nigeria. 6 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by mrbenjame: 4:48pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I get you. But Nawa o. Nobody gets it all they say! |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Mariangeles(f): 4:51pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
greenie77: The last part cracked me up! Hehehehehe 6 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Kobojunkie: 4:51pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
mrbenjame:The law and even society abroad makes a "Nigerian" marriage so many times harder to achieve out here than down there in Nigeria. The reason why a "Nigerian" marriage works the way it does in Nigeria is because society condones and allows it to thrive as it does down there. Out here, society moves as a pace that all but forces individuals to try to catch up in order to keep up. And so anything that doesn’t fit with the culture of society is quickly put under enormous stress to adapt/evolve or break. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by pocohantas(f): 5:04pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Oh please, You Nigerian men whine too much. Marry the ones there, una no gree. Marry foreigners, another wahala. Come back home and marry, wailing. What exactly is happening in a marriage abroad that doesn’t happen here? Or you are afraid you can’t batter her, cheat and pursue her from the home you both built? Anything you see Naija men complaining of, just know their wickedness has been checked. The ones with clear conscience and good character might have their fears, but they don’t go on and on about it like this. The way you guys complain of Naija women, one would think your relationships with foreigners last for long. Abi how many old Nigerian men have you seen with foreign wives? All you’ll be hearing is, I dated one Kenyan, Spanish, Polish, British, Finnish… Why you no marry am? Just hope for a good partner. Love, respect, forgive and communicate. Even on Mars, you guys would weather the storm. 63 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Klass99(f): 5:20pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
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Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Martinez39s(m): 5:32pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
DON'T DO IT! DON'T ROLL THE DICE! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by DropsMic(m): 5:32pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Hmm |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by DSC7: 5:33pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Am coming lemme look for what to comment... 3 Likes
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Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Lexusgs430: 5:33pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
mrbenjame: If a woman would be terrible, she would be in the cloud or earth.......... Marriage is always a gamble....... 6 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Loreettaa: 5:34pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Define "misbehave" When you guys marry white women, you cook, clean, care for kids and still work and pay bills. But when you take an African woman who has been marginalised all her life abroad and she realises that women are respected over there and demands more, is that "misbehave"? You want amaka to go abroad and be spoiling her lovely nails cooking breakfast, lunch and dinner 3 times a day, 7 days a week? Or you want Abisola who's barely getting any dicking from you, to be praying and fasting and not to go outside and look for some, LIKE YOU DO? You think it's like Nigeria where you can shame her into submission? For most of you abroadians, we already know you prefer to keep a woman in Nigeria where your family can press her neck if need be. The day chiamaka comes to obodo oyibo will be the death of your fragile ego. 23 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Nobody: 5:34pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Fight go soon start here 10 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by shiwex: 5:35pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
At your own risk |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by BigDawsNet: 5:37pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
It's should be your decision and yours alone... I came to the States with my siblings... Non of us are making any plan to bring any lady or guys here... I'm dating a caucasian My other siblings are dating African Americans 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by BRATISLAVA: 5:37pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Same topic, same baseless abuse everyday just to give men different ways to say the same thing many times in one day. It's obvious that men are always thinking about women--obsessed with them. The so called red pill has killed off too many male braincells that threads like this are the norm. This is the new manhood. And it's gotten so stale so fast. We already know you think all women are a trap set to destroy you. And it's what you expect you will get. Next! 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by MEDOLAB: 5:38pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Klass99:This is a sound opinion. I have learnt a lot that people do not express good news in public as much as negative news. This often makes the bad news to shadow good news as if nothing positive is happening in this world. 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Omniman(m): 5:38pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Time to explore outside the border... Then we can decide |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by jaxxy(m): 5:38pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
mrbenjame: The only type of gal u can take abroad and have no regrets is the well exposed gal that’s still remains humble or respectful. 2 A gal that’s gone through thick and thin with u and was still responsible and respectful. 3. A gals that already stays over there or frequently travels and yet has the attitude u like. Don’t take any gals that hasn’t been tried and tested and she passed abroad or else the freedom and rights there will make her loose her senses. Don’t take a gal that’s with u for the money abroad. It will end in premium tears when she makes more than u or has the power to take Everything u have from u. Don’t take a gal that feels oppressed by guys or roles of guys. Do not take an unexposed gal that ur mother chooses for u claiming she knows her character abroad. It will end in premium tears. Don’t take a gal that is only submissive because she is dependent on u. When she gains independence u will be her 1st rival rather than ally or confidant. Many guys don’t know why a woman is with them or they know and yet choose to be stupid. 52 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by bdon123(m): 5:38pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
mrbenjame:Its true it happens sometimes...bt that should not affect ur decision in marrying a Nigerian woman.Not all women are same...some stay humble no matter wat 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Evercurious(f): 5:39pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
JovialJune: Hmmmm.. nonsense suggestion as if some others are nt working too |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by CsRockefeller(m): 5:40pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Some of you are very bad decision makers, that's why you think a woman you asked to marry you, who you promised to defend and "feed", a help mate, your second in command, suddenly leave her back home because you are scared she would turn against you. If you have this mentality then your decision as a man is faulty. You married a "bad" woman because you are devoid of knowledge and sound judgement. The moment I see/date/court a woman, I can tell (to an extent) what she can and won't do. Any lady who I willingly take to the altar will be left behind because I'm scared of her turning against me if the opportunity presents itself to travel abroad. If while dating, I see that she can't be trusted, then why marry her? Same thing goes for other areas of my life. Learn to screen people and sieve the wheat from the chaff. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Nobody: 5:41pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
PLEASE Don't bring her to the US yet. Not even TEXAS. TEXAS has got the highest number of divorcee Nigerian Ladies who are hell bent on making sure no other marriage sees the light of the day. 36 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by TomRiddle1: 5:41pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Klass99:Hhmm, Na so. |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Evercurious(f): 5:41pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
mrbenjame: If you like take every and anyhow suggestion here... Ask yourself.. ' Are some couples not having a worthy marriage over there? Just be wise and careful to make out what you want for yourself... Everyone's case shldnt and wont be same... Why can't yours be good or better than others?? 9 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by socialmediaman: 5:42pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Klass99: Thanks for the compliment
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Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by abbey621(m): 5:43pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
In life always ask yourself what is the worst case scenario? Once you can answer this confidently, just prepare for it. Whether you marry Amaka from the village and bring her abroad or you marry Vivian that is already abroad, women have one thing in common, they can do and undo. Forget years of love, forget all the lao lao you've done for her, once a trigger is set in a woman, my guy forget about it! The question is simple, will you be one of those guys that falls apart just because something went wrong or will you be a real nigga and rise above it? Don't let fear cause you to miss out on your soulmate, don't let fear engulf you with so much negativity that you automatically make every woman you meet an investigative case. It is okay to trust but only after you've made yourself comfortable with the reality of asking WHAT'S THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN? If you're not comfortable with the answer then you're not ready for marriage, for marriage itself is making yourself vulnerable and trusting that the vulnerability would not be used against you. If it is eventually used against you, trusting that you've prepared for it and you are able to accept this is just a reality of life, for all is fair in love and war my nigga! 31 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by abobote: 5:43pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Me I will be taking my wife and kids by January, I just have to do it for the kids 11 Likes |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by loosecanon50(m): 5:43pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Klass99: Exactly 1 Like |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Evercurious(f): 5:45pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Not true at all 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by pocohantas(f): 5:46pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
abobote: No o. Leave her na. Let the people telling you to leave your wife enter set. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by Evercurious(f): 5:46pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
mrbenjame:Not at all.. He is the one in trouble cos only God knows the pains that is in heart obviously caused by a lady.. He needs serious healing... 1 Like |
Re: Marrying And Taking Her Abroad; A Regret? by walexsho(m): 5:49pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
Marry and let her remain with your parents for a year to study her true color before moving her abroad.That is the Top secrete. Another way is seek legal advise. There are ways to go aboit about it in order not to be in her captivity in future. You can as well do it the CR7 way ... Baby mama 12 Likes |
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